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hardanddeep
2 weeks ago
Straight Female, 52
0 miles · Missouri

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I can relate to your concern. I too don't really like the idea of BIG. For one, I like him to be able to bottom out in me so that I can feel that slap on my clit - that is a must for me, so a 10" that cant do that is useless to me. And the girth, I suppose I could get used to as long as he can accomplish task one. Having been married and monogamous for 25+ years to a very "average" cock, i will likely never really know how I could adjust, but I've proven that an average cock can be VERY satisfying if used properly. smile

Oh yeah, we do have a very large dildo that he thought would be a fun treat for me, but when an artificial substitute is needed, (or he wants to play sloppy seconds) I will use the big boy to make him happy - stretching me out so it feels different to him and he can let his imagination go wild.... but as a rule, I prefer to default to the average size one just because it's more comfortable.

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Quote by sweetbiredhead
Thick is what counts and makes a cock Big for me, 6" and thick is better than 10" with normal girth .



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Yes! Even though I've become more self conscious about my body as I age, I like being watched having sex - a lot!
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Quote by Jinxy
sum of these posts r makin me laugh. 'wut the guy wants' its YOUR body, it should be wut u want.

As for me, it all depends on my mood but usually its going in me, which is where i like it best.


You must be a millennial. lol. It is my body, that I'm sharing with him, for our mutual pleasure. Mutual pleasure. Some of us are still old fashioned and really do get off on pleasing our men. That, in turn, gives us pleasure. And it works both ways, he knows that as long as I CUM, I'm glad to accept his load wherever he wants to put it!

If forced to decide, in me. That's where I like it best too!

My body or not, sex is an act best experienced by TWO who both get something from it. Otherwise, I'd masturbate. Then its all about me.
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Hi Guys,
Well, it appears that I have been awarded a new badge of "Profile Superstar"! While that sounds great, I don't know what it means! lol. I tried hovering over it like the others, which usually gives a brief description as to what the award means, but this one does nothing. Does anyone know what it signifies?

Thanks in advance.

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i'd be tempted to agree with your understanding of oldfatman62's meaning - except for, "Is staying in your race that difficult?"


Point taken. And agreed, the comment is questionable, especially when taken alone and not in the context of the rest of the question. I suppose - as I stated - I choose not to jump on the race card as an impulse - but I analyzed the question more in the regard that I paralleled to the anal trend.

Maybe I, mistakenly or intentionally, looked past his alleged blatant racism and instead inferred the root of his question incorrectly. Regardless, I stand by my analysis no matter what Oldfatman62 meant.
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Wow, Oldfatman62....that went bad really fast for you didn't it? Must be a lot of guilty white people here needing to ease their conscience by standing up for "black cock." Hard to call you racist for asking the question when every video that your describing touts itself as BIG BLACK COCK. Guessing all of these video makers are also racist for using race to describe their videos?

Anyway, I am NOT racist and not afraid to say that I understand what you MEANT.

I have wondered the same thing about anal! It seems every video now days, regardless of topic (or the race of the actors) MUST culminate and/or focus on anal sex to be complete! Why is this? Why would a heterosexual man in a man/woman video forego sliding his cock into a beautiful, perfectly designed pussy - right there in front of him - but instead choose to slide into her ass? Why? Sometimes for a twist I get it (and enjoy it) but almost every video? No.

My guess is that black cock is the same. It's the taboo factor, the fetish factor of the whole legend of black cock. Call it racist if you like, but there IS a prominent historical idea revolving around black cock - and black men in this industry are not afraid to ride it's coattails into any vagina that can handle it, but YOU get berated for asking about it.

The fact that porn is an escape, a fantasy and MOST people in real life barely get any sex, much less enjoy the fringes of fantasy sex displayed in porn, and these things...BBC, anal sex, gangbangs, etc. all excite the fantasies of the vanilla mainstream watching porn.

Just a theory, but it's better than a beat down for asking a question I guess.

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Is it safe to assume that people who choose a picture or other distracting background for their home page never actually look at it? Or never care to read others with this type of background? I have found that in some (many...dare I say most) cases, those clever and creative backgrounds make it virtually impossible to read what they have on there. Color clashes, movement, distractions in general make me click OFF. Am I alone here or do others struggle with this too?
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LINES! Deep, vivid lines. Works to my advantage as he has a weakness for them.
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My husband also has a thing for feet in heels/stockings. As you, loves the look, the implications, and the "mood" that it sets. He finds it very sensual. Its not a "foot worship" thing like some, he simply finds it erotic and the look turns him on.

I try and oblige his fantasy as much as possible! smile
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Love cowgirl! NOT reverse cowgirl though.

With cowgirl I can control it and I can grind my clit the way I like WHEN I like.

And, as far as men being lazy, when we do cowgirl, after a time I will raise up (on one knee and standing on one foot basically at an angle) raising up off of him, and he will pound me UPwards! Wonderful as it smacks my clit.

I can cum SO fast with this wonderful combination.
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Not on a daily wear basis. Special occasions, yes. Its sexy to match and he loves it!
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An enthusiastic YES. I love it. Not sure if its mental, physical or both but I cum harder and he does as well. He can feel it while he's in my pussy and loves it.
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We do it often as well. He loves it, as do I. As to weather I'd do it with a first time lover or without any warning whatsoever....probably not. This came about after years of knowing each others kinks intimately and experimenting with MANY things (and has since became a fetish for him too SereneProdigy) so suprising him with it - probly a no.

Buuuttt....I'll be more men like it than will ever admit to it! smile
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Have done it with one real cock and one dildo....does that count? And it was awesome! Haven't had the chance to enjoy 2 real cocks....yet.
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The opposite would actually do more for ME. One of my fantasies to watch HIM suck another cock. And maybe I could take part. Just a hot fantasy I have, not sure we could do it in real life...but hope to try with an understanding "friend" or couple...
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Quote by Scshavedmom
If I can only pick one it would be vibrator, but prefer dildo inside with vibrator on clit.


Ditto!

What she said!!!!!
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I do NOT!! No spanking for me. Maybe it's because I was beaten regularly as a kid....kinda brings back UN pleasant memories and not feelings of enjoyment.
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Quote by Bronzedfun


Interesting cos you'd look hot in the mirror

Thank you......


and you also like being watched but not watching yourself.

and that is exactly right....what's odd about that? I see every flaw that I know is there, another couple in a dimly lit hotel room/bedroom does not scrutinize nearly as close as I do myself. Trust me!
Im an odd and very unique creature.


Thanks for your contribution smile


You asked.....
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Quote by JohnC

Indeed.... but in all honestly SOME are asked so often that it becomes an issue for some people (and IMO rightly so).

I am glad you responded back though, it puts a different spin on what you posted, that I think most would not have though was intended.


I'm misunderstood a lot sad in this type of forum. Unfortunately, tone, inflection, sarcasm, and intention don't always come across accurately in print!

PLUS....I'm a newbie here too by most standards, as many might be and don't really know all of the ropes yet, and haven't yet been around enough to see the repetition/annoyances that you speak of. I understand your comment though. Thanks for responding and helping clarify. smile