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Hard to pick one. Either Vegetable beef soup, Ribeye steak, or boiled crawfish.
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lafayettemister
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by nicola
I like both of the above suggestions.
Does the existing online chat box (not the IM) disappear when you open different windows? I've not tested it (shows how much time I have to chat with people).
A smaller version of that down the bottom right, which stays there when navigating different pages, would be nice.
The online chat box, not IM/BB is a whole different browser window. You can chat on it very easily, it works well. But if between messages you want to go to the forum or your profile, you have to go (or at least I do on google chrome) the status bar on bottom of computer and select the browser window that has the home site. Then do that again to select the browser with chat when you want to send or receive a new message.
Thanks for looking into it. It may even streamline the site a little bit to go to the smaller onscreen thing. That kind of thing is wayyy out of my league, if anyone can do it, Gav can.
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I think I've mentioned it before but thought I'd try again.
An onscreen chat function would be great. One similar to what's on facebook and (i realize they're multibillion dollar businesses so it may be easier for them). A chat function that is a onscreen window and stays in place as we navigate from one page to another within the Lush site. No need to click reply in black boxes or to lose the previous text anytime we go from profile to forum or thread to thread. And unlike the current chat box that is in a whole different browser window that has to be opened/minimized/maximized each time you want to read or respond after going back to the actual site.
The onscreen chat box could stay in the lower left or right corner, cursor always ready. No matter how many times you change pages, it remains. If that isn't possible to have through multiple page navigation, still having a pop up chat box on one screen would be beneficial. I always have 2 Lush windows open anyway, one to black box and one to navigate the site. If one had a chat box it would eliminate the constant "reply" clicking on black boxes.
An onscreen chat function would be great. One similar to what's on facebook and (i realize they're multibillion dollar businesses so it may be easier for them). A chat function that is a onscreen window and stays in place as we navigate from one page to another within the Lush site. No need to click reply in black boxes or to lose the previous text anytime we go from profile to forum or thread to thread. And unlike the current chat box that is in a whole different browser window that has to be opened/minimized/maximized each time you want to read or respond after going back to the actual site.
The onscreen chat box could stay in the lower left or right corner, cursor always ready. No matter how many times you change pages, it remains. If that isn't possible to have through multiple page navigation, still having a pop up chat box on one screen would be beneficial. I always have 2 Lush windows open anyway, one to black box and one to navigate the site. If one had a chat box it would eliminate the constant "reply" clicking on black boxes.
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I enjoy lots of fruits. If I had to pick a favorite it would probably be blackberries. No, raspberries. No, blueberries. Strawberries? Okay... can I just go with berries? haha
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On another thread we were talking about how drinking affects what a person is willing to do sexually.
I'm not convinced that if my lover does things after drinking that she wouldn't do sober, that she shouldn't be doing them, or shouldn't be drinking, because really she isn't into it.
I think there are couple big distinction to note here. You're talking about your lover, presumably a lover you've been with long enough to know her likes and dislikes. If you're with a woman for a while and you KNOW that she is vehemently opposed to anal sex, you've discussed it numerous times and she finds it gross, painful, or disrespectful.. or any combination of those things, and then one night when she is completely trashed and decides she wants to take it up the ass; you her lover know better and should refrain.
Another distinction is if you've just met a woman at a bar, which happens millions of times a week, and you go somewhere more private.. if she's so drunk that she can't consent to anything then that's .
But, if you're with a new lover or just met someone and she's not drunk, but a glass or two of wine has made it easier for her to "loosen" herself up... while still having full control of her faculties, if she (or he) wants to fuck.... go for it. Some people need a little bit of liquid courage, doesn't mean they can't have sex because they aren't capable of consent.
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I don't know if this only happens to me, but I thought I'd put it out there. When reading mail in my Lush inbox there is a tab for "Read Next", but when I click it it goes back to the mailbox instead of the next message. Then I have to click on the actual next message. Not really a big deal, but if there's a "Read Next" option, it should work when clicked.
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You mean my lovely friend, Sisyphus!!
In addition to the fellas already mentioned, Lafayettemister and dudealicious both have some hot reading too
Thanks Mazza. A recommendation from someone with your writing chops is a helluva a recommendation! Thank you, you rock.
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I met my neighbor today too, what a coincidence. We got to talking and I told her I was really tired of having to go to work and earn a living each and every day. I mentioned how it looked like she and her husband were living quite comfortably and asked if they'd be willing to pay all of my living responsibilities? My mortgage, car note, insurance, grocery bill, gasoline, cell phone, entertainment, everything. She smiled and said she'd love too. So I ran inside and got all my bills and met her on the patio and handed it all over to her. She said I had "beautiful bills" as she put it and she'd love to make me happy and take care of all my financial stuff. I told her I had to get on with my day and went back inside to watch tv.. now that I don't have to work or anything.
What? Don't look it me like that, it really happened JUST like that!
What? Don't look it me like that, it really happened JUST like that!
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It's unlikely that you'd catch anything unless you're licking the note or have a cut on your hands.
It sounds as if she was given a fake note and she wants to get rid of it. If you don't want to change it keep less change in the till and explain to her that you need it.
I'm dealing with tools and cars and all kinds of stuff, I always have cuts on my hands. Not fake bills though, I have a validation pen and check all bills $20 and above.
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In the small town where I work and live, my shop in on the main highway. There is a woman that lives about a block away with an old man, he provides a roof over her head in exchange for her taking care of his sexual needs. She also earns money by giving oral sex to whoever wants it. I'm not judging this woman, none whatsoever. She's doing what she can to survive, it's sad but it's her reality. I'm always polite to her and treat her with kindness and respect. Most mornings, especially cold ones, she comes into my waiting room to get a hot cup of coffee. She never causes a scene and she's always nice about it and says thank you.
She walks up and down the highway flagging down customers. Usually, when the transaction is over they'll drop her off in one of the parking lots within a couple hundred feet of my shop. Talking to some of the guys that work for me that know her routine, she charges $20 for a bareback blowjob. For whatever reason, she always needs or wants to make change of a $20 bill. Instead of going into the convenience store across the street and buying something, she comes to me to make change because I don't make her buy anything. Usually she's coming in right after being let out of whatever car she was in.
Here's my dilemma. I know she hasn't washed her hands. I don't know how she performs her service, does she use her hands? Does she swallow? Does she spit? Where does she spit, in her hand? Does she use her hands to stroke his shaft while she sucks on the head? In most cases, I imagine she gets cum on her hands. Does any of that get transferred to the money that I'm taking? I know money is already dirty and no telling what may already be on it, but is it possible to have fresh STD germs on there that I'm right to be worried about? I dont' know where these guys have been.
If you were at work and some strange dude went into a room and jerked off, and you KNEW he jerked off then came out reached his just cummed on and unwashed hands into his pocket and handed you money or a business card or anything... would you take it?
I don't want to be mean or cruel to this woman, but taking that money gives me the heebie jeebies.
She walks up and down the highway flagging down customers. Usually, when the transaction is over they'll drop her off in one of the parking lots within a couple hundred feet of my shop. Talking to some of the guys that work for me that know her routine, she charges $20 for a bareback blowjob. For whatever reason, she always needs or wants to make change of a $20 bill. Instead of going into the convenience store across the street and buying something, she comes to me to make change because I don't make her buy anything. Usually she's coming in right after being let out of whatever car she was in.
Here's my dilemma. I know she hasn't washed her hands. I don't know how she performs her service, does she use her hands? Does she swallow? Does she spit? Where does she spit, in her hand? Does she use her hands to stroke his shaft while she sucks on the head? In most cases, I imagine she gets cum on her hands. Does any of that get transferred to the money that I'm taking? I know money is already dirty and no telling what may already be on it, but is it possible to have fresh STD germs on there that I'm right to be worried about? I dont' know where these guys have been.
If you were at work and some strange dude went into a room and jerked off, and you KNEW he jerked off then came out reached his just cummed on and unwashed hands into his pocket and handed you money or a business card or anything... would you take it?
I don't want to be mean or cruel to this woman, but taking that money gives me the heebie jeebies.
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Sure. I'll imagine it's a very cold and wintry night and the heat is broken. Best way to stay warm is to be naked under the covers with someone, double the body heat. I'll get no thrill out of it, just warmth. 
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I've been home laid up in bed or on the couch sick and bored out of my mind. So I've jerked off to pass the time, does that count?
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She doesn't offend me and I don't find her antics to be particularly shocking. The only real problem I have with her is that she can't sing worth a shit. In her video she sounds okay, with lots of production and edit value. But live, without editing and without auto-tune she can't carry a tune in a bucket.
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The History Of The World Part I
Oedipus: Hey Jocephus
Jocephus: Hey Motherfucker
Oedipus: Hey Jocephus
Jocephus: Hey Motherfucker
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strangers feeling the need to randomly grope them.
Hey! That's not fair, I'm no stranger!
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I would agree wholeheartedly with this statement.
Oral (receiving) tends to be rather a bit of a chore for me. The pressure to like it when in general it's not doing as much for me as the practitioner thinks it should. Mazza is very right, very few guys really are good at it. And worse the feeling that so many guys give that's its a chore to be done. I know that there are going to be a bunch of guys saying "not me", "I love it", ect. But I'm saying in my experience, and that includes guys who say this same thing, this has been the case.
I think part of the problem is that oral sex, man giving to a woman, is often considered 'foreplay'. Like something you do beFORE getting to the good stuff. Too many guys think it's like kissing, groping, playing with tits, etc.. part of foreplay to get her wound up and wet so he can fuck her. It's weird, it's like going down on a woman is part of the overall foreplay playbook. Unlike blowjob which has it's own commonly used name and is seen as a separate act. Yeah, cunnilingus is a word but no one really uses it casually.
Guys are lucky, we can find a woman that's willing to blow us when we need or want it. In the car, quickie at a party, at the beach, where ever.. and usually she doesn't get anything in return. It's a whole sexual act of it's own.
There aren't many real life stories of a guy eating his girl's pussy at her desk and then going about his day without her sucking, jacking, or fucking him before he leaves. Going down on a woman is usually part of the preamble to fucking and some guys are willing to skimp on the appetizer so they can get to the main course.
I was lucky that my first girlfriend in college very rarely came from fucking, and back then I wasn't the well practiced love machine that I am now haha. If she was going to cum, it was usually going to happen from having her pussy eaten so I learned pretty quickly how to do it well. In my older age, blowjob followed by eating pussy until she cums is the best policy. By that time I'm up and ready to fuck so it works out.
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I agree with a few of the other comments - they mean the same thing - I think slut is just more street whereas promiscuous is more of a formal term.
I hate when either word is used to demean or label. I think 'slut' has become more of a fun or 'dirty talk' word as society has become more progressive and open when it comes to sexuality. There are still those that might use it as an insult, but I think it says more about the person using it that way than the person they're trying to bring down.
How many people someone has sex with and how they choose to do so is really such a private/individual thing when you think about it. Yet there are these shameful stereotypes - from the frigid virgin to the boring/missionary marriage typecast to the slut stereotype. You're either doing it too too much or not enough. Sometimes it feels like nobody can win.
Words usually have more than one meaning and the same word can be used in multiple ways. Slut is one of those words. I don't know if I agree that 'slut' has become more of a fun word. Usually when I hear someone say 'slut', it's being flung as an insult. Even on tv and in movies, it's usually coming from a woman about another woman and there's nothing fun or playful about it. It's meant as an insult. I can talk to a couple buddies of mine and we can joke around and call each other 'dickhead' or 'asshole', and it's funny. But if some random person in the grocery story called me a dickhead, it would be an insult. It's all about context.
Let's take a man/woman couple for example. One night they have a wild night of sex and they both know what turns the other on. During the session the guy is taking control and fucking her nice and hard and says something like, "that's my sweet little cum slut. you gonna swallow my cum like the good little slut that you are?" That dirty talk is fun and it will amplify their pleasure together. Slut is perfectly normal word in this scenario.
Take the same couple and put them in a bar or night club one night. While the guy is away getting drinks, another guy comes over to hit on the girl. After she rebuffs his numerous attempts, the boyfriend returns just in time to hear the intruder call the woman a 'slut'. Chances are that the couple aren't going to feel very fun or playful of his use of the word.
I'm not saying I agree, but normally when I hear the word 'slut' it's meant in the most hurtful way possible.
Having said all that, like Dude said.. i'm totally a slut.
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Bullshit, guys can call others sluts as well.
LM come on, you know you are one.....
No doubt, plenty of male sluts. Myself especially included.