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Among my good friends here on Lush, there are several that I have huge, lustful crushes on. In real life, my continuing fuck buddies that I originally met online are a woman, a gay man and a gay couple. I could still be busier...
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latecomer91364
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 70
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All of my good friends here on Lush (I do play favorites, and they know who they are).
Porn stars: My lifelong fantasy is Peter North.
Famous (non porn): nobody. A man has to be showing his hard cock before I can possibly be attracted to him.
Porn stars: My lifelong fantasy is Peter North.
Famous (non porn): nobody. A man has to be showing his hard cock before I can possibly be attracted to him.
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It means two things: That I was a latecomer to bisexuality (at age 49) and also an indication that I like very long sex sessions (2 hours min, 3 hours max - then I want pizza), and have control over my 'finishing time'. The second is the zip code where I lived when I first went bi. I've used it on every sex oriented site since 2004.
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You know, my reaction to the question was - why would I want to? Sure, I might have occasionally looked at porn stars, but I'm not sure I would want to marry one. Many don't seem to be all that smart (although I'm sure there are many exceptions). And at least some are jaded by their experiences. And they're probably used to freakishly-endowed men, so...umm, well...not as impressed by my own freakish endowment as most women.
But then I saw this:
Hmm, yes, another vote for Flame. Although, from my...ummm...research, I think she was more a 90s star, and only in her mid 40s now...
I think you're right. On recollection, she is later than Seka and those of that era. So even though I'm crazy mad for her, I couldn't marry her. Being that much younger than me, I'd be worried she'd cheat on me (lol).
So, being as I like women in my own age range, I'd like to choose again:
Lady Sonia
Even if she's much older now, that's okay: I watch a LOT of Granny porn, and I'm an unabashed Anglophile - anything naughty is even naughtier with a British accent, and she's one of the only people in the world I would ever consider giving my leash handle to.
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I'm glad I found this post, as I was thinking about starting one asking what people's criteria for voting is.
I find it strange and somewhat disheartening that you can get a number of '5' votes, and then get two '3' votes in a row, as I just did on a new story (one that I think is my best ever, but what do I know?). I understand that it's all subjective, and everybody can certainly do what they want, but from 5 to 3: really? - not even a 4?
I prefer not to care, but I do. I admit that I'm a whore for recognition, and I do tend to be overly sensitive to perceived slights. I am fairly new to the site, and am a virgin to social media interaction, as I view it as inconsequential mental masturbation with strangers, but in my fairy tale world, I'd like to think that people are generous and positive by nature. Call me naive.
I have made comments when required to in order to vote, and don't mind it at all. I know scores can be a valuable tool for writers (even though some here say how votes can be 'political' - don't we get enough fucking politics in our lives already?), but I have only ever voted 5, and given a comment, because I know as a writer how valuable sincere feedback can be. If it rates less than 5, I don't vote.
I feel that anyone who casts a score for any reason other than the legitimate evaluation of the story or the craft involved is a true 'troll'. Mean spirited people are out there, and intellectual honesty seems to be at a minimum, but even stroke stories (which is admittedly what I write here) deserve an honest critique.
I find it strange and somewhat disheartening that you can get a number of '5' votes, and then get two '3' votes in a row, as I just did on a new story (one that I think is my best ever, but what do I know?). I understand that it's all subjective, and everybody can certainly do what they want, but from 5 to 3: really? - not even a 4?
I prefer not to care, but I do. I admit that I'm a whore for recognition, and I do tend to be overly sensitive to perceived slights. I am fairly new to the site, and am a virgin to social media interaction, as I view it as inconsequential mental masturbation with strangers, but in my fairy tale world, I'd like to think that people are generous and positive by nature. Call me naive.
I have made comments when required to in order to vote, and don't mind it at all. I know scores can be a valuable tool for writers (even though some here say how votes can be 'political' - don't we get enough fucking politics in our lives already?), but I have only ever voted 5, and given a comment, because I know as a writer how valuable sincere feedback can be. If it rates less than 5, I don't vote.
I feel that anyone who casts a score for any reason other than the legitimate evaluation of the story or the craft involved is a true 'troll'. Mean spirited people are out there, and intellectual honesty seems to be at a minimum, but even stroke stories (which is admittedly what I write here) deserve an honest critique.
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I had a first time online hookup with a woman for lunch and sex, and a play date with a bi couple that night. Fun day... Had a play date with another bi couple the next night, so 3 in about 36 hours. Then I had nothing to do for a few days, so I masturbated a lot.
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It was this hideous thing. $46 at Frederick's, It was the first item I ever bought brand new at a store that was specifically for me alone (inherited other stuff I bought for girlfriends before). I've since learned how to buy great stuff for much cheaper (and hopefully, my taste has improved).
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Could I keep my penis as well? Maybe be a hermaphrodite? That way I could fuck myself (hell, people are always telling me to do that anyway).
If pussy only, I would immediately miss my penis, but would play around with my new genitalia, get to know it and find the joy in it. (have my first DP!).
If pussy only, I would immediately miss my penis, but would play around with my new genitalia, get to know it and find the joy in it. (have my first DP!).
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Since I've already had lots of every kind of sex with both genders, I would spend the day getting as much as I could of the things I wasn't able to experience before:
Lesbian 69 (and all other girl/girl activities).
Double Penetration - anal and vaginal (I have always been envious of women's ability to enjoy that).
Other than that, I'd see if I could teach myself how to do my makeup better.
Lesbian 69 (and all other girl/girl activities).
Double Penetration - anal and vaginal (I have always been envious of women's ability to enjoy that).
Other than that, I'd see if I could teach myself how to do my makeup better.
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Interracial Midget Nun Double Penetration numbers 1 through 10 (just kidding... but WHY won't somebody make these movies? ... Please?)
In the order I remembered them:
L.A. Confidential
The Great Escape
The Road Warrior - 1981 (thanks for trying to ruin this for me, Mel... you dumbass)
Collateral
Heat (Michael Mann)
Raiders of the Lost Ark
Black Hawk Down
The Terminator 1 and 2 (I'm counting this as one: so sue me)
Goodfellas
Godfather 1 and 2 (see Terminator)
In the order I remembered them:
L.A. Confidential
The Great Escape
The Road Warrior - 1981 (thanks for trying to ruin this for me, Mel... you dumbass)
Collateral
Heat (Michael Mann)
Raiders of the Lost Ark
Black Hawk Down
The Terminator 1 and 2 (I'm counting this as one: so sue me)
Goodfellas
Godfather 1 and 2 (see Terminator)
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I absolutely love this movie! The slaughter scene to "Free Bird": priceless.
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It's my #1 favorite: L.A. Confidential.
R.I.P. Curtis Hanson
R.I.P. Curtis Hanson
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I agree with everybody who chose The Bad Seed with Patty McCormack as Rhoda Penmark. A very shocking theme for the time, making her the original evil child.
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Who is your favorite (or favorites) Jazz musician or group, what is their key tune for you, and what does their music feel like to you?
Obviously, answer however you like, but for example, these are mine (let's face it: everybody who asks for an opinion has one of their own):
Charlie Parker. Key tune: Ornithology His fast tunes feel like driving through the wine country in a convertible.
Miles Davis. Key Tune: Blue in Green. His slow tunes make me think of city streets after a rain, the pavement reflecting the lights from the streetlamps.
Obviously, answer however you like, but for example, these are mine (let's face it: everybody who asks for an opinion has one of their own):
Charlie Parker. Key tune: Ornithology His fast tunes feel like driving through the wine country in a convertible.
Miles Davis. Key Tune: Blue in Green. His slow tunes make me think of city streets after a rain, the pavement reflecting the lights from the streetlamps.
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All the way in. Actually my favorite is when the head clears the sphincter and begins the deep slide to the bottom (and then repeats it a thousand times).
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With Kylie? Are you kidding! I would play and fold with a straight flush just to get naked first...
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Can I just say that your account name is very appropriate since ignoring the post above yours, which offers nothing, the post prior to that is close to 4 years old. Lol.
How incredibly thoughtful of you to scour these four year old posts and volunteer your opinion (which is, after all, what these posts are for), apparently for the sole purpose of insulting a stranger.
I would have expected better from most people, but especially from a moderator.
Everybody has their own boat to row, and I still wish you good luck in your own endeavors.
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It's all good, but I do prefer a moaner. I've had screamers that sounded a little too histrionic, like they're putting on a show. It's like in porn: I swear, it seems like some of the women think they're getting paid by the decibel.
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It's a joint effort, but most of it is on the man to learn control. What you can do is to know your partner, know when he's getting close to orgasm, and easing him back down. A good way is to pinch his penis at the very base of it, not from side to side, but front to back. Hold tightly and don't move or let go. If he's not too far gone, it should settle him down. If successful, don't resume direct stimulation right away: hug, kiss, but let him calm down.
This is easy if you're performing oral, but if he's penetrating you, ease off his penis very very slowly, then try the pinch. Be direct and assertive with the movement, because if he is too close to the edge, he may orgasm before you can employ the technique.
That's my 2 cents worth.
This is easy if you're performing oral, but if he's penetrating you, ease off his penis very very slowly, then try the pinch. Be direct and assertive with the movement, because if he is too close to the edge, he may orgasm before you can employ the technique.
That's my 2 cents worth.
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I have two:
My favorite, which is the underestimated Final scene of The Great Escape, wherein the nameless young German guard brings Steve McQueen back to the The Cooler for the umpteenth time, after his recapture. He locks the cell door, and turns to walk back down the hallway when he hears the rhythmic "Bup-bup... thwack" of McQueen throwing his baseball at the floor, to bounce off the wall and land back in his glove (we've seen this before, but we don't see it here). The guard pauses, shifts his upper torso back, listens, and then goes on his way. The guard doesn't get it: being a mindless cog in the Nazi machine, he does not understand that for men like McQueen, being captured is not defeat, but a postponement of victory, and by going back to the ball bouncing routine, McQueen shows that the indomitable spirit of mankind to be free can never be crushed. Always brings a tear to my eyes, but a good tear.
My second is the final sequence of The Bicycle Thief" wherein the father, Antonio, a basically good and honest man, has humiliated himself in front of his young adoring son, Bruno. I won't go into detail, because if you haven't seen it, you should. After the humiliation, Antonio., though despondent, takes his son and disappears into the throngs of people on the street. You don't see it, but you know that Antonio will find a way for him and his son to survive (just not THAT day). Truly devastating and heartbreaking.
My eyeliner is running...
My favorite, which is the underestimated Final scene of The Great Escape, wherein the nameless young German guard brings Steve McQueen back to the The Cooler for the umpteenth time, after his recapture. He locks the cell door, and turns to walk back down the hallway when he hears the rhythmic "Bup-bup... thwack" of McQueen throwing his baseball at the floor, to bounce off the wall and land back in his glove (we've seen this before, but we don't see it here). The guard pauses, shifts his upper torso back, listens, and then goes on his way. The guard doesn't get it: being a mindless cog in the Nazi machine, he does not understand that for men like McQueen, being captured is not defeat, but a postponement of victory, and by going back to the ball bouncing routine, McQueen shows that the indomitable spirit of mankind to be free can never be crushed. Always brings a tear to my eyes, but a good tear.
My second is the final sequence of The Bicycle Thief" wherein the father, Antonio, a basically good and honest man, has humiliated himself in front of his young adoring son, Bruno. I won't go into detail, because if you haven't seen it, you should. After the humiliation, Antonio., though despondent, takes his son and disappears into the throngs of people on the street. You don't see it, but you know that Antonio will find a way for him and his son to survive (just not THAT day). Truly devastating and heartbreaking.
My eyeliner is running...
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No. The only thing more disgusting to me than that would be a similar scenario utilizing excrement. I know some people like it, and that's fine, but it's not for me.
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I've been watched having sex with men and women by a few people of both sexes, (over thirty, I would guess), as I have been involved in threesomes and foursomes of the straight, bisexual and gay varieties, on numerous occasions. I've never been filmed, but out of all my encounters, I've only managed to be photographed by four of the people or couples (some of these are in the image gallery on my profile). Unfortunately, I lost a lot of pics when my last hard drive crashed.
As of yet, I have not been photographed having sex while crossdressed. I really want to, but some folks are against having any cameras present, even if you keep their faces out of frame, and I would never press it. Everything must be mutually agreed.
I would love to have an actual video done.
As of yet, I have not been photographed having sex while crossdressed. I really want to, but some folks are against having any cameras present, even if you keep their faces out of frame, and I would never press it. Everything must be mutually agreed.
I would love to have an actual video done.
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If I'm not seeing anyone, I ask the doctor (male or female) if they would have sex with me.
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I came late to bisexuality (49), and I rarely become attracted to men with their clothes on, except during those occasions where prearranged sex is involved. I must admit however, that seeing men running in shorts (especially with no shirt) along the jogging path attached to the designated bus route across from my work does make my dick twitch sometimes.
In public, it's still only women that can typically turn my head and command my admiration, probably because so far, only women can ignite an emotional connection with me.
In public, it's still only women that can typically turn my head and command my admiration, probably because so far, only women can ignite an emotional connection with me.
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Put your foot down! Sex is a two way street. Selfish lovers end up with unfaithful partners.
You need to show/tell him that your needs are not being met. Do an orgasm "Lysistrata" on him - no sex until he starts trying harder (and succeeding).
Unsatisfying sex for either partner is a nail in the coffin of the relationship. You know him - find the way that will convince him how important this is to you, and that he MUST act on it.
I wish you the very best of luck.
You need to show/tell him that your needs are not being met. Do an orgasm "Lysistrata" on him - no sex until he starts trying harder (and succeeding).
Unsatisfying sex for either partner is a nail in the coffin of the relationship. You know him - find the way that will convince him how important this is to you, and that he MUST act on it.
I wish you the very best of luck.
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The list is endless, but it all depends on what you have tried so far. Have you had sex in every possible place in your home? If threesomes or group sex and bisexuality are not up for consideration, I would suggest to start:
Anal on you or him (strapon)
I particularly like fucking a woman in the ass who's on her back, while fistfucking her vagina (great feeling for you, very empowering for him).
Toys
Outdoors - nature or semi-public (just don't get caught).
Masturbation, either mutual or watching each other do it, with or without the nastiest dirty talk you can muster (which is awesome no matter what you do).
Couples "happy ending" sensual massage - more like using surrogates than inviting other people into your bed.
Bondage, S & M if you can get into that sort of thing.
Fantasy role play / cosplay
Sex in front of mirrors
Food - inserting items, WHIPPED CREAM!
Full body baby oil on a plastic sheet is AWESOME!
Frottage
I agree with Kylie_Kained: search through the stories - you'll find many things to try. Also, make note of activities you find in porn - don't just go with standard fare, check out categories that are unfamiliar to you.
Good luck, and stay naughty!
Anal on you or him (strapon)
I particularly like fucking a woman in the ass who's on her back, while fistfucking her vagina (great feeling for you, very empowering for him).
Toys
Outdoors - nature or semi-public (just don't get caught).
Masturbation, either mutual or watching each other do it, with or without the nastiest dirty talk you can muster (which is awesome no matter what you do).
Couples "happy ending" sensual massage - more like using surrogates than inviting other people into your bed.
Bondage, S & M if you can get into that sort of thing.
Fantasy role play / cosplay
Sex in front of mirrors
Food - inserting items, WHIPPED CREAM!
Full body baby oil on a plastic sheet is AWESOME!
Frottage
I agree with Kylie_Kained: search through the stories - you'll find many things to try. Also, make note of activities you find in porn - don't just go with standard fare, check out categories that are unfamiliar to you.
Good luck, and stay naughty!
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I imagine you've tried this position before, but the deepest penetration I know comes when you scissor your legs into each other (like in tribbing), so there is no space at all between his penis and your vagina or anus, whichever the case may be. That would produce the best possibility of feeling him as deep as possible.
I've never tried one, but people claim penis pumps can enlarge the organ temporarily. Other than that, I would suggest fistfucking. Between that and his cock, it would be like Goldilock's three beds and chairs: one may be too big, another too small - it's the one in the middle that's missing.
If you really like him, I hope your affection for him overrides his shortcomings.
Good luck, and good orgasms, sweetie!
I've never tried one, but people claim penis pumps can enlarge the organ temporarily. Other than that, I would suggest fistfucking. Between that and his cock, it would be like Goldilock's three beds and chairs: one may be too big, another too small - it's the one in the middle that's missing.
If you really like him, I hope your affection for him overrides his shortcomings.
Good luck, and good orgasms, sweetie!
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Does it count if I originally bought it for someone else? My first was a black garter belt and shelf bra set with fishnets from Frederick's of Hollywood that I got for a woman I was seeing who was married, and she didn't want to keep it at home. It was a strange arrangement - her husband was gay, and she found out that she couldn't "cure" him (I was not bi yet, but even if I had been, a threesome would not have happened). He and I knew each other, and he knew about me and his soon to be ex-wife (we were all very friendly and civil), so it wasn't REALLY like cheating - she had me keep the lingerie at my place because she didn't want to throw it in his face.
Anyway, I ended up inheriting , and I began to get a thrill from wearing it and masturbating. It was over 20 years and one marriage before I bought my first high heels, which to me signifies a real commitment to crossdressing. Now I have tons of clothes!
Anyway, I ended up inheriting , and I began to get a thrill from wearing it and masturbating. It was over 20 years and one marriage before I bought my first high heels, which to me signifies a real commitment to crossdressing. Now I have tons of clothes!
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Never "LOVE", but often lust. On here and other sites, these online relationships (especially when there is zero probability of meeting in real life) come and go as flighty little flirtations. Hot at first, but ultimately futile if geographically undesirable.