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lafayettemister
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by dpw

Hooray! I'm not a slut, I've never done anything in your definition.


Haha!

I should clarify. That seems to be the most common definitions of slut when I hear the word used. Whenever someone calls someone else a slut, it's usually a person that has cheated on her spouse or fucked her way to a good life. As seen by those casting the term.. usually from a woman about another woman, unfortunately.
I think there's a difference. To me someone who is promiscuous likes sex and is willing to have it with whoever they want, without any entanglements or commitment. And whoever they decide to sleep with knows it's just about physical enjoyment. If it happens once or a hundred times, it's all good and fun. No commitments have been made and both parties know it.

Slut can fall into a couple categories. One is a person that's in a committed/monogamous relationship but has sex outside of that relationship behind the gf/bf back. Cheating. Sleeping with someone while breaking the trust of another.
Or a person that is sleeping with someone not because they want to but rather for some personal gain. Especially if the slut is leading the other person on to believe that it's more than just sex. Sleeping with a boss, coworker, or client to get a raise or promotion, then cutting them off once the raise/promotion is gained. Using someone at the expense of their personal well being in order to profit for yourself.. that's slutty.
No need to apologize Cooldaddy, it's not a problem. Happy Birthday to you, I hope it was a great day. We share our birth date and we can share that thread. Happy Lushing.
Quote by up4it67
Okay, one for you ladies out there:
Having been someone who is not blessed with Greek Adonis looks, I would like to know what it is that you go for? Looks over personality? Just interested to see what the replies are:


Why can't a person go for or want both? Does it have to be one or the other? I mean, there has to be some form of attraction to both. The concept that a woman would be with a guy simply because he's hot (long term relationships) while overlooking a horrid, boring, uninteresting, or unappealing personality is silly. At the same time, a really interesting guy that a woman finds completely unattractive wouldn't work either.

One scales of 1-10 for looks and personality, it's all different with each person.

A woman (or man) may take a guy with a 8 in looks but a 6 in personality
Or an 10 in personality but a 5 in looks.
Or 5/5


There's no formula. Men and women look for different things in different people and those things aren't necessarily in the same level from one potential date to the next.
Quote by Riesling
Appreciate JohnC's answer. But interaction suffers here as well, cause I (and others with me) tend to avoid the whole LGBT-section. Again, this is not intended to offend anyone, but the strategy you mention defeats its purpose.


Why avoid the whole section? The beauty of forums are that they allow for a multitude of posts and topics. Open the section and you can easily view the contents and options. If you don't like "cum swallowing" threads, don't go into those. But you may also find stuff about shemales, coming out issues, all sorts of things. I don't like all the questions or threads in "Ask the Guys", so I don't go into those threads. I don't avoid the entire section.

Like John says, it's just like the BDSM section. Breaking it down into light bdsm, doms, subs, switches, curious.... would dilute the product.

It may happen, Lush is very open minded to changes. I'm not entirely sure this one is needed but I've been wrong before.
Hello everyone. I was away from Lush all weekend and just found this lovely thread. From the bottom of my heart, the base of my shaft, and the tip of my cock; I thank you all very very very much! You all know how to make a guy feel great. Thank you!!!

I don't know if Maisie will let me.. maybe we can nap butt to butt.

Nikki, you know I wouldn't send you back. I might lock you in the room so you can't leave.