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lkitbig
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 156
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You've got a world of fun, opportunity, growth and sampling ahead of you!! Being single lets you do that on your own watch, when you want to and because you want to! Don't let the desire for a relationship hold you back from anything or disappoint you. Embrace your freedom - go out...have fun..meet new people.... make mistakes... be spontaneous... take a chance and learn from it..challenge yourself... hell, even spoil yourself! Do things in your bucket list! 
By doing all of this... you'll find yourself and what you want or need in life - and you'll do all of this without even trying because it's going to come to you while you're enjoying the ride of life! This, by the way.... includes the relationship you want - it's all with time. A time for everything and right now my dear, its time to live!
(and I can tell you all this as a girl seeing it from your point of view.... I've been single for a long time - and I'm having the time of my life! When the relationship comes - I'll embrace it then, in the meantime a person cant waste time trying to embrace something that's not there)! Go get'em girl! and enjoy yourself! :)
By doing all of this... you'll find yourself and what you want or need in life - and you'll do all of this without even trying because it's going to come to you while you're enjoying the ride of life! This, by the way.... includes the relationship you want - it's all with time. A time for everything and right now my dear, its time to live! (and I can tell you all this as a girl seeing it from your point of view.... I've been single for a long time - and I'm having the time of my life! When the relationship comes - I'll embrace it then, in the meantime a person cant waste time trying to embrace something that's not there)! Go get'em girl! and enjoy yourself! :)
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What is your middle name?.... Joy
A four letter word................. Joke
A girls name ....................... Jill
Occupation.......................... Janitor
Something you wear............ Jumpsuit
Beverage........................... Juice
A place.............................. Juneau
Something you shout.......... uumm... "Jump!!"
A four letter word................. Joke
A girls name ....................... Jill
Occupation.......................... Janitor
Something you wear............ Jumpsuit
Beverage........................... Juice
A place.............................. Juneau
Something you shout.......... uumm... "Jump!!"
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by MissyLuvsYa
The entire package has to work...the butt (definitely the butt), nice muscular shoulders, chest and arms and great eyes!!!! Oh! He needs a good neck, kind of thick, too. And a tight tummy! And if he knows how to use his cock and tongue...OH MY! I'm going on and on..somebody shut me up!
A great sexy smile....oh I don't know....
Do I have to answer this?
lol! I feel your pain cause my mind is spinning with...well his voice...his eyes..his smile...his mind.... his hands.... gosh... and thats just the start!
top 2 for sure are eyes and voice! 
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Quote by WellMadeMale
Computer rental [url=]company installs spyware on their products, [/url] which customers rent-to-own. Then they can spy on 'you' through the webcam.
Man, I'd be fucking livid and I'd want my attorney to sue those fuckers into the ground.
But think of how many people you made happy with entertainment as you used your webcam!
lol ok, now i'll shut my smartass up and agree with you! I'd be pisssseedd!!!! 
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Quote by cokeheadbarbieQuote by lkitbig
In response to Barbie above.... you've found a girl who doesn't need or want anyone to pay the way for her... ME. and no, I dont even secretly want it - yes, I like pretty things and I don't feel guilty about that. I like pretty things, men like other things - each to their own. But the bottom line is - I can pay my own way and yes, even treat myself to my own pretty things. And on an above comment about people not wanting to work hard - you've found another who doesn't agree with that because I do work hard and I work hard because I want to and I love it. I didnt get my education and work my way through my career chain for the ability to buy flashy things or wave a big pay check in front of anybody or even for status. Its just something that happened for me while I've spent years doing what I love. I realize you geared all that towards a man's purpose for doing things but I'd like to give most successful men out there the benefit of the doubt and say they all do what they do for the same reason I do what I do. I have a hard time believing that all men out there that work their asses off and have luxuries in life only do it to impress and buy drinks for hot girls. There's so much more to having self satisfaction and contentment then impressing people with drinks and pretty things.
but would you still work if you won a massive lotto and had had more money that you could ever need in a lifetime?
I'm viewing meeting a financially blessed man in the same way. I would still keep my fun hobbies for things to do if I got bored but would not be slaving in the rat race if money wasn't an issue anymore.
I think most people who won a massive lotto would quit thier jobs the exact next day wether they had the education or not and probably go out and buy something posh to celebrate. There is no shame in enjoying nice things even if you didnt get it by your own work imo.
xx B.
Yes, I do believe I would still work. Quite frankly I love what I do and think I would go insane not challenging myself and my mind. I'm lucky enough to be able to do that with what I do. Contrary to popular belief all work isn't just for the money. Yes, the money is needed obviously to live - but it's not the only reason I do what I do. If I was only in it for the money I'd probably stop putting the passion in to my job and go on a search for a sugar daddy to help me out with that. It'd be a matter of finding his weaknesses and working some magic and voila- rich and never have to work and enjoy the finer things in life. But, for what?
So no, if I won a massive lotto I wouldn't go quit my job the next day. There are lots of people out there with more money then they could ever need in a lifetime that STILL work - goes to show that although they surely enjoy their money - clearly its not all about the money.
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Quote by WellMadeMaleQuote by lkitbig
you've found a girl who doesn't need or want anyone to pay the way for her...
An ending thought..... When a man treats me it doesn't have to be with the "pink convertibles and horse ranches and fancy things".... something far less bright and shiny with a much smaller cost that has some element of personal meaning to it is much more appreciated then the shiny expensive things anyway - and no a man that treats like this isn't a deadbeat and no I'm not interested in a deadbeat.... and NO I'm not scared of sounding shallow or materialistic buy saying so ....
and I'm out because I do believe I've maxed out my 2 cents here!
You've made way too much sense with your thoughtful remarks. This thread demands flippancy!
A very good point! Perhaps I'll just change my response to Barbie to this... "I actually feel sorry for you, and I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here and hope that in 10 years you'll look back and go 'who did I think I was?' "
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In response to Barbie above.... you've found a girl who doesn't need or want anyone to pay the way for her... ME. and no, I dont even secretly want it - yes, I like pretty things and I don't feel guilty about that. I like pretty things, men like other things - each to their own. But the bottom line is - I can pay my own way and yes, even treat myself to my own pretty things. And on an above comment about people not wanting to work hard - you've found another who doesn't agree with that because I do work hard and I work hard because I want to and I love it. I didnt get my education and work my way through my career chain for the ability to buy flashy things or wave a big pay check in front of anybody or even for status. Its just something that happened for me while I've spent years doing what I love. I realize you geared all that towards a man's purpose for doing things but I'd like to give most successful men out there the benefit of the doubt and say they all do what they do for the same reason I do what I do. I have a hard time believing that all men out there that work their asses off and have luxuries in life only do it to impress and buy drinks for hot girls. There's so much more to having self satisfaction and contentment then impressing people with drinks and pretty things.
Now don't get me a wrong - a guy to pay for something on a date or even do something thoughtful for me (whether it involves a cost for him or not) is appreciated, but a guy who spends like crazy and pays for it all can send the message that he views his money and his ability to spend it on a girl as his greatest asset and quite frankly, that's hardly the greatest asset of a man. A guy who can treat graciously, yet a appreciate when i want to treat graciously is so much more of a man.
Relationships require give and take from both sides therefore both sides should be take their turns of giving (willingingly) and taking (appreciatively). I cant speak for all women but I'm sure there are plenty out there who would agree with me that there is degree of satisfaction that comes with taking your turn and being the one to "treat" - it's a simple gesture that speaks to the other in the relationship that you are willing to give as well.
An ending thought..... When a man treats me it doesn't have to be with the "pink convertibles and horse ranches and fancy things".... something far less bright and shiny with a much smaller cost that has some element of personal meaning to it is much more appreciated then the shiny expensive things anyway - and no a man that treats like this isn't a deadbeat and no I'm not interested in a deadbeat.... and NO I'm not scared of sounding shallow or materialistic buy saying so ....
and I'm out because I do believe I've maxed out my 2 cents here!
Now don't get me a wrong - a guy to pay for something on a date or even do something thoughtful for me (whether it involves a cost for him or not) is appreciated, but a guy who spends like crazy and pays for it all can send the message that he views his money and his ability to spend it on a girl as his greatest asset and quite frankly, that's hardly the greatest asset of a man. A guy who can treat graciously, yet a appreciate when i want to treat graciously is so much more of a man.
Relationships require give and take from both sides therefore both sides should be take their turns of giving (willingingly) and taking (appreciatively). I cant speak for all women but I'm sure there are plenty out there who would agree with me that there is degree of satisfaction that comes with taking your turn and being the one to "treat" - it's a simple gesture that speaks to the other in the relationship that you are willing to give as well.
An ending thought..... When a man treats me it doesn't have to be with the "pink convertibles and horse ranches and fancy things".... something far less bright and shiny with a much smaller cost that has some element of personal meaning to it is much more appreciated then the shiny expensive things anyway - and no a man that treats like this isn't a deadbeat and no I'm not interested in a deadbeat.... and NO I'm not scared of sounding shallow or materialistic buy saying so ....
and I'm out because I do believe I've maxed out my 2 cents here!
Advanced Wordsmith
1. no motivation
2. not willing to try new/spontaneous things
3. no sense of humor
4. abuse/addiction issues
5. involvment in another relationship
6. the inability to carry a stimulating/interesting or perhaps mind challenging conversation
7. cockiness
8. overly possessive
in no particular order
2. not willing to try new/spontaneous things
3. no sense of humor
4. abuse/addiction issues
5. involvment in another relationship
6. the inability to carry a stimulating/interesting or perhaps mind challenging conversation
7. cockiness
8. overly possessive
in no particular order
Advanced Wordsmith
When someone gives you their appreciation for something you didn't even realize you were doing ..... random text messages that are full of underlying charm from my smartass ...trips home, Its the only place I go where I lose my iPhone and don't care cause being in touch with "the world " doesn't matter when I'm there!... a good morning cup of espresso ..new shoes... a night out with the girls! ... random silly fun that happens last minute ...any outdoors activity up on a mountain with beautiful views on a sunny day!
...trips home, Its the only place I go where I lose my iPhone and don't care cause being in touch with "the world " doesn't matter when I'm there!... a good morning cup of espresso ..new shoes... a night out with the girls! ... random silly fun that happens last minute ...any outdoors activity up on a mountain with beautiful views on a sunny day!