Rookie Scribe
Frankly, I see no harm in it. My partner and I have a solid relationship. If I felt threatened by it, than the relationship isn't that sold is it. I suppose many don't understand how allowing this can influence love in a negative manner. Maybe with some, it can. In our 2 year relationship we have practiced this several times. Seeing my beloved partner getting off is a real turn on. It makes me want her even more. I know who ever she is have sex with is saying "this has to be the best I've ever had". It makes me appreciate her even more.