Definitely yes. While jacking with a buddy or buddies is hot, there are absolutely better things (for me at least):
Coming hard while a cock hammers my asshole.
Taking a big, gooey hot load over my face and swallowing what manages to land inside my mouth.
Multiple men cumming on my face simultaneously.
Being spit-roasted.
Sucking two cocks at once.
Fucking a wife while sucking her husband's cock.
Fucking a wife while her husband fucks me (being 'Lucky Pierre' - the man in the middle).
Eating pussy with a cock in it.
Licking a man's asshole while he fucks a man or woman.
Sucking either a man's cock or anus (or balls) while somebody else (man or woman) sucks the other.
Being in either orifice for an mmf DP.
Sucking a driver while he's driving.
Getting buttfucked in nature.
Being in either a bi or gay group fuck.
Sharing someone else's cum in a kiss.
I could go on for a long, long time. Jacking with friend's is great, but for me, it's starter sex.
All dicks are fun, but I prefer cut, myself (I think they're prettier). There are fun little games you can play with uncut cocks, but it always seems to me that, to blow them to completion is more work, what with the foreskin in motion while you're sucking. I prefer the direct friction of a beautiful cut cock .
Sperm is one of the most uniquely enjoyable edibles on the planet. To me, its taste comes as much from the psychological aspect (the sheer naughtiness of it), as it does from its biological properties.
I don't make a hard and fast habit of it, but I certainly do it sometimes. When I'm masturbating, it all depends on my mood when the moment nears. I do love to lick off whatever cum remains on my hand after climax.
Keep practicing on your own, and congratulations in advance for when you taste someone else's ejaculate.
All I can say is "To each his own." As long as that pleases you, have fun with it (doesn't sound like fun to me, though). Honestly, that kind of denial ("so far I have had none") is completely foreign to me.
I practice "temporary" denial - a sub-genre of edging, more like "orgasm deferred". When I play, I like to play for at least two hours, my favorite being three (three hours just feels right - if I'm with a partner or partners who can't keep it going, or keep it interesting and exciting for that long, I probably won't have a very long relationship with them). We change it up with different locations (kitchen, living room, hot tub, bedroom, ESPECIALLY out in the back yard) and of course different positions, permuting the possibilities.
If you like your habits and find your kind of denial rewarding, then more power to you, and go for it!
"I'll give you many, but I require at least one in return."
I never seriously thought about it - I felt that it was somehow tied in with that whole "baby" thing, with diapers and such, but that's probably just because I don't know much about the practice. I've run across milky videos, and always thought they were hot (mostly lesbian oriented), but now that you mention it - I'd love to try it.
It really is amazing and you should do it ASAP. If you're a bisexual man, then it's no big deal at all - if you're not bi, I wouldn't know what to tell you - I've never been naked with another man where I wasn't directly sexual with him. I've been part of all manner of bi mmf play, and no matter who's in the middle or what configuration you choose, two men pleasing a woman at the same time is incredibly hot. Rubbing against another man's cock inside a pussy is wonderful - the other parts of your bodies that rub up against each other is also a big turn on (I love a man's leg against mine as we both fuck a woman).
Choose a guy you're comfortable with, get yourself into a manageable position (my fave: same as DP - man laying down, woman on his cock, either prone or supine, and second man entering from above work the best). My suggestion: make sure the other guy is reasonably well endowed, or he'll keep slipping out. It takes a minute for everyone to get their thrusting in sync, and requires a little concentration to keep that rhythm going. Depending on how your wife acheives orgasm, anybody and everybody should be reaching in to masturbate her while you guys fuck her.
Good luck - DO IT!!!!
The plain fact is: you can't get away from tats these days, they're so prevalent. So, if you surrender to a dislike of them, you're severely limiting your prospects for playmates.
I have never cared for tats on women, and seriously don't care at all if men have them. I do tend to avoid folks of either sex that sport them on their face and neck (or guys who have them on their genitals).
And what's with the tramp stamp? Are you such a boring fuck that you need to provide something to read while I'm fucking you doggy style?
I have no tattoos myself, and no inclination to get any. What's a sissy to do in a world of tats? What I always do, but with pictures...
The only man who I ever allowed to fuck me bareback was the husband in a bi couple. He'd had prostrate cancer, and had his entire prostrate removed, so there were no fluids - mo pre-cum, sperm or semen. The only thing that ever came out of his cock was urine, and neither they nor I were into that. So I have had the pleasure of being fucked and shooting my own cum while he attained his orgasm inside me, but there was never any creampie or wet spot.
I would love to be barebacked, my bowels filled with cum, but I would have to see the STD test results first - just like porn stars get: The six month test that shows any HIV at all, and the last six monthly tests, which shows only if HIV has appeared in your body within the last 30 days (you need both - once you do the six month test, you need only the 30 day updates).
I am sorry, but even though AIDS is survivable now, I don't want to have to take two pills a day for the rest of my life, OR limit my potential sex partners if I ever became POZ.
In my life, I've only encountered two women who squirted (copiously) when they came, and neither of them forewarned me about it. The first was in my mouth, in her house on her bed, and while it surprised me, it was not at all unpleasant - it was awesome. At first I thought she had peed, and even though I'd never tasted urine, it didn't taste like what urine SMELLS like (I have since learned more about it, including the fact that it is NOT pee.
The second time was at my house, first sex with an out-of-town internet hookup, and she squirted when she came while I was inside her. It gushed out all over my light colored comforter and it was ruined - no matter how I washed it, there was always the outline of the huge wet stain. Of course, I took it in stride, not letting it put a "damper" on the fun we were having, but afterwards, I was a little perturbed. If given a simple warning, I could have removed the comforter or had sex on a raincoat or something.
So ladies: Is there some reason why a woman wouldn't tell me up front that there's literally a flood coming? Is it embarrassing, or would you feel that it might be off-putting? I'm sure many women do give a heads-up that it's likely to happen, but the two women I've had it happen with, told me nothing (and I totally would NOT have kicked them out of bed for telling me).
For me, it's not really an " allocation of power between lovers" type of thing., although, yes, I do feel powerful when I bring a man or woman to orgasm using only my mouth: " Ha! Look what I did! You are quivering jelly before the power of my mighty fellatio/cunnilingus!").
In that respect, I have never felt any LOSS of power when I've received a blowjob to ejaculation. I feel love and admiration towards my partner...
It's still cheating (as far as I'm concerned), but how much does it blur the moral line if it's cheating with the same sex: basically something the husband or wife can't possibly give them (or you)? Whether you would be the cheater or the cheater's sex partner, does it make it somehow more okay, or easier to rationalize?
Easy. My favorite movie: L.A. Confidential
The feeling itself is impossible to accurately describe: the tactile sensations, awesome as they are (feeling full, an ecstatic warmth that emanates from your anus and seeps into the deepest crevices of your being), are exacerbated by the emotional feeling (and you can't get that from a dildo) and I think that's what puts it over the top. It's just fucking naughty!!!
After all the years of pleasure I had only with women, the absolutely most astounding, earth shattering orgasms I've ever had were from being jackhammered hard by a live, fleshy cock ramming my asshole with reckless abandon. I've literally been unable to stop shaking for a good few minutes afterward.
As far as using simple words to convey complex ideas, I'm absolutely bisexual (which is what it appears you are - accurately self described in your profile), which I guess came to fruition in 2004 when I first performed oral and received anal from men. Actually it wasn't the mere initial act, but the tidal wave of hunger for more of the same that it produced. I came of age in a time when there were no gay rights (the notion was just being born), and had a minor fantasy about it. I think in those days, the 70's, most people would only "declare" themselves gay if they truly were 100% homosexual and could see no other way to live. Having passing fancies like I had would not make me take that huge social leap.
Sex is sex, but the true test is where you lie emotionally. Could you ever see yourself falling in love with a woman, setting up house and declaring your love to everyone in your familial/friend circle? I can't (so far) with men, but the physical attraction is undeniable and consistently screams to be acted upon.
I know I'm not "GAY" gay, because there's no denying that in the initial 32 years of my sexually active time I did (and still do) actively and wholeheartedly lust after and pursue women. As a young man. when Penthouse came out, I would look at the softcore pictorials featuring women and naked men, and that's when I started to fantasize about being with the couple, and having relations with both of them. I'm a crazy-ass tit and pussy man, but those cocks looked sooooo suckable too.
As for porn, it sounds like you definitely have the bi-bug, but honestly, in some porn/masturbation sessions, I can get turned on in the moment by things that normally would never get me going from a "cold start" (once I have a raging, stroked-up erection going is different than sitting down limp and opening porn). Arousal itself eases inhibitions, and I think how you describe your porn viewing situations reveals your own desires to yourself.
Sorry this is so wordy, but it's a complicated subject. I'm not sure I still know every nuance of my own sexuality completely. It sounds like you are on a good path toward realizing your own. I applaud you for launching such a thoughtful subject. You sound like a smart, emotionally honest woman, and I wish you all the best in your journey.
I gave my virginity at age 17 to a married woman who was 26. Maybe that's the reason, but my whole life I have preferred older women, and when the time came to embrace my bisexuality, I preferred older men as well. Now that I'm 61, I've re-thought that a little. I rarely play outside my age range, which is 45 - 70. I have no patience for youngsters, no matter how tight their bodies are. Experience and maturity far outweigh an ass you could bounce a quarter off of.
Enjoying sexuality with both sexes is the textbook definition of bisexuality. If you agree with the sliding scale theory, where "1" would be completely straight, and "10" would be completely gay, then obviously you fall in there somewhere - it could be 2 or 9, but you're still bi, specifically since you mentioned that you HAVE sucked a real cock. If it was only ever anal with the wife and a strapon, it would be different - I don't think that would qualify you as bisexual.
When I'm with a bi couple, I feel that I'm having bi sex, but when I'm with a man or men, with no women present, I feel I'm having gay sex. That doesn't mean I've switched to a strictly gay self-definition, even in that moment, it just means that gay was the behavior of the occasion. I am still and will always be bisexual in spite of the details of the encounter.
I wish you all the best in your adventures.
I've had a few occasions with two loads, and one with three. I like it on my face, but some of it always goes in my open mouth, and I swallow that, although in a car I swallow everything (but that's always been with only one partner, so far). I would love to do a bukkake with many men. Cum tastes and feels awesome.
If I feel like settling in for a good round of masturbation, I like to edge myself for 2 -3 hours. I love porn, and when I get myself going like that, each new pic or movie heightens the sensation of skating constantly on the thin ice of orgasm.
Distractions can bring it all down. Once I was so into it and so close that my phone rang, and being startled, I rubbed something a little too hard and came. I couldn't answer it - I had to go in afterwards and retrieve the voice mail.
Fortunately, This didn't develop into a Pavlov's Dog stimulus/response, because I use the phone a lot at work. If I orgasmed every time the phone rang, it would be awesome, but I'd probably end up unemployed.
