I have been married to my wife for several years and are at a stage where we are trying to keep the spice in the bedroom going. When we have sex its amazing but not as frequent as we would like.

Anyway my wife has been talking more and more about being dominated and used by me for my sexual pleasure. She will wear sexy underwear, makeup and sexy leather wristlets cuffs. Her whole attitude changes and is a big turn on for both of us.

She also like an element of pain, from pinching nipples to slaps of body parts.

She want to take it further, but I dont know how.....any advice would be appreciated.