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musicluver
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
United States

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Ok i am married to someone who is more like a roomate now than anything and one of the main reasons was lack of communication (ie i have tried to get her to talk to me and she just doesnt) and my problem is we have a 3 year old that as much as i love her drives us beyond insane, which then pushes her mother to constantly yell at her which still accomplishes nothing as far as our daughter is concerned but try as i might i just cant seem to get her to calm down or to stop yelling so often any ideas?
Hmm thats a hard question to answer so precisely for me. Im middle 30s and one child whos 3 and she is smart funny cute loving joyful and shes also aggrivating opinionated too smart for her own good mouthy as hell destructive beyond belief. Would i go back if i could? not a chance in hell. Do i miss the days of not waking up to CUP WHERES MY CUP!!!! or hearing my pet scream for help because my daughter is strangling him? of course but life is about change and though rarely does life go exactly the way we intend there is no rewind button.
being unclean in anyway be it hair odor or just general lack of caring for how you look.
Breasts are nice in many shapes and sizes but i prefer middle to smaller preferably a nice c or b but with the right woman bigger is ok too :P
Tough question id like to think i would but in all honesty im going to have to say probably not
Boxers for sure, fuck those tighty whiteys boxers are just more comfortable
for me its both. i enjoy giving my partner the oral pleasure for sure but its also one of my favorite things to do personally.
wife or gf of course a stranger would depend on the circumstances a complete stranger just out of the blue? not likely and in front of another guy um nty
I prefer smooth not just because i love the look but because i have an oral thing and i prefer no hairs in my mouth :P
I agree with the wearing one of my t-shirts but i always liked it when they kept the panties on myself.
Is anyone where they want to be right now? in your life on in the world?
I dont really have a preference but if i had to pick i would say curvy
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Unless you're talking about car horns. I only use mine when I'm picking someone up or passing by someone I know or driving behind a complete asshole.


Lol you would break your horn in a week or less here seems like everyone behind the wheel is an asshole here.
I know this is supposed to be for the ladies but i wanted to just say the guy sounds like a sexual leech or something like that, the fact he would treat you so nice and then turn around and then do that with your daughter is not only sick and wrong but its cruel not only to you but to your daughter. I dont see their relationship as something that will last and then your daughter will feel im sure as badly as you if not worse. The only thing i could think to do in a situation like that would be to sit down with your daughter and just talk to her. There isnt much else you can do but i do not believe you have lost your daughter.
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one thing at a time... so... another 40 years will do it, i'm guessing? smile




Wait wait wait a minute hold the train!!! Ok i hear so often about us men having to leave the seat down but do any of you women ever offer to put the seat up for us men? :P
as far as pet peeves, i think my only one is just (although in my own experiences rather limited) lack of respect for others in general. Like in a chat room talking to someone with a little respect isnt too hard and though i havent had the problem myself it doesnt affect me any less to see it happen to someone else. We are all adults (arent we? :P ) and its not really a hard concept.
Thinking of a special person who has brightened my life and lifted my spirit, and knowing she is missing me as much as i do her smile
Actually for once in my life my relationship is going better than i could have hoped, met a very special person and the rest as they say is history.
With it reworded that way theres alot of people, many musicians but if i could only pick a couple hell the entire band Tool, Dean Koontz, Chuck Liddel, Jet Li plus a whole bunch of musicians
there are so many kinds of love. the love of friends family and your children to name a few. The love between two people can manifest itself in many ways, the uncontrollable need or desire to be with a person, the degrading of your ability to speak stomach in knots or any of a million other things. Love to me is the connection between two people that has risen to such a deepness and such a level of knowledge of not only that person but of yourself as well.
As much as we all would love to have a perfect person no such man or woman exists, but we all have the capacity for good bad and a bit of the gray in between the two. What you have to answer for yourself is which lies to you are harmful/harmless, because sometimes you just have to look at the bigger picture. Not to say flush your ideals or morals.
Nothing worth having comes easy. I think you should give her a little breathing space and just hold off on the upping the relationship stakes right now, if you truly want something more than what you have and shes not ready you risk alot so just be her friend and have patience
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It's not necerssarily just about "getting their rocks off". Just like most escorts will say, it's rarely about the sex. For a spouse that isn't getting affection or respect at home, it's the closeness that he/she craves.

I can testify to that for the simple fact that i wasnt so much looking for a married woman but looking for someone to appreciate and WANT to share feelings and affections with. i cant speak for anyone else on here but the road of life can be a lonely place without someone there to share your ups and downs with and i think all most of us really just want someone to go down that road with. But thats just my two cents
For me i would have to say having sex in a park at night with a cop car less than 15 feet away
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but I guess I must be a bit immature for my age, because on that level, all my relationships with much younger girls was great.

I dont think it has anything to do with your maturity i think it has more something to do with your willingness to try new things as well as work at your relationships or at leas thats how it sounds to me
Ive seen a growing issue with some people from various places and walks of life, who for some reason or another will stop seeing someone who has a child with someone else. I personally have dated a couple of women in my life that had one or more children with a previous man and i never for a minute thought of breaking up with them because of the child, so am i missing something?
Ok so this is my first post on here but i dont tend to speak up on matters unless they have meaning to me and this one does. Age for the most part is only a number, but if you have a connection with someone and care for that person then the age shouldnt matter. It may cause bumps in the road so to speak but life is never without problems. If two people care for one another then the only thing that should matter is taking those bumps hand in hand with each other and getting through each problem together. There is no right or wrong there is really only emotion and action and how we chose to deal with them.