Quote by AmandaCD4U

Still figuring it out! Always wished I was a girl. Secretly crossdressed since I can remember. Began thinking I might be trans in high school. I am now out of college and working my first career type job, but still living at home until I can save up a little more money. So I still keep things a secret. But I am dating a guy who appreciates my feminity and I dress for him in private and sometimes we go out to clubs in Atlanta while dressed. He is supportive of me as Amanda, but apprehensive about me fully transitioning, going on hormones, and certainly any surgeries. But I really think that is what I want to do. I feel a lot of pressure to make that decision now while I am young. It causes me tremendous anxiety. But I know I am happiest when I am Amanda.

I think from all that I read, you know what you have to do. And yes it is best to transition while you're younger. You won' regret it like so many older t-girls do. I've heard horror stories that I will never experience because I pretty much transitioned in my teens. Blockers at 12, estrogen at 14, bottom surgery just before college. I never developed facial hair, a deep voice and did not need breast implants. I almost hesitate to call it transitioning. I just grew up as a girl. Unless I tell someone no one knows I'm trans.

At some point during your transition I'd encourage you to move to the Pacific Northwest though. As cosmopolitan as Atlanta is you're surrounded by a lot of unsafe places for trans folks there. There's way more resources for you here too. Also, I live in Seattle and a lot of men here have been with t-girls since Seattle has the highest percentage of trans people, per-capita in the US. So it's more likely to not be as big a deal if you like dating men here.

Quote by Imabadboi66
I normally maintain a masculine persona. I do love to wear panties at times, but then there are times when I am alone when I like to act very
feminine.
I walk like a girl and kind of go "limp wrist", I find this very relaxing and enjoyable. It's like a break in the action.
Does anyone else ever have times like this?

I'm trans and have always been "girly" since as far back as I can remember. I am ultrafeminine. It's not an act, it's just how I am.

So with that caveat I'd say that if it feels good and gives you joy be as girly as you want doll. It doesn't need to be forced either. Just let it come naturally. Some of the things you wear obviously will make you look more girly so why not just be girly? I mean, walking in high heels is very girly and to me would be just odd if you went through all the trouble to learn that only to suppress a limp wrist. Don't fight your femininity. It's relaxing and enjoyable because it's freeing you to just be however you want in those moments. That's powerful. Being a girl is fun and for guys like you can be quite liberating. Embrace that.

Quote by Heathercd

Good gurl

She really is. Self love and self care is so important, especially for gurls like her. So many wonderful fantasies in her head can lead to wonderful orgasms.

Quote by Artus

We are the same, it took me ages to accept it but I’m bi, the label scared me but I can’t deny it,x

As others said, I don't think they should worry too much about the labels since they're just starting to explore their gender identity and sexuality. From what they said I feel they would love being called she/her and being seen that way at least when she is presenting that way. That could fall under any number of labels but it will be up to her to discover those and find one which fits. As for sexuality she may be bi, she may be pan, she may be a number of things but again she'll have to discover what she is comfortable with.

Quote by SexyFoolishNun101

Makes me sad. I don’t see the big deal with you warning women’s stuff well unless you look better in it than me. As long as u wanted me I would go shopping with you for items.

For a lot of men they feel ashamed because society tells them they can't express any femininity ever or they're not a man. Masculinity for them is very rigid and very fragile at the same time and they enforce this relentlessly. I think more men need to be brave and just say fuck it and doll up for a weekend. Any man whose heart ever fluttered looking at satin panties or a taffeta skirt should get to wear them.

I agree with you, I'd have no problem if my boyfriend wanted to dress up. It would actually be fun! I wouldn't think he was any less of a man either. It would just prove he was his own man not just some drone following what society expects of him.

Quote by Tiffishot29
Ok, im 30 single guy always considered myself straight. Although for the past 3 years ive been crossdressing, masturbating anally, fantasizing about men, as well as fantasizing about being a woman. I enjoy all this so i can only assume i should test the waters out. My question is. Is this just a fetish or could i possibly be gay or bi? This is something I've wanted to try badly! So i guess maybe im just looking for words of encouragement.

You are experimenting with both your gender identity and sexual orientation. If you find yourself getting a lot of gratification from crossdressing, thinking of yourself as femme and being entered I'd definitely say it's worth learning more about yourself. There are lots of queer clubs where you can go dressed up and perhaps even meet someone who admires your femme self. If the thought of that excites you, go do it! just remember to be safe about everything. if a guy buys you a drink do not let it out of your sight! also if you can find a more experienced crossdresser or trans woman to help you with all of this that may help a lot. It's more fun going places with a friend and safer too.

Quote by Pauline53

Never felt CD fit. I only wear women’s clothing. Any drab cloths I have are in storage. (One box from goodwill). Since wearing skirts and dresses full time. I also wear a lot more jewelry, love my pearls. Love heels. And just started with perfumes. Makeup and/or wigs next. Consider myself trans adjacent. Not wanting to be a “women”, just very feminine. If that makes any sense.

Yes, you are exploring femininity and as you uncover one layer of your feminine self you explore another. you're giving yourself permission to slowly become who you are.

Quote by Jody

Wife had a girlfriend that always came over in a g string. Never a thong. She had several and they all had a marble shaped bead that sat on her clit. This made her stay wet, and, in the grind, it would work both clits. She would come over and stay all day. Sometimes overnight. And the string never came off.

Clitoris jewelry is so luxurious and exquisite. I love it!

I'm in a sapphic mood so Charlie XCX

Quote by darkroot50

Interesting way to get off. For both of them.

Both of who?

Did someone ask about technique?

Quote by lisa95
Hell yes !!! My mom all dress me in my sisters old hand me down. My dad pet name for me went I was young his little princess. My mom was great teacher how to dress, cook , sew. I was so lucky to have my sister and my baby sister danni69. say hi to her she having a hard time.

I too had a helpful older sister who gave me her hand me downs and helped me come out to my family.

I like cute necklaces usually. But I also have some very nice chockers including a fancy fake rhinestone choker which looks so good with a little black dress.

Is this for a story? If so I'd need to know more about the story. You can private message me if you don't want to share that here.

I am a total bottom and always have been, even prior to surgery. I love everything about being under the other person, on my tummy or back and being fucked silly. I feel so feminine when this happens. Although I prefer men I have been pegged by a lesbian woman and that was an intense experience unlike any I've ever had. I'd love to be with another t-girl who likes to top.

Quote by xXMister_TXx
well if we are really talking about men making the full-time transition to female then the only answer is bottom because of course they want to be women and that includes only having sex like one. If you still feel like being on top you are just dressing up for the sexual kick but it has nothing to do with actually wanting to be a woman

Have you ever heard of lesbians or straight women who like to peg?

Quote by Tkdvrman1
Black thigh high stockings black bra and matching thongs used my wife’s mini skirt and blouse and her 4in knee high boots I was sitting st the bar in our house when she walked in that was the first night she pegged my ass

You really need to write this up as a story.

Quote by Guest
junior high school for me.I was already dressing in my sisters things, she told me to get my own so we went to the mall together and she helped me pic somethings out ,bought a cute dress too

What was it like for you? What did you buy? I loved when my sister took me shopping. She had been giving me her old clothes as she's older than me but the first time she took me shopping with her was wonderful as I now was getting my own stuff.

Quote by SammiTS
I was in high school and bought some panties at the mall. My heart was beating so fast. I rushed home to put them on and never looked back.

I feel like for us t-girls that first time is like burned into our very being. What were yours like?

Quote by MelanieCD
T-girls and cross dressers what was the first item of feminine attire that you BOUGHT and where?
For me it was a burgundy padded bra and matching thong from Target. It was where I was at when the urge and courage hit me to finally buy something of my own. My guys parts kept falling out of the thong. Finally found a style that holds everything in. I tend to buy a lot from Marshalls, TJMaxx, Burlington Coat, Victoria Secret and DSW and department stores.

I may be in the minority here but my first feminine attire was bought for me: https://www.lushstories.com/forum/lgbtq-community-forum/crossdressing-8?post=4076326

But the first things I bought for myself I was a crop top and denim miniskirt when I was 14. That's when I actually paid for my clothes the first time on a shopping trip with my big sister. Before then I had been on shopping trips with my mom but she always paid.

Quote by BiMtPhoto
Who would you like to go DOWN on same-sex...OR NOT

I'm mostly into guys but if she was into it and wanted me to, Ariana Grande.

Try asking on the sissy reddits. /r/SissyDresses has some nice people who may be able to point you the right direction.

Quote by MakeMeDoAnything

Thank you jasmine for your words of encouragement! I have always been attracted trans gurls as I envied their clothing and lifestyle! I have always been intrigued by sexy accoutrements... I would get an instant hard-on when I would see just a bra strap or spot a thong panty through some pants or shorts. Mmmm So sexy. I think that perhaps I am not wanting to be a gurl but more wanting to be with a gurl wo wants to be loved and adored and truly enjoys all the loving a man (or gurl) can possibly give them. Just having a super horny participant would be absolutely incredible!! Oh to Dream!!❤️

Thank you for sharing that. all i can say is "we out here". you should check the CD/Trans chatroom on this site.

I came out to my parents as trans when I was 6. I didn't know the name for what I was but I knew I was a girl inside. I am forever grateful for my understanding parents and family. You can read about my coming out in this post in this thread: https://www.lushstories.com/forum/lgbtq-community-forum/crossdressing-8?post=4076326

Quote by MakeMeDoAnything

. I have never been passable as I have a manly large frame and face. i am not into men per se but into gurl cock only. Does it make sense that I am not gay but more into feminine gurls with cocks? Am I a sicko? Just love girly feminine underwear and every thing under them!! I suppose I that I am loving what I am and searching for that feeling with another gurl. Oh to dream...!!❤️

I don't think you're a sicko. It's pretty common for straight guys to be turned on by us transgirls. Especially ultra feminine ones. And for you, I think there may be an aspect of seeing what might have been your path in pretty t-girls. I think you might close your eyes in your solo masturbation sessions, imagining you're them so it's sort of like you're living vicariously through us? does that sound about right?

Imagine asking this question on this site lol. Of course I do.

As t-girl, when I was pre-op I had some very advanced ways of masturbating without touching the sexual organ I no longer have. In my teens I used to masturbate every day.

Now I do maybe once or twice a week. I love using my hitatchi magic wand or other toys on my girl parts. Right after healing from surgery I did masturbate a lot more because I was fascinated and exploring my body in ways I couldn't before.

This has changed for me. Before surgery it was when he first entered me. But now with my vagina it's when he is fucking me fast and his balls are hitting and i can feel all the sensations of pleasure building up inside me as i feel my muscles down there contract around his cock which just makes me tighter and more fun for him to fuck.

Quote by SexyCDMonica469
I haven't done this in a while but I used to lie on my side in bed, put my dick between my legs, and when it got hard squeeze my thighs until I'd cum. I also used to lie on my back in bed and kind of squeeze my thigh muscles so I could lift my dick up off my belly a little bit over and over again. Brushing against the coners would make me cum.

When I was still preop I would tuck it back and sometimes when I'd be feeling really sexy I'd squeeze my thighs together like you are talking about and I'd cum, usually i'd be wearing pantyhose.

another thing I'd do is put a pillow between my legs and squeeze.

Quote by nycdoc319

Yes, I remember when I was 5 her dressing me. I protested but secretly loved getting dressed and having lipstick put on my lips

did you ever tell her you liked it?

Quote by Yael_L

I never had anyone to help me dress until I was in my 50s and went for a professional makeover. I really wish that I had an older sister that could have helped me. I started dressing around 10 when I have the house to myself. I had the pleasure of being told most of my early life that I was supposed to be a girl by my mother.

Do you think your mom would have helped you if you told her you wanted to dress as a girl after she told you you were supposed to be a girl?