I love dirty taking girls while being in the act. When I am in her, I love to get some dirty verbal steerage. Something like "right there" "yes fuck me" "don't stop" - stuff like that. Absolutely drives me crazy. On one side she communicates so I can become a better lover, but I also think it's so hot that her brain is totally on sex only mode.
Do you do that? What do you say?
(I also learned, that not all girls do it in all languages, I live here in Germany, while English speaking girls do it often, German girls rarely do it)
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masso66
1 week ago
Straight Male, 54
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Advanced Wordsmith
I love giving a girl her first orgasm just using my hands and fingers (and mouth) before we fuck.
How do you like your pussy be played with? I learned that some girls, provided you can get plenty of juice out of her vagina can stand rubbing their clits directly, others enjoy more if you rub the hood above it, some like the side of the hood against the side of the clit. Some like one finger up their pussies, some a lot of fingers, finding the g-spot. Did not meet a lot of girls that liked porn style fingerfucking though. Some like if I have a flat hand above her pubic bone that pulls upwards while fingering. What do you like?
How do you like your pussy be played with? I learned that some girls, provided you can get plenty of juice out of her vagina can stand rubbing their clits directly, others enjoy more if you rub the hood above it, some like the side of the hood against the side of the clit. Some like one finger up their pussies, some a lot of fingers, finding the g-spot. Did not meet a lot of girls that liked porn style fingerfucking though. Some like if I have a flat hand above her pubic bone that pulls upwards while fingering. What do you like?
Advanced Wordsmith
I feel like I should vote for orgy, as it feels more social and even. But quite honestly, having been in both, I would go gangbang. It appears to me that gangbangs give much more intense orgasms to both genders. Downside is that they can feel more anonymous, cold and filthy. But sometimes, that's what you need to go for a selfish, ego driven climax experience - no social overhead, any wet pussy, any hard dick.
Orgies instead can feel much more loving and caring. No one left out, everyone loved and taken care of.
Orgies instead can feel much more loving and caring. No one left out, everyone loved and taken care of.
Advanced Wordsmith
Have done this only two times. Was a good experience. Now that being said. A guy alone would not get me excited. But the girl that was asking for it was sitting so shamelessly spread in front of us, rubbing the living hell out of her clit, I had to suck that dick so hard - just to keep her going as well.
Advanced Wordsmith
Gangbang going for an entire afternoon and night. I keep fucking and fucking and the had my 6th orgasm. Almost passed out and was hunted by cramps afterwards.
When that orgasm started, it felt like my entire body heating up. The girl that I was fucking looked straight into my eyes with encouragement, knowing that something big would happen. Then I stopped moving and a long tremble went thru my entire body. Her pussy muscles kind of started milking me and then this dream feeling went thru me.
When that orgasm started, it felt like my entire body heating up. The girl that I was fucking looked straight into my eyes with encouragement, knowing that something big would happen. Then I stopped moving and a long tremble went thru my entire body. Her pussy muscles kind of started milking me and then this dream feeling went thru me.
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by sprite
wait a minute, how come your fucking me? did i at least get dinner out of this?
LoL, that's the proverbial exemplary "I am fucking you" of course. But if a meal will get me an awesome, long, exhaustive fuck - here I am.
The thing is, I as a man, will have my first orgasm fast. Some women react disappointed - but, the ones that know me, know that I will keep my erection if I just can keep going - not even pulling out. Second time will take usually longer and usually satisfy both, third will take forever, get her reliably satisfied and if I can manage to get a third, which is not always possible - I is a mindblowing experience. But every second time my physical exhaustion will come before my third.
Anyone of you had a similar man?
Challenge is a bit changing condoms and when fucking without, the reduction of friction bbecauseof accumulating cum.
Advanced Wordsmith
You guys are cute. I was hoping for jucy details, but you went all environmental conscious on me. ? But being the environmental conscious Seattle treehugger that I am, I appreciate that a lot as well.
One ex of mine needed running water for 20 minutes to get off every other day.. which thinking about it is a lot of water.
But man - did I enjoy watching.
One ex of mine needed running water for 20 minutes to get off every other day.. which thinking about it is a lot of water.
But man - did I enjoy watching.
Advanced Wordsmith
Hi you-all,
When watching porn one often could think that most women masturbate the same: on the bed, on their backs, legs spread then fingers or toy.
But when I thought about it, most girls I was with, had quite their own styles. Examples:
a) Laying on her belly and humping her hand - sometimes her fist
b) Laying on her belly but her chest pushed up by her arms an grinding her pubic bone on the floor, leg muscles super tightened
c) laying on her back, legs double crossed an no hand support
d) curled up, legs tugged into each other arm between her legs and rubbing her arm ankle
e) Criss-crossed seated, riding her foot heel
f) and a lot of creative shower head girls...
Are you doing "standard". Or do you have an individual thing going?
Tom
When watching porn one often could think that most women masturbate the same: on the bed, on their backs, legs spread then fingers or toy.
But when I thought about it, most girls I was with, had quite their own styles. Examples:
a) Laying on her belly and humping her hand - sometimes her fist
b) Laying on her belly but her chest pushed up by her arms an grinding her pubic bone on the floor, leg muscles super tightened
c) laying on her back, legs double crossed an no hand support
d) curled up, legs tugged into each other arm between her legs and rubbing her arm ankle
e) Criss-crossed seated, riding her foot heel
f) and a lot of creative shower head girls...
Are you doing "standard". Or do you have an individual thing going?
Tom
Advanced Wordsmith
Hi girls, there are quite some videos out there from e.g. Chaturbate and other sites where girls start to have crazy uncontrollable orgasms for several minutes and start shaking uncontrollably and theorgasm keeps going and going. I guess this may be due to those girls doing this for a living and edging for hours. Did you ever have one of those? How did you manage to get it?
Tom
Tom
Advanced Wordsmith
Hi Everyone, I am,an aspiring top and working to get better at it. One thing that I learned already is that a good top needs to know what he wants and be able to express it,very clearly. Play scenes can collapse from going to far, but it appears that for more inexperienced tops they more often collapse because the story gets stuck, is not though thru, becomes improvised and inconsistent.
One thing I love doing is to ask questions that require my bottom to talk about things they don't want to, disclose thoughs they want to keep secret. The kind of questions a normal person would reply: "that's none of you business". So the domination is to force yourself into someone's secret thoughts.
Is there a specific name for this aspect of kink? How would you call that? What terms would you use to research it better?
Tom
One thing I love doing is to ask questions that require my bottom to talk about things they don't want to, disclose thoughs they want to keep secret. The kind of questions a normal person would reply: "that's none of you business". So the domination is to force yourself into someone's secret thoughts.
Is there a specific name for this aspect of kink? How would you call that? What terms would you use to research it better?
Tom
Advanced Wordsmith
Do you enjoy getting fucked flatiron? Flatiron = position where you are on you stomach, legs straight and he fucks you from behind. Can be anal, but if you have a cute but and he has a good dick vaginal unusually works too. Do you like this position? And if yes, why?
Advanced Wordsmith
Hi Girls,
any one of you every worked as a stripper? Maybe just for amateurs night for a kick? How does it feel to go naked and suddenly be like a magnet for every men? Does it feel powerful? Does it feel rewarding to be desired? What feelings did you have when you did it?
Thomas
any one of you every worked as a stripper? Maybe just for amateurs night for a kick? How does it feel to go naked and suddenly be like a magnet for every men? Does it feel powerful? Does it feel rewarding to be desired? What feelings did you have when you did it?
Thomas
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by Buz
My college sex experience started with a gangbang. Mostly from then on I just watched. In most there would be 2 girls who seemed to be in competition with each other to see which one could be the loudest, wildest, and most vulgar. The girls did seem empowered by it. It was always their choice to do so and I have to say I was surprised to find out that so many girls wanted to experience that before they finished college. A lot of guys didn't want to participate because of performance anxiety in front of a crowd.
This is also quite an interesting observation. A gangbang (the group-sex version - everyone participates with consent and pleasure) is a quite demanding experience for a guy based on our social upbringing. Men need to perform. It is quite a challenging situation to fuck as hard as you can and your "anthropological competitors" can observe where you are in the pecking order of sexual power. No man in a gangbang situation would ever think about to be lazy and also "watch the game" a bit on the side. I think you know what I am talking about. Gangbangs for men are a primate experience of anthropological survival.
If I think about it - would this not be also part of the thrill for the girls?
Tom
Advanced Wordsmith
Hi Girls,
Last week I was involved in a real big Gangbang. About 6 women and more that 40! men. What should I say - it was mind-blowing.
So here is an interesting aspect. I was always a bit afraid that a gangbang would feel like I am degrading women and treat them with disrespect. But this was more an experience of women becoming very powerful orchestrators of using lots of men for their personal exhaustive satisfaction. If one guy pulled out, was used up, those girls just grabbed the next one as their lust servant. It was the opposite of what I was expecting. And I saw amazing female orgasms - mind-blowing ones.
What's your opinion on this? Ever made an experience like this?
Tom
Last week I was involved in a real big Gangbang. About 6 women and more that 40! men. What should I say - it was mind-blowing.
So here is an interesting aspect. I was always a bit afraid that a gangbang would feel like I am degrading women and treat them with disrespect. But this was more an experience of women becoming very powerful orchestrators of using lots of men for their personal exhaustive satisfaction. If one guy pulled out, was used up, those girls just grabbed the next one as their lust servant. It was the opposite of what I was expecting. And I saw amazing female orgasms - mind-blowing ones.
What's your opinion on this? Ever made an experience like this?
Tom
Advanced Wordsmith
She just published a book about DSK - the French presidency candidate that got arrested in New York, because of what happened with the hotel cleaning lady - you may recall. She started an affaire with him after the scandal had happened and is now publishing a book about him. She is a philosophy professor, and said to have started the affair with professional research as the goal. She calls herself a post feminist and her thesis is that every human being is a pig with a perverted side and that we are all skewed up because we are trying to suppress the pig in us. I need to say, besides her being hot, she definitely caught my attention and I will read her book. What do you think? Comments?
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
I think it's a male fantasy.
A girl that is so horny that she just wants dick can probably get a nice selection of men willing to oblige her. If anything, her standards should be higher!
Again, it's the "girls can get no-strings sex anytime, anywhere" argument.
Since guys typically don't have the same luxury unless they are paying for it, I would think they are more inclined to lower their standards to get some action if they're really horny.
If a girl is drunk however... that's a whole different scenario. Standards can definitely end up lowered, but that's more because of inebriation - not because she's horny and "anyone with a dick" will do.
Just my take on the situation - other girls might be different though.
Hmm, that gets me thinking - how much girls did I get into bed when the were absolutely sober. It's probably realy close to zero. ;-)
Advanced Wordsmith
There is also the man that likes to create jealousy. It's s super mean, but I love it. Example: A girl walks up to me with directions, her guy is with her fighting with a travel guide or map. Nothing better then flirting with her and having him watch. The idea is to ignore him completely while giving directions - so much fun. You can see quite quickly if he has himself under control.
Advanced Wordsmith
I think this is probably a ver stereotypical men fantasy. A girl that gets so fucking horny that she will hump anyone with a dick. But does it really work this way? Do you lower the standards of how attractive/nice a man needs to be based on how horny you get?
Men from my own experience will compromise based on how blue their balls get.
Men from my own experience will compromise based on how blue their balls get.
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Sorry need to say it. Even if I support the whole idea of breastfeeding 100% and believe that it is the absolute best thing you can do for the health of your baby - I hated the whole milk thing. Milk is just everywhere, pillows bras, bed sheets, puked on shirts and then cleaning the cursed breast pump every day, cleaning all the bottles - I was so happy when it was finally over.
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Agreed intimacy with a long term partner is heartwarming, feels cozy, at home, comfortable etc and I would not want to miss it. It's the stable way of beeing an loving. But if you would judge by just using your kick, kink and " horny-meter" would the touch of the "unkown" not beat the "comfy" sex?