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I am strictly an under dresser CD. Love all lingerie and do have a LBD that I sometimes wear at home

every girl needs a LBD

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The where wasn't all that strange a place, it was in our family-room but, at 15 I was caught by my Aunt who I lived with. I was wearing my cousin's panties, pantyhose, bra, shoes, mini-dress and even make-up. I was laying face down on the couch rubbing myself when my Aunt walked in and caught me. It was very humiliating and even more so when she made me stay dressed so that my two cousins could see me after they came home.

I got caught like that too but it was by my sister! DM me

In my car stuck in traffic on the I-5. I am not sure why but I had become extremely aroused earlier in the day an it didn't subside. So on the way home from work when I realized there'd be no time to get off when I got home due to the traffic I slid my sundress up and started touching myself through my pantyhose. It felt SO good. I grew hard very quickly and began lightly stroking myself through the thin soft nylon. Little did I know a semi had pulled up parked next to me. I was startled when I heard it's loud horn and saw a guy looking out the window grinning ear to ear. I was so embarrassed but even more turned on that I had been caught. I pulled the skirt of my sundress down demurely blushing and then continued rubbing myself through it. It didn't take long before I soaked everything.

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I ordered a bra and pants set from Amazon with a gift card. I was in high school and my parents left me at home for a couple of weeks while they were on a big trip. My big brother had moved out already but he frequently came by the house. I was so nervous that he would come by and open the package, though he normally wouldn't do such a thing. My other fear was it getting accidentally delivered to a neighbor. I was so relieved when it was delivered and I was the only one home. I later threw them away for fear I couldn't keep them hidden. My first in-store purchase was a skirt, a top, and a purse from a thrift store. My heart just about pounded through my chest. I still get very nervous.

Thrift stores are wonderful for cross dressers because typically they see a lot of cross dressers shop at them particularly in larger cities. I can feel how nervous you were! I worked at a thrift as I mentioned earlier and always loved helping girls like you. You should be able to try and buy anything your heart desires. Yes, they're just clothes but I know for crossdressers they're like "forbidden feminine fabrics" and that makes the shopping experience different. It can be thrilling or aggravating that first time. We as a society should be less judgmental of men expressing their feminine side.

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There are porn stars who are a lot more than charicatures, who have good minds and simply chosen the industry because it's one of the few places women without advanced degrees can make a good living. Take Nina Hartley, an RN. RNs with an active license have no trouble getting jobs that pay decently. It's really all on her. There are women in porn I might give more than a tumble.

It's fun even if you have an advanced degree. I was working on mine when I did OnlyFans. My niche audience were nerdy guys who were into space stuff which worked well for me as an astrobio undergrad.

I am not a porn star but I have done OnlyFans sexwork and was quite popular so I can talk about it from that side of things. My boyfriend at the time wasn't crazy about it at first, but we needed the money. Over time he started to actually like it. He'd watch me get ready, he'd sometime hear my little moans and get all turned on. So after a session was over we'd have sex. He found that we were having more sex than before I started OF and he quite enjoyed that. Was he ever a little jealous? Yeah but he also enjoyed that he was the lucky one who got to fuck me for real while everyone else just watched me on a screen. Also since quite often my OF sexwork involved me dressing up in kinky outfits and role play we worked a bit of that into our sex life too, which i loved.

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Hmm. That should even work for a cismale, shouldn't it? thinking dirty thoughts and glancing at a pillow

It should though I wouldn't know. One thing about taking estrogen is your skin and area down there becomes more sensitive so it may be slightly more effective for us t-girls.

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Please show us jasmine

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Yes we all love to jerk off

Gurrrrlllll you need to start using my old technique. Pillow between legs and hump while squeezng your thighs together. It's so much more feminine than just jerking off and feels incredible when you cum.I'd post the gif here but I am not sure I am allowed.

Lovely flowy sundresses, short or knee length, very light and airy with a soft lining are my favorites.

Quote by cookie2800
From a girls point of view I love a guy who crossdresses and will duck me while in his skirt and stockings. I love to see pictures on here of cds who take the time to look good and are willing to show off what they have . (getting wet just thinking of it )

I agree and I realized from visiting this site that I too have a thing for well put together crossdressers. I never saw that coming but I accept it now. Have you ever had an experience with one? I sometimes fantasize about having one. blush

Quote by garterbelt
How many enjoy crossdressing? Do you do it for sexual excitement or just enjoy wearing the clothing?

I am a mix of both. I feel excited sometimes but others I just enjoy wearing lingerie under my regular clothes.
I regularly wear panties at home and when going out. I always have a matching bra and panties when shopping for lingerie.
I love wearing bras! They feel so sexy to me. Seems natural to be wearing one all day and night.

Crossdresser: "I can't wait to put on this bra and maybe go out!!!"

Trans girl: "I can't wait to get home and get out of this bra!!!"

I'm a t-girl but I understand the feelings of crossdressers and I think one thing we both share can be a love for fashion, the sensuality of different fabrics of lingerie, etc. I grew up wearing panties, tops, skirts, dresses and eventually bras so those by themselves don't make me feel sexy the way they do with crossdressers but clothes which are intentionally sensual like sexy lingerie, clubbing outfits, etc do.

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Still figuring it out! Always wished I was a girl. Secretly crossdressed since I can remember. Began thinking I might be trans in high school. I am now out of college and working my first career type job, but still living at home until I can save up a little more money. So I still keep things a secret. But I am dating a guy who appreciates my feminity and I dress for him in private and sometimes we go out to clubs in Atlanta while dressed. He is supportive of me as Amanda, but apprehensive about me fully transitioning, going on hormones, and certainly any surgeries. But I really think that is what I want to do. I feel a lot of pressure to make that decision now while I am young. It causes me tremendous anxiety. But I know I am happiest when I am Amanda.

I think from all that I read, you know what you have to do. And yes it is best to transition while you're younger. You won' regret it like so many older t-girls do. I've heard horror stories that I will never experience because I pretty much transitioned in my teens. Blockers at 12, estrogen at 14, bottom surgery just before college. I never developed facial hair, a deep voice and did not need breast implants. I almost hesitate to call it transitioning. I just grew up as a girl. Unless I tell someone no one knows I'm trans.

At some point during your transition I'd encourage you to move to the Pacific Northwest though. As cosmopolitan as Atlanta is you're surrounded by a lot of unsafe places for trans folks there. There's way more resources for you here too. Also, I live in Seattle and a lot of men here have been with t-girls since Seattle has the highest percentage of trans people, per-capita in the US. So it's more likely to not be as big a deal if you like dating men here.

Quote by Imabadboi66
I normally maintain a masculine persona. I do love to wear panties at times, but then there are times when I am alone when I like to act very
feminine.
I walk like a girl and kind of go "limp wrist", I find this very relaxing and enjoyable. It's like a break in the action.
Does anyone else ever have times like this?

I'm trans and have always been "girly" since as far back as I can remember. I am ultrafeminine. It's not an act, it's just how I am.

So with that caveat I'd say that if it feels good and gives you joy be as girly as you want doll. It doesn't need to be forced either. Just let it come naturally. Some of the things you wear obviously will make you look more girly so why not just be girly? I mean, walking in high heels is very girly and to me would be just odd if you went through all the trouble to learn that only to suppress a limp wrist. Don't fight your femininity. It's relaxing and enjoyable because it's freeing you to just be however you want in those moments. That's powerful. Being a girl is fun and for guys like you can be quite liberating. Embrace that.

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Good gurl

She really is. Self love and self care is so important, especially for gurls like her. So many wonderful fantasies in her head can lead to wonderful orgasms.

Quote by Artus

We are the same, it took me ages to accept it but I’m bi, the label scared me but I can’t deny it,x

As others said, I don't think they should worry too much about the labels since they're just starting to explore their gender identity and sexuality. From what they said I feel they would love being called she/her and being seen that way at least when she is presenting that way. That could fall under any number of labels but it will be up to her to discover those and find one which fits. As for sexuality she may be bi, she may be pan, she may be a number of things but again she'll have to discover what she is comfortable with.

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Makes me sad. I don’t see the big deal with you warning women’s stuff well unless you look better in it than me. As long as u wanted me I would go shopping with you for items.

For a lot of men they feel ashamed because society tells them they can't express any femininity ever or they're not a man. Masculinity for them is very rigid and very fragile at the same time and they enforce this relentlessly. I think more men need to be brave and just say fuck it and doll up for a weekend. Any man whose heart ever fluttered looking at satin panties or a taffeta skirt should get to wear them.

I agree with you, I'd have no problem if my boyfriend wanted to dress up. It would actually be fun! I wouldn't think he was any less of a man either. It would just prove he was his own man not just some drone following what society expects of him.

Quote by Tiffishot29
Ok, im 30 single guy always considered myself straight. Although for the past 3 years ive been crossdressing, masturbating anally, fantasizing about men, as well as fantasizing about being a woman. I enjoy all this so i can only assume i should test the waters out. My question is. Is this just a fetish or could i possibly be gay or bi? This is something I've wanted to try badly! So i guess maybe im just looking for words of encouragement.

You are experimenting with both your gender identity and sexual orientation. If you find yourself getting a lot of gratification from crossdressing, thinking of yourself as femme and being entered I'd definitely say it's worth learning more about yourself. There are lots of queer clubs where you can go dressed up and perhaps even meet someone who admires your femme self. If the thought of that excites you, go do it! just remember to be safe about everything. if a guy buys you a drink do not let it out of your sight! also if you can find a more experienced crossdresser or trans woman to help you with all of this that may help a lot. It's more fun going places with a friend and safer too.

Quote by Pauline53

Never felt CD fit. I only wear women’s clothing. Any drab cloths I have are in storage. (One box from goodwill). Since wearing skirts and dresses full time. I also wear a lot more jewelry, love my pearls. Love heels. And just started with perfumes. Makeup and/or wigs next. Consider myself trans adjacent. Not wanting to be a “women”, just very feminine. If that makes any sense.

Yes, you are exploring femininity and as you uncover one layer of your feminine self you explore another. you're giving yourself permission to slowly become who you are.

Quote by Jody

Wife had a girlfriend that always came over in a g string. Never a thong. She had several and they all had a marble shaped bead that sat on her clit. This made her stay wet, and, in the grind, it would work both clits. She would come over and stay all day. Sometimes overnight. And the string never came off.

Clitoris jewelry is so luxurious and exquisite. I love it!

I'm in a sapphic mood so Charlie XCX

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Interesting way to get off. For both of them.

Both of who?

Did someone ask about technique?

Quote by lisa95
Hell yes !!! My mom all dress me in my sisters old hand me down. My dad pet name for me went I was young his little princess. My mom was great teacher how to dress, cook , sew. I was so lucky to have my sister and my baby sister danni69. say hi to her she having a hard time.

I too had a helpful older sister who gave me her hand me downs and helped me come out to my family.

I like cute necklaces usually. But I also have some very nice chockers including a fancy fake rhinestone choker which looks so good with a little black dress.

Is this for a story? If so I'd need to know more about the story. You can private message me if you don't want to share that here.

I am a total bottom and always have been, even prior to surgery. I love everything about being under the other person, on my tummy or back and being fucked silly. I feel so feminine when this happens. Although I prefer men I have been pegged by a lesbian woman and that was an intense experience unlike any I've ever had. I'd love to be with another t-girl who likes to top.

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well if we are really talking about men making the full-time transition to female then the only answer is bottom because of course they want to be women and that includes only having sex like one. If you still feel like being on top you are just dressing up for the sexual kick but it has nothing to do with actually wanting to be a woman

Have you ever heard of lesbians or straight women who like to peg?

Quote by Tkdvrman1
Black thigh high stockings black bra and matching thongs used my wife’s mini skirt and blouse and her 4in knee high boots I was sitting st the bar in our house when she walked in that was the first night she pegged my ass

You really need to write this up as a story.

Quote by Guest
junior high school for me.I was already dressing in my sisters things, she told me to get my own so we went to the mall together and she helped me pic somethings out ,bought a cute dress too

What was it like for you? What did you buy? I loved when my sister took me shopping. She had been giving me her old clothes as she's older than me but the first time she took me shopping with her was wonderful as I now was getting my own stuff.