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krystalg
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 43
United States
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Smut-slinging slut
On myself, masturbation and I quickly became addicted.
By another, getting felt up and then fingered; also the first time I gave a "sort of" hand job.
First orgasm by another, my friend Jen as she and I were figuring out what we do and do not like. That night was also the first time I went down on another girl.
By another, getting felt up and then fingered; also the first time I gave a "sort of" hand job.
First orgasm by another, my friend Jen as she and I were figuring out what we do and do not like. That night was also the first time I went down on another girl.
Smut-slinging slut
I'm not involved in an exclusive relationship and have not been for many years. However, my views on the matter are that cheating is a betrayal. It isn't the act of the sex, it is breaking the agreement of exclusivity that is the betrayal. If all parties concerned are in the know and are fine with things, then play on!
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Lihn,
For whatever it may be worth i am a gold member and my latest work has been in Lush-Limbo for 3 days now. I see that the moderators are viewing it because the views go up every day, but it hasn't been returned or accepted as of yet. From what I gather the moderators are a bit overwhelmed and many of them are taking some time off. Have faith, though. I know how it goes; the waiting game part only further reveals to me that i need to work on my patience. I look forward to reading your work.
For whatever it may be worth i am a gold member and my latest work has been in Lush-Limbo for 3 days now. I see that the moderators are viewing it because the views go up every day, but it hasn't been returned or accepted as of yet. From what I gather the moderators are a bit overwhelmed and many of them are taking some time off. Have faith, though. I know how it goes; the waiting game part only further reveals to me that i need to work on my patience. I look forward to reading your work.
Smut-slinging slut
This is probably an extremely ignorant question, but I'll proudly show off my lack of experience and knowledge by asking...
I recently relayed my fantasy of being tied up, made to submit, and spanked all over with a riding crop by another woman, preferably a brunette, to my lover. Of course he knew somebody that might be perfect and asked if I might be interested in talking to her about it. I mulled it over and decided to talk things out with her.
I'm a bit flabbergasted about our first meeting. We met over lunch (nowhere fancy) and she asked me tons of questions about my expectations, what I might like or not enjoy, what my soft and hard limits might be (I had to ask what those were), etc. It was explained to me that this is the "normal" for D&S type arrangements; that what either party expects, desires, or wants to explore is mutually agreed upon before anything happens. I was even told that for long-term arrangements that a contract is not uncommon, and that it was probably the only thing that the movies got correct.
First off, if this is true for the lifestyle, I'm impressed and had no idea that the surrender of control was actually so...controlled-and at the discretion of the one submitting. But I cannot help but wonder; is this really how it is; everything laid out in advance and boundaries set? I had this "forced to submit" idea running through my head and was very intimidated about it, but I was informed by her that all "force" is consensual.
I recently relayed my fantasy of being tied up, made to submit, and spanked all over with a riding crop by another woman, preferably a brunette, to my lover. Of course he knew somebody that might be perfect and asked if I might be interested in talking to her about it. I mulled it over and decided to talk things out with her.
I'm a bit flabbergasted about our first meeting. We met over lunch (nowhere fancy) and she asked me tons of questions about my expectations, what I might like or not enjoy, what my soft and hard limits might be (I had to ask what those were), etc. It was explained to me that this is the "normal" for D&S type arrangements; that what either party expects, desires, or wants to explore is mutually agreed upon before anything happens. I was even told that for long-term arrangements that a contract is not uncommon, and that it was probably the only thing that the movies got correct.
First off, if this is true for the lifestyle, I'm impressed and had no idea that the surrender of control was actually so...controlled-and at the discretion of the one submitting. But I cannot help but wonder; is this really how it is; everything laid out in advance and boundaries set? I had this "forced to submit" idea running through my head and was very intimidated about it, but I was informed by her that all "force" is consensual.
Smut-slinging slut
I concur. There isn't any sort of "go-to" thought or memory that fills my heart with desire and my loins with fire. It is all emotion, mood, and things being perceived in the right way by me. It is a combination of mood, the events of the moment, environment, and many other factors.
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By the goddess, this is embarrassing!
When I have really amazing sex with somebody I find myself constantly replaying it my mind the day after, and the day after that, etc. I do this over and over, thinking about how the emotions surged through me, how it felt, how they reacted, how hard I orgasmed. I mull over every little detail until I have myself so worked up that I end up masturbating over the amazing sex I just had.
Am I the only one, or is this fairly common?
When I have really amazing sex with somebody I find myself constantly replaying it my mind the day after, and the day after that, etc. I do this over and over, thinking about how the emotions surged through me, how it felt, how they reacted, how hard I orgasmed. I mull over every little detail until I have myself so worked up that I end up masturbating over the amazing sex I just had.
Am I the only one, or is this fairly common?
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I, too, am a bad-dragon-owning member of the Hell Yes club.
A dildo lasts as long as you want it.
A dildo won't get upset if you use it while reading
A dildo doesn't steal the covers afterwards
A dildo never asks me if there's another dildo
If I want to enjoy two or more dildos at the same time it doesn't freak out later and get all insecure
A dildo lasts as long as you want it.
A dildo won't get upset if you use it while reading
A dildo doesn't steal the covers afterwards
A dildo never asks me if there's another dildo
If I want to enjoy two or more dildos at the same time it doesn't freak out later and get all insecure
Smut-slinging slut
It very recently happened to me. In retrospect, I wrote it more for myself than for anyone else and therefore it is special to me, but just another story in a sea of others to everyone else.
It would be enjoyable for it to have been better-received, but my main satisfaction was actually in being able to write something coherent...for once in a row...anything else is just icing on the cake.
It would be enjoyable for it to have been better-received, but my main satisfaction was actually in being able to write something coherent...for once in a row...anything else is just icing on the cake.
Smut-slinging slut
I can truly relate to this topic. My last serious significant other was open-minded and wild; at first. I really thought that I had found somebody that I can be my true and open self around. As the newness wore off he became more insecure, more possessive, and more jealous. In order to keep him happy I found myself taming down, stopped visiting most of the websites I frequented (including this one), and I somehow, very slowly, stopped being myself.
I felt that something was wrong with "us" and did everything I could to make us better. I'm embarrassed to say that we lingered in that sort of limbo for far too long. It got to the point where I wouldn't even comment on how I found a particular actor or actress physically attractive, lest we get into an argument. I broke it off. Luckily, the new people in my life are open to accepting me for who I am, and that includes my love of reading erotica and my desire to be at least decent at writing it. In fact, the guy I'm seeing now is partially responsible for me becoming active again. I had begun visiting the site once more, keeping a low profile, and he saw it and I just told him what it was and that I had written a few stories here some years ago. He asked if he could read one and I let him. He went on and on about how well-written it was, how he could feel the emotions and tension, and also so hot and sexy. From now on, if anybody I'm involved with doesn't like my naughty hobby, I have an entire ass they can kiss.
I felt that something was wrong with "us" and did everything I could to make us better. I'm embarrassed to say that we lingered in that sort of limbo for far too long. It got to the point where I wouldn't even comment on how I found a particular actor or actress physically attractive, lest we get into an argument. I broke it off. Luckily, the new people in my life are open to accepting me for who I am, and that includes my love of reading erotica and my desire to be at least decent at writing it. In fact, the guy I'm seeing now is partially responsible for me becoming active again. I had begun visiting the site once more, keeping a low profile, and he saw it and I just told him what it was and that I had written a few stories here some years ago. He asked if he could read one and I let him. He went on and on about how well-written it was, how he could feel the emotions and tension, and also so hot and sexy. From now on, if anybody I'm involved with doesn't like my naughty hobby, I have an entire ass they can kiss.
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Thanks everyone!
Honestly, I had already deleted it and then emptied my recycle bin before I asked the question. I was focusing on the wrong things and, to me, it read like Dostoyevsky; very pedantic. In the future I'll probably heed everyone's advice and let it sit until I can make it acceptable to myself. On this one, though, it seemed like the thing to do.
Honestly, I had already deleted it and then emptied my recycle bin before I asked the question. I was focusing on the wrong things and, to me, it read like Dostoyevsky; very pedantic. In the future I'll probably heed everyone's advice and let it sit until I can make it acceptable to myself. On this one, though, it seemed like the thing to do.
Smut-slinging slut
Hiya All!
I just published a story about my weekend with my lover, well part of my weekend. It was originally much longer as I detailed how we met, etcetera, and so on. It also focused on my feelings and reactions. I had thought that a recount of how we met would make fore a wonderful, romantic, and hot story. Regretfully, after I wrote it, I read it over and, objectively speaking, while romantic and perhaps entertaining (I felt I had some good phrases and wording) it wasn't overly erotic or really even warming up until almost 10 pages in.
I know my problem is that I'm too focused on what I was feeling emotionally, why I felt that way, and all the events just seemed so different.
when you write something and you feel it is not worthy for publication here, do you trash it into the recycle bin or do you let it sit for future revision? why do you do that and how does it work out for you in the end?
thanks
I just published a story about my weekend with my lover, well part of my weekend. It was originally much longer as I detailed how we met, etcetera, and so on. It also focused on my feelings and reactions. I had thought that a recount of how we met would make fore a wonderful, romantic, and hot story. Regretfully, after I wrote it, I read it over and, objectively speaking, while romantic and perhaps entertaining (I felt I had some good phrases and wording) it wasn't overly erotic or really even warming up until almost 10 pages in.
I know my problem is that I'm too focused on what I was feeling emotionally, why I felt that way, and all the events just seemed so different.
when you write something and you feel it is not worthy for publication here, do you trash it into the recycle bin or do you let it sit for future revision? why do you do that and how does it work out for you in the end?
thanks
Smut-slinging slut
Specifically to go out and find somebody for sex? Only a few times and about 50/50.
Usually I just get in a naughty mood and feel like showing off a bit. If I find a willing, respectful spectator and they seem safe and sane and I find them hot then perhaps a lucky lady or lad might get some impromptu playtime.
Usually I just get in a naughty mood and feel like showing off a bit. If I find a willing, respectful spectator and they seem safe and sane and I find them hot then perhaps a lucky lady or lad might get some impromptu playtime.
Smut-slinging slut
I'm not really a writer, I just want to be one as I think it is a fine hobby.
My opinion is that writers, poets, musicians, and artists are more in touch with their emotions because they, by necessity, need to somehow convey that to others. All art is only art if it moves the observer, or viewer, or reader, on some emotional level. because we attempt to convey what we feel, how it moves us, and what we do about it in our writing we are more readily able to sense any emotional states within ourselves. Elation or depression, it doesn't matter. We evoke powerful emotion with our prose (well, you do, I am trying to learn) and because of that we feel all things much more intensely.
My opinion is that writers, poets, musicians, and artists are more in touch with their emotions because they, by necessity, need to somehow convey that to others. All art is only art if it moves the observer, or viewer, or reader, on some emotional level. because we attempt to convey what we feel, how it moves us, and what we do about it in our writing we are more readily able to sense any emotional states within ourselves. Elation or depression, it doesn't matter. We evoke powerful emotion with our prose (well, you do, I am trying to learn) and because of that we feel all things much more intensely.