Definitely after 40. Not in such a hurry, much much more relaxed, ready to experiment, experienced and willing to take hours and hours pleasuring my partner. Often forgoing intercourse and just maddenly enjoying giving her multiple orgasms whether from just massage or nipple play to strenuous sucking, biting and licking her delicious clit and pussy. Love to have her squirt when I suck her clit and massage her g-spot at the same time as I finger her anus................. but alas as I age I can only do it for a few hours before resting. But then I can do it over and over and over again. I could never get enough of eating pussy. EVER