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lafayettemister
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male
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Quote by MissMajaStorms
Well I think most men are intimidated by women being strong and muscular. Besides that I am trying to figure out the reason for that


There's some truth to that. I don't know if I'd say "most" men are intimidated, but plenty are. It's a double edged sword though. Most bodybuilding/fit/strong/muscular women are going to be attracted to men who have the same qualities. A buff woman isn't going to be interested in a 30 year old-living at home-video game playing-unfit-sloppy guy. And that same guy will defintely be intimidated by a buff woman.

But that's similar to most areas of life. Many men and women are intimidated by others who are extremely intelligent. It's not often you find a really dumb as a brick dude dating a super genius woman. Really shy people rarely get involved with really extroverted people. There's just too little common ground.
I don't mind a fit woman, I find it kinda sexy. But at some point, it can get to be a little bit too much. Many women would think the same of a man that goes too far with it. I'm not exactly sure I could define where that line is, between when it's just enough and still sexy and when it goes too far to where it distracts from her beauty.
I was just browsing through the Lush store and found several toys meant for extending/enhancing a man's cock. Have any of you ever been with a man that used one of these? Was it his idea or your's? Would you stay with a man that was incapable of satisfying you? I'd be humiliated if someone suggested I use one of these. If my 6-incher ain't good enough, I'd move on to a new lover. Wow.
Anytime I click on anything in the red bar; forum, mailbox, profile... Lush opens another window to go to that page instead of just changing the current window.
Do I like some boobs more than others? Sure. Am I picky about boobs? Not really. I like all boobs and I want to see every set of boobs that I can. How else can I decide which ones I like better? Gotta see 'em to be picky, even better if I can play with them.
I guess it depends on a person's definition of "small". Personally, I don't have a big dick. I don't think I have a "small" one either. I'm an average Joe, plain ol' average 6 incher. Would I like an extra inch or two? Sure, why not. Am I obsessed with feelings of shortcomings? Nope. I've never gotten any complaints, but then again, it would take a special kind of evil for a lover (man or woman) to tell a guy that his dick is too small.

It's a matter of perspective I guess. I have one lover from my past that loved my cock, to her it was big. Her ex had a smaller cock than me, I never asked how small. In her mind I had a big dick, she had had anal sex before but wouldn't let me do her in the ass because she thought I was too big to fit. I know my cock isn't too big, but to her.. in HER experience.. it was. Perspective.
Quote by Dudealicious


Come on, that's a load of crap. I log on to find countless "suggestive" images from you LM! If that's not flirting what is?



Well shit, Penis Wrinkle, I mean Dude, if you'd fucking give up the goods I could stop flirting so much.
I'm sure people who've read the books already know this, but I sure hope something happens to keep Tyrion from losing his head. All men must die, I'm just not ready for him to be one of 'em yet.
Quote by StylisX
I had made a post about this earlier, it got moved to the Lush Help Desk forum. Pixie said she would get Gav to look into it.


Okay, I must have missed it. I'm glad I'm not the only one. Well, not glad you're having trouble, glad it isn't something I have to fix becuase I'm crap at fixing computer stuff.

Quote by Pixie


That is correct. I've told him to poke his head in here or somewhere to see what the issue is.


Thanks, Pix!
The last few days I'm unable to log in "normally". After typing in my user name and password, I get "lafayettemister" in the browser line and this on screen...




I usually have two windows open when I log on, on the second window, the unsigned in/home page, I can click forum or chat and it will take me there... fully signed in. On the original window with the error message, I can type in www.lushstories.com/forum and it will take me there logged in. Not a big deal, just thought I'd pass it along and see if anyone else is having that problem or if it's something I can fix.
Quote by Katje
I notice my body is a LOT more sensitive. My bra is more abrasive and cause my nipples to tighten without much difficulty. I also tend to feel slightly flushed, and look a bit pink in the face, from what my friends have said. I think one thing, too, that will set my alarms on red-alert concerning horny is that I can feel the weight of my hair more. How it moves, how it sets. The tickle of a curl against my neck ... I'm hyper-aware of my hair. (Which is halfway down my back)

I'll also find myself turning random things sexual in my mind. The vibrations of the trucks outside (I work for a truck stop) will resonate, or watching customers lick ice cream... It gets interesting pretty fast!


Great answer, this is kinda what I was looking for.

Several answers have mentioned getting or being wet, which confuses me in a way. I'm horny quite often, but I don't have a perpetual hard-on. I can be horny, without sporting wood. I can have wood, and not have been especially horny up until just before whatever or whoever caused the erection If you're wet when you're horny, what got you wet? Other than stimulation. Can you be horny or on edge and NOT be wet? The above answer was good. Heightened sensitivity, flushed, the awareness of her hair.
There are real blow job scenes in "Intimacy" and "The Brown Bunny". There's a jerk off with cumshot scene in an HBO episode of "Tell Me That You Love Me", series only ran one season and it's hard to find. I think some of the other intercourse scenes were real, but you couldn't actually see the penetration. "Lie With Me" has real sex, actors may be recognizable. The woman was on CSI and the guy has been in several movies and "Six Feet Under".

Other films with real/unsimulated sex...

Romance
Shortbus
In The Realm Of The Senses
Baise Moi
Pola X
Ken Park
9 Songs
Quote by VirginalViet
Well my whole body gets very sensitive....even my sense of smell increases? Weird right? And for me I totally want my nipples touched. It's like an ache and a need....hard to describe. Also that ache is in my pussy and it's a combination of ache/desire/need/tingles....all in a cocktail of desire. Somehow you just want your body to be touched, stroked, licked, tickled and played with....you need tactile sensations....and yes your pussy gets wet haha. Can't help it. It is worst about 3 or 4 days before my period. Fuck sometimes I can literally want to climb the walls if I haven't had sex for a few days. Right now I'm single so my vibrator needs batteries (stop giggling girls....it's true).


Great answer. This is kinda what I was looking for. Thank you for that.
I mean, what happens when you're horny. Is it just a state of mind? Do you randomly get wet and realize you're horny? Do you mentally realize you're horny and then get wet? Not get wet at all? Is it just a feeling or is there some physiological change too? Is an orgasm different when you've done it because you "needed" to?

If I go a few days without any release and I feel horny, I get achy. Balls ache sometimes. I swear it feels like my teeth itch if it's been too long. If I masturbate because of horniness, I tend to clench my jaws, which I don't do other times I'm being sexually active.

Just curious if it's any different for you ladies.
Why can't my evening news be more like this? Funny, porn on tv in background showing woman rubbing her pussy, but they pixelated out the dude's dick in the woman's mouth.




Maybe one of our Dutch members can translate the dialogue for us.
Anything I talk to a friend about on Lush is between she and I. Person B telling person C what persons A and B talked about, without the permission of A, is grounds for immediate friendship termination.
Quote by LASARDaddy
First:
Stop worrying about making the wrong decision. We ALL do that and usually more often than we want to. I have many times but each one taught me more than a good one would have. I became an engineer because that's what everything led me to. I became a Taoist because that's how I want to live my life.

Now pick that one thing that you never want to stop doing. If it's sex then you will run into many hurdles that'll make family and friends unhappy but if that's it then??? You get to decide.

You will screw it up! Just try to not let it hurt you when you do. Listen to all this advice but keep in mind that it's YOUR life and you'll have to live it so make up your own mind. Ask questions if your unsure, study it, take whatever time you need then jump off that very fricking high cliff.

You'll either fly or crash at the bottom. Try to make the crash soft then pick up everything and climb back up and get ready to try again. Anything else is giving up and that's just a slow way to die unhappy. The ONLY failures are those that just don't get up again.

This is what we call life.

No one in the universe is in charge of you except you! NO ONE!

Of course this is all just advice from an old fart. I have walked down a lot of dead end roads in my life though and would like to help others.


I can't help it, every time I see your name and avatar I think of Lazar Wolf from Fiddler On The Roof. Mazel tov.
Quote by MMonroe
Thanks guys.

I have some small idea of a career I'd like and trying to find out more about it. I have a meeting with a career advisor in a couple of weeks.

I know Im the only one who can change things, no one will do it for me. Im just so terrified of making the wrong decision. I know Ill always have my parents place to fall back on, theyve told me, but thats probably one of the most depressing outcome i can think of. Ive already done a year of a teaching course which came to nothing, so I dont want to start on the next thing until im 1000% sure its what i want.


Welcome back, btw.