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michk111
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 40
0 miles · North Carolina
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For me there is a difference between "making love" and "fucking". Sure all the same parts are used but for me it's completely different.
Making love is about an emotional connection. It's a shared intimacy. I know I'm overly romantic but it's about the two of you being one.
Fucking is about a raw passion. It's a basic animal need.
There are times when I crave the intimacy of making love and there are times that I crave the passion of fucking. And to make things even more confusing it can completely change in the middle.
How's that for a non-answer answer?
Making love is about an emotional connection. It's a shared intimacy. I know I'm overly romantic but it's about the two of you being one.
Fucking is about a raw passion. It's a basic animal need.
There are times when I crave the intimacy of making love and there are times that I crave the passion of fucking. And to make things even more confusing it can completely change in the middle.
How's that for a non-answer answer?
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A few months ago I was reading a story that I really liked but I was interrupted and figured I would get back to it later.
Well, time has passed and I've forgotten the name of the story.
I was wondering if anyone might know the name of the story.
First off it's a multi-part story. It's about a woman that moves into a new apartment. Once in the apartment she finds that her next door neighbor is rather noisy sexually. She is drawn to listening through the wall.
As time goes on more and more women visit with her neighbor. It even gets to the point where the neighbor sends his guests to her apartment to ask for various items, a lubricant.
Finally, the neighbor knocks on her door and pulls her into his apartment and pushes her to her knees. Eventually, he makes her go to another neighbor and ask for vaseline.
There is a scene where the neighbor has sex with an engaged friend.
That's about all I can remember.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you,
Michelle
Well, time has passed and I've forgotten the name of the story.
I was wondering if anyone might know the name of the story.
First off it's a multi-part story. It's about a woman that moves into a new apartment. Once in the apartment she finds that her next door neighbor is rather noisy sexually. She is drawn to listening through the wall.
As time goes on more and more women visit with her neighbor. It even gets to the point where the neighbor sends his guests to her apartment to ask for various items, a lubricant.
Finally, the neighbor knocks on her door and pulls her into his apartment and pushes her to her knees. Eventually, he makes her go to another neighbor and ask for vaseline.
There is a scene where the neighbor has sex with an engaged friend.
That's about all I can remember.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you,
Michelle
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The confusing answer is that you've gained weight because you started working out. Yes, that's right, you gained weight because you started working out. You're building muscle and muscle weighs more than, do I dare say it, fluff(fat). But here's the good part. Muscle burns more calories than fluff does. The more muscle you put on the more calories you burn and you will start to burn fluff faster.
The measure of working out should not be your weight. It's the measure that people have used for years and years but it's actually pretty inaccurate. A person that is completely fit with a body fat percent of say 6% will weigh more than a like sized person that has a body fat percent of 30%.
What you should be measuring your progress on is how you look, and how you fit in your clothes. How many push-ups and sit-ups you can do. How tired you are after a 30 minute cardio session.
If you've ever seen those infomercials for workouts like P90X or Insanity, one of the things they have you do is take some pictures of yourself, a front and a side. Then do the workout and the diet for 30 days and take the pictures again and again at 60 days and again at 90 days.
When you go back and compare those pictures you will be amazed.
Now here is the hardest part about the workout, the diet. You cannot be eating things like pizza and nachos and wings and work out expecting to "lose weight".
I'm not pushing any workout but I've done them all. I tend to be very ADHD and normally workout twice a day. I've read the material for workouts like P90X and Insanity, I've done both of them numerous times. The books and manuals that come with those programs do a very good job of explaining why diet is so important. I'm sure you can find them online.
And lastly, two weeks really isn't that long of an amount of time. You're going to need a little longer of a sample time to judge progress. You will start to see progress first in your arms, mainly the biceps and triceps. The thing that sucks about losing fat is it doesn't come off in only one location it comes off very slowly from your entire body.
If you do try either of the programs that I mentioned just start slow. You don't need to go crazy and try to use heavy weights. You don't need to do every exercise the first time or even the second or third. But over time you will build up and then be able to do it. Starting slow also helps avoid injuries. I've don't them so many times that I can't listen to the speakers anymore. I put on music and just know what's coming next. I also mix the two workouts together. There are sessions I like from each and sessions I don't so I mix and match to make the workout that I like.
I've also done CrossFit but tend to shy away from it after about 6 months. It was a little too hard on my joints. It has amazing results and some people love it but I found my shoulders were really sore.
If you have any questions feel free to send me a message,
Michelle
The measure of working out should not be your weight. It's the measure that people have used for years and years but it's actually pretty inaccurate. A person that is completely fit with a body fat percent of say 6% will weigh more than a like sized person that has a body fat percent of 30%.
What you should be measuring your progress on is how you look, and how you fit in your clothes. How many push-ups and sit-ups you can do. How tired you are after a 30 minute cardio session.
If you've ever seen those infomercials for workouts like P90X or Insanity, one of the things they have you do is take some pictures of yourself, a front and a side. Then do the workout and the diet for 30 days and take the pictures again and again at 60 days and again at 90 days.
When you go back and compare those pictures you will be amazed.
Now here is the hardest part about the workout, the diet. You cannot be eating things like pizza and nachos and wings and work out expecting to "lose weight".
I'm not pushing any workout but I've done them all. I tend to be very ADHD and normally workout twice a day. I've read the material for workouts like P90X and Insanity, I've done both of them numerous times. The books and manuals that come with those programs do a very good job of explaining why diet is so important. I'm sure you can find them online.
And lastly, two weeks really isn't that long of an amount of time. You're going to need a little longer of a sample time to judge progress. You will start to see progress first in your arms, mainly the biceps and triceps. The thing that sucks about losing fat is it doesn't come off in only one location it comes off very slowly from your entire body.
If you do try either of the programs that I mentioned just start slow. You don't need to go crazy and try to use heavy weights. You don't need to do every exercise the first time or even the second or third. But over time you will build up and then be able to do it. Starting slow also helps avoid injuries. I've don't them so many times that I can't listen to the speakers anymore. I put on music and just know what's coming next. I also mix the two workouts together. There are sessions I like from each and sessions I don't so I mix and match to make the workout that I like.
I've also done CrossFit but tend to shy away from it after about 6 months. It was a little too hard on my joints. It has amazing results and some people love it but I found my shoulders were really sore.
If you have any questions feel free to send me a message,
Michelle
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Okay I'm the odd one here. No, no, no and no.
Our bathroom is separated into a main area and a water closet with a door. Our toilet is in the water closet(obviously) and I don't even like to go when he's in main area and I have the door closed and the fan on.
On the other hand my fiancee has no issues with it at all.
Our bathroom is separated into a main area and a water closet with a door. Our toilet is in the water closet(obviously) and I don't even like to go when he's in main area and I have the door closed and the fan on.
On the other hand my fiancee has no issues with it at all.
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Briefs, boxer briefs or the sports boxers(not sure if that's the real name for them). If I had to pick a favorite it would be the sports boxers. My fiancee wears them and they look really hot.
I have never liked the look of boxers. The butt on boxers just look weird and droopy. There are some nice boxers but for the most part it's a no.
I have never liked the look of boxers. The butt on boxers just look weird and droopy. There are some nice boxers but for the most part it's a no.
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I think this is a guys forum so I guess my answer doesn't really count but I'm gonna share it anyway.
I don't think I can pick one woman. Every woman has some amazing quality about here. It could be the woman sitting at the table next to you at lunch and how she just glances at you out of the corner of her eye. It could be someone accidently showing her collarbone as her blouse opens. Someones in stockings covered leg or a beautiful babydoll that slips down over a woman's bottom.
To me there is not way to judge one man or woman as the sexiest. I've always hated those World's Most Handsome/Pretty Man/Woman magazine articles. Maybe in the one picture they're beautiful but when I walk through the mall I'm constantly going wow, she's pretty, he's handsome, etc.
Sorry, just my 25 cents(inflation, 2 cents doesn't get you anything anymore).
Michelle
I don't think I can pick one woman. Every woman has some amazing quality about here. It could be the woman sitting at the table next to you at lunch and how she just glances at you out of the corner of her eye. It could be someone accidently showing her collarbone as her blouse opens. Someones in stockings covered leg or a beautiful babydoll that slips down over a woman's bottom.
To me there is not way to judge one man or woman as the sexiest. I've always hated those World's Most Handsome/Pretty Man/Woman magazine articles. Maybe in the one picture they're beautiful but when I walk through the mall I'm constantly going wow, she's pretty, he's handsome, etc.
Sorry, just my 25 cents(inflation, 2 cents doesn't get you anything anymore).
Michelle
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Is it possible to choose only one? I have a new song with every mood, every change in relationship and every new adventure in my life. Way to many to choose from
I guess I would have to choose from the classic bands that have stood the test of time.
Let It Be - Beatles
Wild Horses - The Rolling Stones
While My Guitar Gently Weeps - George Harrison
Baba O'Riley - The Who
Something a little more modern but has a lot of meaning
Your Life Is Now - John Mellencamp
I guess I would have to choose from the classic bands that have stood the test of time.
Let It Be - Beatles
Wild Horses - The Rolling Stones
While My Guitar Gently Weeps - George Harrison
Baba O'Riley - The Who
Something a little more modern but has a lot of meaning
Your Life Is Now - John Mellencamp
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So, this past weekend I was out of town and staying in a hotel.
I think I fell asleep around 11:30 or 12:00. A short while later I woke up to the sound of a woman moaning. I don’t mean a gentle moan. I mean like wild sex and it just kept going on. I figured out it was from a porn movie in the room next to me.
I just lay there and thought “Seriously? I need to be up in 5 hours!" It was so loud I could hear the classic failed attempt at dialog in the movie. The sound of the moaning when on for what had to be 20 minutes.
Then in the hallway I heard people talking loudly. They were talking about going down to the hotel pool.
Out of the blue one of the girls blurts out “Ryan, do you want a blowjob?"
Oh my goodness. I couldn't believe that right there in the middle of a group of what sounded like 6 people she was asking that.
Ryan responded with a “Fuck yeah! Where and when?"
The girl responded with “My room right now if you want."
For about 5 minutes the talking got quieter but you could still hear the non-orally involved people talking in the hall. They were all standing right outside my door.
Then I heard the little electronic chime when someone swipes their room key and someone opened the door across the hall from me and said “Hurry up. You two almost done? We want to go to the pool."
They had opened the door and were just looking in at the girl giving a blowjob. I don't know of they could see the couple in the room or not.
Finally the people in the hallway just said to hurry up and meet them in the 5th floor pool. The people in the hall must have started to walk away because the voices got fainter and fainter.
A few minutes later I heard the door across from me open and close and people running down the hall. I'm guessing that things worked out well for Ryan and his lady friend. That was the last sound I heard that night.
I've stayed in a lot of hotels when I traveling for swimming and on vacation but I've never had something like that happen before.
Have other people had similar experiences to this? Does this happen often?
No I don't wish to participate but if anyone was in Charlotte, NC and involved in this send me a message. I would love to chat with you.
Michelle
I think I fell asleep around 11:30 or 12:00. A short while later I woke up to the sound of a woman moaning. I don’t mean a gentle moan. I mean like wild sex and it just kept going on. I figured out it was from a porn movie in the room next to me.
I just lay there and thought “Seriously? I need to be up in 5 hours!" It was so loud I could hear the classic failed attempt at dialog in the movie. The sound of the moaning when on for what had to be 20 minutes.
Then in the hallway I heard people talking loudly. They were talking about going down to the hotel pool.
Out of the blue one of the girls blurts out “Ryan, do you want a blowjob?"
Oh my goodness. I couldn't believe that right there in the middle of a group of what sounded like 6 people she was asking that.
Ryan responded with a “Fuck yeah! Where and when?"
The girl responded with “My room right now if you want."
For about 5 minutes the talking got quieter but you could still hear the non-orally involved people talking in the hall. They were all standing right outside my door.
Then I heard the little electronic chime when someone swipes their room key and someone opened the door across the hall from me and said “Hurry up. You two almost done? We want to go to the pool."
They had opened the door and were just looking in at the girl giving a blowjob. I don't know of they could see the couple in the room or not.
Finally the people in the hallway just said to hurry up and meet them in the 5th floor pool. The people in the hall must have started to walk away because the voices got fainter and fainter.
A few minutes later I heard the door across from me open and close and people running down the hall. I'm guessing that things worked out well for Ryan and his lady friend. That was the last sound I heard that night.
I've stayed in a lot of hotels when I traveling for swimming and on vacation but I've never had something like that happen before.
Have other people had similar experiences to this? Does this happen often?
No I don't wish to participate but if anyone was in Charlotte, NC and involved in this send me a message. I would love to chat with you.
Michelle
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I have the feeling I'm going to get bashed for this post but . . .
I have never had casual sex or a one night stand or whatever you want to call it but I would say yes condoms are a must.
When I first start a relationship condoms are a must. But after my boyfriend and I had been together for a period of time and we were in a committed relationship then we stopped using them only after we visited a doctor and got blood work done. I am on birth control and have been for a long time so the concern of pregnancy isn't there.
Michelle
I have never had casual sex or a one night stand or whatever you want to call it but I would say yes condoms are a must.
When I first start a relationship condoms are a must. But after my boyfriend and I had been together for a period of time and we were in a committed relationship then we stopped using them only after we visited a doctor and got blood work done. I am on birth control and have been for a long time so the concern of pregnancy isn't there.
Michelle
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Yes, absolutely. I like it before, during(well that's not exactly cuddling) and after. The thing I love most about sex is the intimacy that comes with the physical contact. The touching and tenderness that lovers give to each other. Cuddling is a great way to keep that intimacy going.
Michelle
Michelle