I would like to think that Destiny would present us possible "true loves" and the final decision is upon us.
Would we act on it or not? If we let the true love pass, destiny would still draw from her cards another suitable "true love" for us to act on. And so on. So in my opinion, although there's destiny, the final choice is within us.
Seems naughty but underneath he's nice. He just hasn't realized it yet. Hehehe kidding
Silence of exhaustion... hehe!