Not my favorite style of panty. We call those granny panties. If they are comfy and make you feel pretty though, more power to you girl! I much prefer bikini style, g-string and tanga style panties and thongs. I especially love thongs in the summer. You might also like the cute ruffle skirted panties.

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So here is my question to those who are genderquestioning, genderqueer or fully transitioned: Given that it focuses more on traditional gender expectations than it does on your personal experience, feelings and expression of gender, is this test helpful to you? I understand that gender identity can't completely be separated from societal norms, and that one often becomes aware of gender dysphoria as the result of their individual traits not matching the expectations of their assigned gender ... so might this be helpful for a younger audience still exploring their abilities and figuring out who they are? I have known many, many people with multiple attributes that misalign versus the expectations: guys who are terrible at directions or are exceptionally empathetic and collaborative; and cis (and trans) women who are really good at math and spatial reasoning or are crudely insensitive. Does focusing so heavily on traditional gender stereotypes contribute to the quality of this questionnaire? Do you find it validating?

That test is a relic from a different time and appears to have come from the 1990s. I wouldn't read too much into it, nor did I take it.

I'd encourage you to bring the subject up. There should be no secrets in relationships and you're never going to be able to stop crossdressing and it is quite likely she will find out anyway eventually. You DO NOT want to treat this as a dirty little secret that she finds and feels deceived by. If you love each other you will be honest with each other. It's quite possible you will have some level of acceptance which may free you to explore more. If not at least it is out in the open and not something she discovers you hid from her. Secrets destroy relationships. Honesty rarely does.

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It’s not necessarily a turn-on but it would be interesting to compare to a natural female pussy.

After 10 years there is literally no difference the vaginal lining is identical.

I love the look of a minidress but the flow and feel of a maxi dress feels so feminine. The best of both worlds are flowy minidresses. So I like fit-and-flow A-line minidresses/short sundresses. I get to show off my legs and still have that flowy, feminine feel.

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Very erotic to fuck your older cis brother and be his first trans lover

Very much so. He's the epitome of a manly man, cis, heterosexual. He's engaged to a really wonderful woman now. But I know that I had to have been one of his first desires and that is both sweet and so kinky.

Okay, I have never admitted this one anywhere but.. I have a fantasy involving my brother. He's 4 years older than me.

Some background on me. I'm trans and came out early to my family. Long story short, I began living my life as a girl from age 7, started testosterone blockers at 12 and estrogen a year and a half later. I never experienced male puberty and my body developed as other girls do. By my teens I became as my big sister told me, "a heartbreaker", a very attractive girl.

One time when my brother was 18 I came home from school early and caught him fapping to trans porn. He was so embarrassed. I had never seen him so vulnerable. He had always been my big brother, my protector. I asked him gently if this was a regular thing for him or the first time he looked at trans porn.

He was flustered, blushing and blurted out. "Look! I watched my little bro become my little sis and grow up to become a hot girl, wtf am I supposed to do?!?!"

I just gave him a hug and told him it was okay and I wouldn't tell anyone. I could feel his cock twitch through the thin fabric of my dress as it pressed up against my tummy. But that was it. We never spoke of it again.

But... ever since that day I have fantasized what would have happened had things gone further..

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Yes to just be dressed up with no judgement and be seduced by a male female both or trans or whoever thot I was sexy enough to qant to fuck me

You'd be surprised how many guys have feminization fantasies. I suspect it is at least 50% of them. I also think they should get to experience it with no judgement.

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My nipples are very sensitive. I can almost nipplegasm

I'm the same way and I have had a nipplegasm once when I was lactating.

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I have ONE fantasy but i'm too shy to admit it so it may have something to do with an Open mouth but for now I'll keep my mouth shut*

You want to give a blow job.

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I am strictly an under dresser CD. Love all lingerie and do have a LBD that I sometimes wear at home

every girl needs a LBD

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The where wasn't all that strange a place, it was in our family-room but, at 15 I was caught by my Aunt who I lived with. I was wearing my cousin's panties, pantyhose, bra, shoes, mini-dress and even make-up. I was laying face down on the couch rubbing myself when my Aunt walked in and caught me. It was very humiliating and even more so when she made me stay dressed so that my two cousins could see me after they came home.

I got caught like that too but it was by my sister! DM me

In my car stuck in traffic on the I-5. I am not sure why but I had become extremely aroused earlier in the day an it didn't subside. So on the way home from work when I realized there'd be no time to get off when I got home due to the traffic I slid my sundress up and started touching myself through my pantyhose. It felt SO good. I grew hard very quickly and began lightly stroking myself through the thin soft nylon. Little did I know a semi had pulled up parked next to me. I was startled when I heard it's loud horn and saw a guy looking out the window grinning ear to ear. I was so embarrassed but even more turned on that I had been caught. I pulled the skirt of my sundress down demurely blushing and then continued rubbing myself through it. It didn't take long before I soaked everything.

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I ordered a bra and pants set from Amazon with a gift card. I was in high school and my parents left me at home for a couple of weeks while they were on a big trip. My big brother had moved out already but he frequently came by the house. I was so nervous that he would come by and open the package, though he normally wouldn't do such a thing. My other fear was it getting accidentally delivered to a neighbor. I was so relieved when it was delivered and I was the only one home. I later threw them away for fear I couldn't keep them hidden. My first in-store purchase was a skirt, a top, and a purse from a thrift store. My heart just about pounded through my chest. I still get very nervous.

Thrift stores are wonderful for cross dressers because typically they see a lot of cross dressers shop at them particularly in larger cities. I can feel how nervous you were! I worked at a thrift as I mentioned earlier and always loved helping girls like you. You should be able to try and buy anything your heart desires. Yes, they're just clothes but I know for crossdressers they're like "forbidden feminine fabrics" and that makes the shopping experience different. It can be thrilling or aggravating that first time. We as a society should be less judgmental of men expressing their feminine side.

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There are porn stars who are a lot more than charicatures, who have good minds and simply chosen the industry because it's one of the few places women without advanced degrees can make a good living. Take Nina Hartley, an RN. RNs with an active license have no trouble getting jobs that pay decently. It's really all on her. There are women in porn I might give more than a tumble.

It's fun even if you have an advanced degree. I was working on mine when I did OnlyFans. My niche audience were nerdy guys who were into space stuff which worked well for me as an astrobio undergrad.

I am not a porn star but I have done OnlyFans sexwork and was quite popular so I can talk about it from that side of things. My boyfriend at the time wasn't crazy about it at first, but we needed the money. Over time he started to actually like it. He'd watch me get ready, he'd sometime hear my little moans and get all turned on. So after a session was over we'd have sex. He found that we were having more sex than before I started OF and he quite enjoyed that. Was he ever a little jealous? Yeah but he also enjoyed that he was the lucky one who got to fuck me for real while everyone else just watched me on a screen. Also since quite often my OF sexwork involved me dressing up in kinky outfits and role play we worked a bit of that into our sex life too, which i loved.

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Hmm. That should even work for a cismale, shouldn't it? thinking dirty thoughts and glancing at a pillow

It should though I wouldn't know. One thing about taking estrogen is your skin and area down there becomes more sensitive so it may be slightly more effective for us t-girls.

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Please show us jasmine

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Yes we all love to jerk off

Gurrrrlllll you need to start using my old technique. Pillow between legs and hump while squeezng your thighs together. It's so much more feminine than just jerking off and feels incredible when you cum.I'd post the gif here but I am not sure I am allowed.

Lovely flowy sundresses, short or knee length, very light and airy with a soft lining are my favorites.

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From a girls point of view I love a guy who crossdresses and will duck me while in his skirt and stockings. I love to see pictures on here of cds who take the time to look good and are willing to show off what they have . (getting wet just thinking of it )

I agree and I realized from visiting this site that I too have a thing for well put together crossdressers. I never saw that coming but I accept it now. Have you ever had an experience with one? I sometimes fantasize about having one. blush

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How many enjoy crossdressing? Do you do it for sexual excitement or just enjoy wearing the clothing?

I am a mix of both. I feel excited sometimes but others I just enjoy wearing lingerie under my regular clothes.
I regularly wear panties at home and when going out. I always have a matching bra and panties when shopping for lingerie.
I love wearing bras! They feel so sexy to me. Seems natural to be wearing one all day and night.

Crossdresser: "I can't wait to put on this bra and maybe go out!!!"

Trans girl: "I can't wait to get home and get out of this bra!!!"

I'm a t-girl but I understand the feelings of crossdressers and I think one thing we both share can be a love for fashion, the sensuality of different fabrics of lingerie, etc. I grew up wearing panties, tops, skirts, dresses and eventually bras so those by themselves don't make me feel sexy the way they do with crossdressers but clothes which are intentionally sensual like sexy lingerie, clubbing outfits, etc do.

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Still figuring it out! Always wished I was a girl. Secretly crossdressed since I can remember. Began thinking I might be trans in high school. I am now out of college and working my first career type job, but still living at home until I can save up a little more money. So I still keep things a secret. But I am dating a guy who appreciates my feminity and I dress for him in private and sometimes we go out to clubs in Atlanta while dressed. He is supportive of me as Amanda, but apprehensive about me fully transitioning, going on hormones, and certainly any surgeries. But I really think that is what I want to do. I feel a lot of pressure to make that decision now while I am young. It causes me tremendous anxiety. But I know I am happiest when I am Amanda.

I think from all that I read, you know what you have to do. And yes it is best to transition while you're younger. You won' regret it like so many older t-girls do. I've heard horror stories that I will never experience because I pretty much transitioned in my teens. Blockers at 12, estrogen at 14, bottom surgery just before college. I never developed facial hair, a deep voice and did not need breast implants. I almost hesitate to call it transitioning. I just grew up as a girl. Unless I tell someone no one knows I'm trans.

At some point during your transition I'd encourage you to move to the Pacific Northwest though. As cosmopolitan as Atlanta is you're surrounded by a lot of unsafe places for trans folks there. There's way more resources for you here too. Also, I live in Seattle and a lot of men here have been with t-girls since Seattle has the highest percentage of trans people, per-capita in the US. So it's more likely to not be as big a deal if you like dating men here.

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I normally maintain a masculine persona. I do love to wear panties at times, but then there are times when I am alone when I like to act very
feminine.
I walk like a girl and kind of go "limp wrist", I find this very relaxing and enjoyable. It's like a break in the action.
Does anyone else ever have times like this?

I'm trans and have always been "girly" since as far back as I can remember. I am ultrafeminine. It's not an act, it's just how I am.

So with that caveat I'd say that if it feels good and gives you joy be as girly as you want doll. It doesn't need to be forced either. Just let it come naturally. Some of the things you wear obviously will make you look more girly so why not just be girly? I mean, walking in high heels is very girly and to me would be just odd if you went through all the trouble to learn that only to suppress a limp wrist. Don't fight your femininity. It's relaxing and enjoyable because it's freeing you to just be however you want in those moments. That's powerful. Being a girl is fun and for guys like you can be quite liberating. Embrace that.

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Good gurl

She really is. Self love and self care is so important, especially for gurls like her. So many wonderful fantasies in her head can lead to wonderful orgasms.

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We are the same, it took me ages to accept it but I’m bi, the label scared me but I can’t deny it,x

As others said, I don't think they should worry too much about the labels since they're just starting to explore their gender identity and sexuality. From what they said I feel they would love being called she/her and being seen that way at least when she is presenting that way. That could fall under any number of labels but it will be up to her to discover those and find one which fits. As for sexuality she may be bi, she may be pan, she may be a number of things but again she'll have to discover what she is comfortable with.

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Makes me sad. I don’t see the big deal with you warning women’s stuff well unless you look better in it than me. As long as u wanted me I would go shopping with you for items.

For a lot of men they feel ashamed because society tells them they can't express any femininity ever or they're not a man. Masculinity for them is very rigid and very fragile at the same time and they enforce this relentlessly. I think more men need to be brave and just say fuck it and doll up for a weekend. Any man whose heart ever fluttered looking at satin panties or a taffeta skirt should get to wear them.

I agree with you, I'd have no problem if my boyfriend wanted to dress up. It would actually be fun! I wouldn't think he was any less of a man either. It would just prove he was his own man not just some drone following what society expects of him.

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Ok, im 30 single guy always considered myself straight. Although for the past 3 years ive been crossdressing, masturbating anally, fantasizing about men, as well as fantasizing about being a woman. I enjoy all this so i can only assume i should test the waters out. My question is. Is this just a fetish or could i possibly be gay or bi? This is something I've wanted to try badly! So i guess maybe im just looking for words of encouragement.

You are experimenting with both your gender identity and sexual orientation. If you find yourself getting a lot of gratification from crossdressing, thinking of yourself as femme and being entered I'd definitely say it's worth learning more about yourself. There are lots of queer clubs where you can go dressed up and perhaps even meet someone who admires your femme self. If the thought of that excites you, go do it! just remember to be safe about everything. if a guy buys you a drink do not let it out of your sight! also if you can find a more experienced crossdresser or trans woman to help you with all of this that may help a lot. It's more fun going places with a friend and safer too.

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Never felt CD fit. I only wear women’s clothing. Any drab cloths I have are in storage. (One box from goodwill). Since wearing skirts and dresses full time. I also wear a lot more jewelry, love my pearls. Love heels. And just started with perfumes. Makeup and/or wigs next. Consider myself trans adjacent. Not wanting to be a “women”, just very feminine. If that makes any sense.

Yes, you are exploring femininity and as you uncover one layer of your feminine self you explore another. you're giving yourself permission to slowly become who you are.

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Wife had a girlfriend that always came over in a g string. Never a thong. She had several and they all had a marble shaped bead that sat on her clit. This made her stay wet, and, in the grind, it would work both clits. She would come over and stay all day. Sometimes overnight. And the string never came off.

Clitoris jewelry is so luxurious and exquisite. I love it!