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Love it when he gives me commands, "What are you waiting for-Take your clothes off-Suck my dick-Stick the vibe in your ass and fuck yourself-Give me your ass-Suck your tits." : ) It feels good when he bends me over and shoves in to me or makes me stand over him on the bed so he can reach with his hand as far as he can go inside of me waiting for my juice to spill over him wanting some in his mouth. Yummmmm
But also, like to take him when he tired and worn out from a hard day. Strip myself, push him down on the the bed on his back, pull his pants off lift his shirt and suck or fuck him off. Love to straddle his face between my legs and love making messes on his face, chest, groin and legs. : ) sweet sweet
But also, like to take him when he tired and worn out from a hard day. Strip myself, push him down on the the bed on his back, pull his pants off lift his shirt and suck or fuck him off. Love to straddle his face between my legs and love making messes on his face, chest, groin and legs. : ) sweet sweet
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Watch gay porn and learn. Love what you're doing. Keep your mouth and body relaxed and comfortable. Use your hands and tits to touch his cock, balls, groin, ass, chest, and thighs and also, touch yourself. Learn how to breath and take easy deep breaths. Watch his face and concentrate on his cock. Don't swallow your mouth-water but let it soak him, your face and hands, bed, whatever. : ) Listen to what he tells you.
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Many young women don't experience orgasm for the first few years. I believe this is because men do not take their time opening gently the young woman.
There is a lot of info on the web to help you learn as much as you can about the mechanics of pleasuring a woman and it is worth your time to learn from the research.
My best advise is to go easy with her and yourself and touch/rub/taste and explore her whole body. This is a turns-on and can make her feel known and appreciated and that the time spent with her is for more than just sex. Don't expect orgasm as a conclusion to coupling but instead take the time to make her feel safe with you and feel that you will be there regardless of orgasm. The mind and heart are very big parts of a young and old woman's orgasm.
Be assertive unselfishly and guide her as the male which is a natural turn-on for an inexperienced woman.
Let her be modest if she needs to be. Time will help you both. : )
There is a lot of info on the web to help you learn as much as you can about the mechanics of pleasuring a woman and it is worth your time to learn from the research.
My best advise is to go easy with her and yourself and touch/rub/taste and explore her whole body. This is a turns-on and can make her feel known and appreciated and that the time spent with her is for more than just sex. Don't expect orgasm as a conclusion to coupling but instead take the time to make her feel safe with you and feel that you will be there regardless of orgasm. The mind and heart are very big parts of a young and old woman's orgasm.
Be assertive unselfishly and guide her as the male which is a natural turn-on for an inexperienced woman.
Let her be modest if she needs to be. Time will help you both. : )
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In the day it was vodka (any vodka-well preferred) and soda with lemon twist to flavor rim of bucket glass with lots of ice and little soda. Today, we might go out once a week and both drink Jack & Seven in a highball (small glass) with lots of ice and little Seven. Always been partial to dry red wine and keep a boxed Merlot in the house. The box in the kitchen has been there for months. Because it's all it takes, after the day is wrapped up, I'll have two or three swallows once or twice a week to adjust my mood, relax my mind and warm my soul. : ) Stay away from the stuff when I'm sad or mad fo'sho'.
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don't go to the doctor unless i'm diying can't aford it and never could -raised that way
What he used is none of your biz lol -Once in a while (great while) he gets that way which is cool. His hard on let's me know he needs it. He lives the life of a gentle giant. Sweetness is his name although he's always in charge. When we do this, he's kinda out of control and always feels bad afterwards. I love that I can help him and it turns me on when he picks me up and puts me where he wants me and then uses my body to get what he needs. It feels gooooood and makes me happy. : )
Was a little worried, guessed that's why i asked for advice -thought you wouldn't mind : )
What he used is none of your biz lol -Once in a while (great while) he gets that way which is cool. His hard on let's me know he needs it. He lives the life of a gentle giant. Sweetness is his name although he's always in charge. When we do this, he's kinda out of control and always feels bad afterwards. I love that I can help him and it turns me on when he picks me up and puts me where he wants me and then uses my body to get what he needs. It feels gooooood and makes me happy. : )
Was a little worried, guessed that's why i asked for advice -thought you wouldn't mind : )
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the injury wasn't caused by his penis but with a large hard object -ironically now that i've shared my worries, the bleeding seems to have stopped this morning : ) he has been out of town for a weeks and i've been stressed knowing he'd be upset to find me still bleeding when he gets home.
thanks for the words everyone -all is well -have a good day
thanks for the words everyone -all is well -have a good day
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You are very young and probably inexperienced. It's natural for many young women to be submissive. In fact, it feels natural for many women throughout their lives. Find someone who wants to dominate and let them help you learn as much as you can about the give and take of relationships. It's as simple as that. Pretty sure you will either be happy being dominated or learn how to ask for something different.
Most people enjoy some give and some take. : )
Most people enjoy some give and some take. : )
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We had rough sex two weeks ago which ended in bright red spots of blood on the bed. Everyday since for two weeks, I've bled just a little with a slight burn in my lower abdomen. The bleeding in not bright but pale. Because I've not had a period for close to a year because of menopause, I don't think it's menstrual but have had trauma bring on the menstrual process before. Don't know what's going on and really don't want to have to go to doctor for this even though I know I probably should have already. Haven't gone because of embarrassment but because I just don't want to go to the damn doctor-
The sex was good and I feel fine except for the strange warm burn in my belly. He feels worse than I do about it.
Has anyone experienced this and how long can it take for something like this to heal?
Thanks
The sex was good and I feel fine except for the strange warm burn in my belly. He feels worse than I do about it.
Has anyone experienced this and how long can it take for something like this to heal?
Thanks
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Plain old growing pains or plain survival, be it emotional or physically important is whoring?
For me, the word whore describes a person who chooses to get through whatever without scruples and who is immoral without concern for anything but themselves. Whore does not describe a man stuck in a dead end job to take care of his own or a woman selling the only thing she believes is of worth to do ultimately the same.
It's important for me to know that I am not a whore even though I've made a lot of mistakes in my life to survive and because I was ignorant. The things that I and others have learned in this struggle are precious to me and not whoredom.
Some are not born with nobility but earn this and die with it. I believe LadyX and I and most are those people.
For the subject, I've thought about selling my body more times than I'd like to admit but could not bring myself to do it even though I was desperate. I did not do it I'm sure because I was selfish and couldn't bring myself to it even to feed my children. I did beg, steal and lie.
For me, the word whore describes a person who chooses to get through whatever without scruples and who is immoral without concern for anything but themselves. Whore does not describe a man stuck in a dead end job to take care of his own or a woman selling the only thing she believes is of worth to do ultimately the same.
It's important for me to know that I am not a whore even though I've made a lot of mistakes in my life to survive and because I was ignorant. The things that I and others have learned in this struggle are precious to me and not whoredom.
Some are not born with nobility but earn this and die with it. I believe LadyX and I and most are those people.
For the subject, I've thought about selling my body more times than I'd like to admit but could not bring myself to do it even though I was desperate. I did not do it I'm sure because I was selfish and couldn't bring myself to it even to feed my children. I did beg, steal and lie.
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Quote by lafayettemisterQuote by TracyAmesQuote by lafayettemister
Personally, I don't like having to "earn" head. If I were to go down on a lover it wouldn't be because she did something to garner my attention there. It would be because i like doing it and she likes getting it. If she hated blowing me, I'd still do her if she got off on it. If I have to mow the yard, paint the fence, change the oil in teh car to get, whatever... sooner or later the "price" for getting a bj will get more and more until it's "unaffordable". If a guy's being a dick, then he may not get any head. But in the heat of a sexual moment, why stop the fun because he isn't worth it. Of course I'm talking about a long term relationship, not just a random one night stand. That's different.
OMG, you nailed it! Why barter sex? That gets old fast and there's always someone offering discounts. That goes for both sexes. Either you want to do it or you don't. And yes, sadly external events do enter the bedroom. But if I'm too pissed to give a blowjob, why would sex be an option period? Are there levels of pissed I've missed? Is there a flow chart?
Thanks. And yes that goes for both sexes. I'm sure if a guy said to his wife or girlfriend something like, "Wow, you cooked a great supper and cleaned the dishes, lay down and open your legs. You deserve to be eaten out." That wouldn't be all that appealing either. With all things sexual.. if you like or want to do it, do it. If you don't, don't. Simple as that.
yes to this and totally agree for you -
In my home and I think because, we (my man and i) are much older and than you, we need blow jobs and hand jobs because our bodies are not young anymore. He can not use his worn out knees and I am not positioned like a girl any longer. He works six days a week and I full time on the move all shift. We have the best sex either of us have experienced everyday for hours sometimes. The only way we could do this is use the best that we have offer each other. This understanding is beautiful and wonderful sexually. I think the alternative would be no together sex like so many older lonely people. We count our blessings everyday and are happy to an unimaginable extent. I say this because, I never thought sex could be so wonderful even though I have been practically addicted since I was a girl. This also is an addiction. I need his cock in my mouth. It gets me off. The hardness of him is exciting and rewarding because I love him. He also is at his peak when I am begging for him to stop because I can't keep cumming thinking I might kill over from orgasm. He is so talented, and I've said this before, that he can touch me with just a finger in the right place and make me cum instantly anytime anywhere and I know from personal experience that many dicks in my puss couldn't get this done. I can take him when I want him with my mouth easily anytime and consequently he is addicted to my mouth. Why shouldn't he be? It makes him happy. There are tools to use for happiness. If you don't need this of course that's OK. Don't know what I would do without and know if I knew what I know now about pleasuring a man when I was younger sex would of been different and my life would of been different but then, I wouldn't have known the wonderful man in the world. : )
edit- Gave a lot of head when I was young. They liked it and some liked so much they also became selfishly addicted. That's not what I'm talking about. There's no selfishness in my sex life now. In fact, my mate wished for the longest time that he could fuck me like a young man could and I know sometimes still he wishes but now, he knows happiness like never before. The lack of selfishness between us is what has made the sex so good for us.
If you understand what I'm trying to say pete379, give it a try.
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Giving head is a learned art and it's understandable that many men can't cum this way because all givers don't know how to achieve that outcome but with practice anyone can be great.
Don't think women are born with the urge to give it but have done so and do so for any of the reason's stated by Chase. I believe most women and maybe most men who are willing or pressured to give head go through the usual growing pains and stress that come with any trial and error lesson and because it is emotional as well, it can be even more difficult than a usual lesson. Teach her from the beginning with praise and reward.
With this said, giving and receiving can be a beautiful thing even if one learned and advanced with bad experience and even if the one giving is still learning if the desire is there. It takes the love of something or maybe someone or maybe it can be pure self desire that makes people perfect such tasks. In any case, it is desire that creates perfection and sometimes obsession and sometimes addiction which can be good or bad for either.
It is my stand that all sexual desire between willing adults is beautiful and that most unsatisfied desire is satisfiable with mutual desire and understanding in time. Albeit, it seems that the willingness of one is the part that is absent most of the time and that even if the willingness is there the selfishness of the other has a way of canceling any efforts. What the HELL.
I do believe it's OK to not want to or to want to do many things sexually. We all have our own sexual priorities and understandings of what is right and wrong which should be allowed to any so that we may advance in the direction we choose.
There is so much discovered and undiscovered desire in a soul. Why not help the one you love if you can? That means you guys help your woman through this process if it's that important - Peace : )
Don't think women are born with the urge to give it but have done so and do so for any of the reason's stated by Chase. I believe most women and maybe most men who are willing or pressured to give head go through the usual growing pains and stress that come with any trial and error lesson and because it is emotional as well, it can be even more difficult than a usual lesson. Teach her from the beginning with praise and reward.
With this said, giving and receiving can be a beautiful thing even if one learned and advanced with bad experience and even if the one giving is still learning if the desire is there. It takes the love of something or maybe someone or maybe it can be pure self desire that makes people perfect such tasks. In any case, it is desire that creates perfection and sometimes obsession and sometimes addiction which can be good or bad for either.
It is my stand that all sexual desire between willing adults is beautiful and that most unsatisfied desire is satisfiable with mutual desire and understanding in time. Albeit, it seems that the willingness of one is the part that is absent most of the time and that even if the willingness is there the selfishness of the other has a way of canceling any efforts. What the HELL.
I do believe it's OK to not want to or to want to do many things sexually. We all have our own sexual priorities and understandings of what is right and wrong which should be allowed to any so that we may advance in the direction we choose.
There is so much discovered and undiscovered desire in a soul. Why not help the one you love if you can? That means you guys help your woman through this process if it's that important - Peace : )
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I might be speaking out of school here but here I go anyway -Keep it clean, don't ask/beg before hand but lay on the bed and pull her to you in 69. Spread her legs and use your fingers-hand-mouth exploring pussy and anus until you have her cumming and then, (tell) her to suck your cock but don't stop what your doing to her even if it takes her a while to respond.
Male assertiveness and patience generally excites a woman where as begging is usually a turn-off and if you are excited/hard while pleasuring her she hopefully is complimented and will want to give the same and may even get off on it.
For some guys, head is all they think about and this can be construed as, he doesn't like my pussy, and it hurts a woman to think anything is better than her womanhood.
love her well and hopefully, she will do the same -never forget the pussy : )
Male assertiveness and patience generally excites a woman where as begging is usually a turn-off and if you are excited/hard while pleasuring her she hopefully is complimented and will want to give the same and may even get off on it.
For some guys, head is all they think about and this can be construed as, he doesn't like my pussy, and it hurts a woman to think anything is better than her womanhood.
love her well and hopefully, she will do the same -never forget the pussy : )
