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lafayettemister
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male
0 miles · New Orleans

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First thing for sure is to be sure you've lined up another job before your 6 months is up. You certainly don't want to quit and have nothing else lined up. Even if that means going back to the coffee shop on a temporary basis.

What are you passionate about? Photography? Exercise? Eating healthy? Massage? Fashion? What makes your clock tick, what motivates you? Find out what that is then find a way to do it for a living. Maybe you'll have to take the money you've saved while living at home and put it towards cosmetology school, massage school, computer/tech school. You may have to work at night at a coffee shop or restaurant while schooling in the day. Or vice versa.

If you can find a job that has long term potential and it's something you'd enjoy, move out of your folks place. Money will definitely be tigher, but you could live with a roommate or two to subsidize the expenses. Then you'd have the freedom to come and go as you please without worrying about waking your parents or checking in when you're out late. At 24, you'd probably love the roommate experience with like minded and similar aged people. The worst decision you could make is to NOT make a decision.

Take the bull by the horns. If you make a mistake, you'll learn from it and work it out. And you'll always have your parents' place as a fall back if something really fucked up happens. Don't wait for life to happen, you gotta make it happen.
I like Bubba, classy guy. I was pulling for him all tournament, watched all of it until the back nine on Sunday. lol Was out of town and had to get on road for home. His Sat. round was shaky, but Sunday he showed his true colors.
If I can time it, I like to pee after ejaculation. If I know I'll have a wank and then have to get dressed shortly thereafter, I'll wait to pee until a few mintues after cumming. Give time for my cock to go all the way down, pee out anything left so there's no drippage after I'm dressed.
I normally hear the term "partner" when used for same-sex relationships. When same sex couples say it, it has a loving quality to it.

But, I have heard it for man/woman relationships too and it always sounded strange. Whenever I've heard a man or woman introduce his/her opposite sex "partner" is seems so clinical. Almost like some sort of arrangement. Like, "we're together because no one else will have us, we really don't want to term it as boyfriend/girlfriend and either of us can bolt if a better offer comes along". Especially if they're living together, partner sounds like one notch above roommates.
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Hello,

What a great site this is where you can ask questions and receive answers from a man's point of view. I have a FWB who is wanting me to act like his slut for an upcoming encounter with an aggressive side.

Any suggestions for me on what you would find mind blowing and what you would want yourself?

Any suggestions you can offer would be much appreciated.


".... an upcoming encounter with an aggressive side." Who is going to be aggressive? Him or you?
Why do the two have to be mutually exclusive? Would I like to be respected but not liked by everyone? No, that would be lonely. Would I like to be liked but not respected? No, that would be empty.
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Take a good guess maybe?


Anyway, it's no big surprise that money is extemely filthy . Been viewed that way ever since i was a kid. Hand washing is the number one way to prevent and safeguard against infections and viruses . when in public and and and touch anything, always wash your hands. whether it be public drinking fountains/ restroom door handles food products on store shelves etc.... you have no idea whose runny nosed, cold/flu virus infected kid handled/slobbered over that box of captain crunch and put it back on the shelf before you purchsed it. Yes, kids are indeed germ factories.


It isn't the obvious answer of prostitution, she'd be back out already. She did or got caught doing something worse, I've heard she assaulted someone but that hasn't been verified. Also heard about something with drugs. No one knows the real reason, lots of guesses but nothing verified. She's been MIA for a while now, if it were just selling sex she'd be back. And she'd be in the city jail and not shipped off to state or parish prison.
Haven't seen her in a few weeks, gossip on the street is she's jail but no one knows why.
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There was this girl that i grew up with called Stacey. Her mum really had it going on ;)


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No I don't feel superior to others but in some of the replies the writers more or less said that most of us look alike which is not true as there are distinct differences. I also tried to explain that we Koreans have evolved quite a lot since occupation and the Korean war. Mostly I was interested in why American guys only recently seemed to have such an interest in we Asian women and assumed it was a result of the Korean Pop culture and the huge amount of Girl Group entertainers. Also I am not interested in political correctness but did not mean to insult anyone purposely. JuLee


I'm glad to hear that you don't feel superior. Personally, I think most peoples in the world have evolved quite a lot in the same time frame. I doubt that Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, German, Welsh, etc women are the same now that the were 50 years ago. We've all evolved. With the exception of some tribal cultures and North Korea. I don't know that the govenment there allows anyone there to evolve, at least not openly evolve. Whether or not Koreans have evolved at a higher rate over that time is debatable.

I don't really believe there is a real increase in Asian women in the last decade. I'm over 40 and I don't really see any difference. Maybe today Asian women has been fetishized to a degree that may make it look that way. After the Korean war, there was an increase in desire for Asian women. Soldiers went over there and were exposed to something different. Human nature is to desire something different than what is readily "available". With today's instant gratification and instant new/media/reporting of things we just may be seeing more than we once did.

If you live in the states, you may be getting a lot of interest from American men. But that's predominantly who lives here. No way to calculate if you're getting more attention strictly because you're an attractive and desirable Asian woman or just an attractive and desirable woman.
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This is a reply to Craig 1967.

After reading your response to my question I feel a response is most warranted, so here it is:

My question was regarding the INCREASED interest in Asian women in the last 10 or so years. When I arrived here there seemed to be very little but now there is so much more which I think is great.
As to cultural differences, we Koreans (especially women) are very different from other Asians this is due primarily to the fact that we were a Matriarchal society for hundreds of years and it was the women warriors left to protect their homes and land. We Korean women do not walk behind our men with down cast eyes, we are considered by many to be very aggressive especially in business.
As to physical differences, we Koreans are taller than many other Asians, I am 5'8" with green eyes, we have other assets that sometimes cause much jealousy among non Korean Asians
I, luckily, have never suffered from a lack of male attention and quite honestly I love it.
As to subservient roles, subservience ended after the 40 year occupation of Korea by Japan and the end of the Korean war women had to take the lead and they did after finally learning that you can't rely on men for everything.
JuLee


I'm curious. After reading the above, it appears to me that as a Korean woman, you think and believe you are superior to other Asian women. That may not be the case at all, reading things in black and white can sometimes be misleading as the reader can't discern inflection or tone of voice and other verbal cues as to what is being said. So, do you feel Korean women are superior, because that's the way it reads?
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With a dick. My clit is much too sensitive for a hand slap. I'd probably punch the guy in the balls if he did that to me.


I would think, like most things having to do with out-of-the-norm sex, no one is just going to go full on cunt slap without talking about it first. It's like golden showers, no dude is just going to pull out and pee all over a lover unannounced. Our desires and kinks eventually come out with our lovers, when that happens and she says, "I love a guy to smack my pussy just as I start cumming"... there you go. If you like it done with a dick, I doubt you'll find too many guys that will deny your request.
You know I won't bruise your boobies. I'll treat them with tenderness. Just let me get my hands and mouth on them.
Personally, I don't think I have an Asian fetish. I see some Asian women and think they're pretty or attractive. Some I see and I don't find them pretty or attractive according to what I like/dislike. But to no more or less of a degree than i find Caucasian or African American or any other women pretty or not. Honestly, it doesn't matter enough to me to even try to learn how to discern if a woman is Korean, Vietnamese, Chinese, or whatever. If you lined up three women from each of those countries, all I could do is guess which is from where. I don't look at white women and think, "ooh is she Irish or English because Irish is hotter". I probably couldn't tell the difference between a Brazilian and an Argentinian either. In high school, I lost my virginity to a Vietnamese girl. The only way I knew she was Vietnamese was because I'd known her half my life and she told me/everyone whenever it happened to come up.
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I can think of a whole bunch of other things that I would prefer you do to my cunt.

So what about you, do you prefer your balls to be squeezed or trodden on?




Some guys DO like having their balls abused. Squeezed, crushed with a foot, kicked. Some women, like having their pussy's slapped/smacked. No big deal if you don't like it.
It depends on where you are in life and what you're after. In my younger years, late teens and early twenties, the third date rule was definitely on my mind. And the minds of many of my friends. It wasn't a hard and fast rule, pardon the pun, but is was a consideration. When you're 20 years old and all your friends are getting laid fairly regularly, a guy isn't going to want to spend too much time with someone that isn't putting out. Doesn't make her (or him) a bad person or anything. By the third date you'll have a pretty good idea if and what sexual activity is possible. By then you'll know if she's deeply religious or is waiting for the "right guy" or waiting for a commitment... then you decide to stick around or cut bait.

Later in life, people's wants and needs from a potential relationship are different. By the third date then, you're more interested in if he/she has kids. Has a job, has a home, lives with parents, is a crack head, ever arrested for domestic violence, has a psycho ex....