Always wanted an old mini cooper, don't know what the model would be called though
What is your dream job?
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naughtysarah28
2 hours ago
Lesbian Female, 34
0 miles · Nottingham
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I want to marry you (assuming it's first date or something like that)
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Tears in heaven - Eric Clapton
The show must go on - Queen
Yesterday - Beatles
The show must go on - Queen
Yesterday - Beatles
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friend of a friend, we met when we all went for a night out and became friends ourselves before starting to date.
What's your favorite meal?
What's your favorite meal?
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Could eat that again.
You've got a little something on your chin.
Just have a little try... you might like it.
You've got a little something on your chin.
Just have a little try... you might like it.
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yep.. my puppy eyes didn't help 
have you ever dreamt of someone you met on lush?
have you ever dreamt of someone you met on lush?
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Strawberries without a doubt 
grew up near a strawberry field and loved going there as a kid with my family
grew up near a strawberry field and loved going there as a kid with my family 
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Of course, i might let you leave afterwards as well... maybe ;)
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Larousse Gastronomique, one of the best books i've read..tons of infomations, history, tips and recipes. If you want to know something about cooking it's probally in the book somewhere
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If i had to choose only one, i think i'd pick giving as i love it when i have fingers going through and gripping my hair. Looking up seeing how the breathing changes, little moments of the stomach tensing up and of course the facial expression. Perfect place to tease.
Having said that i don't complain when it's the other way around.
Having said that i don't complain when it's the other way around.
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Use fingers first before toys. If you can stretch yourself to three fingers knuckles deep, then you should reach for toys.
Use mint flavored lube too, it'll tingle and will cause you to slightly relax.
Definitely good advice to use fingers first and take it slow. I do understand wanting to get the bases sorted before trying it with your partner but depending on your relationship it might be easier to do it with her. Only you will know for sure if that's a good move or not but give it some thought, she might enjoy helping you as it seems your fighting against your own thoughts when you try.
Best of luck to you both
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I don't mind if they were younger or older. It has more to do with their attitude,i don't really mind if she's inexperienced as a Domme either. It's about the journey you make together as long as you both enjoy it, that's all that matters.
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It's always nice when an author responds to a comments but at the end of the day we should be... well 'looking after ourselves' while reading, maybe? lol
Some authors might be extremely shy and this could be their way of expressing themselves, but too shy to interact with people outside their friendship group or they might not even be on lush anymore. Hopefully you enjoyed the story, anything on top of that is awesome. But everyones different i guess
Some authors might be extremely shy and this could be their way of expressing themselves, but too shy to interact with people outside their friendship group or they might not even be on lush anymore. Hopefully you enjoyed the story, anything on top of that is awesome. But everyones different i guess
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Hopefully this isn't too late for you;
First off, Congrats on entering the world of Bdsm and secondly, this is just my opinion so take it with a pinch of salt
For me the most important thing about Bdsm is that there is a lot of 'smoke and mirrors', the Sub has a lot more control than people often think because of 'hard' limits and safe words. The Domme is almost like the director of the Subs inner most hidden fantasies, bringing them out of her and experiencing them together but both partners need to enjoy it.
IN CASE YOU DON'T KNOW;
hard limits = do not even attempt under any circumstances, treat anything that is a hard limit as non-consensual basically and best to avoid things approaching/similar to it.
safe words = something easy you can say that won't come up in the heat of the moment for example “Grey” generally it means stop what you are doing and shouldn't be mistaken for playful resistance/begging
you can also have a 'slow-down or i need a breather' safe word
Limits and safe words are always needed. If the dom/domme ignores a safe word/limit then they're a prick.
When you first start out, it's a good idea for the Domme to keep kissing the subs body, brushing her hair behind the ear, playfully teasing, tickling (if they like it) etc something to reassure the sub that she/he is loved no matter what is happening and that they won't get hurt. As you move forward it becomes less important because you grow to understand one another and both people will know that they are safe, loved and most importantly enjoying it.
Also take it slow, you'll be having sex more than once - hopefully :P - so no need to cram every kink into one night
And don't forget to cuddle afterwards and talk about it.
Hope that helps as I said just my opinion, at the end of the day you will have to find your own way but best of luck to you both
First off, Congrats on entering the world of Bdsm and secondly, this is just my opinion so take it with a pinch of salt
For me the most important thing about Bdsm is that there is a lot of 'smoke and mirrors', the Sub has a lot more control than people often think because of 'hard' limits and safe words. The Domme is almost like the director of the Subs inner most hidden fantasies, bringing them out of her and experiencing them together but both partners need to enjoy it.
IN CASE YOU DON'T KNOW;
hard limits = do not even attempt under any circumstances, treat anything that is a hard limit as non-consensual basically and best to avoid things approaching/similar to it.
safe words = something easy you can say that won't come up in the heat of the moment for example “Grey” generally it means stop what you are doing and shouldn't be mistaken for playful resistance/begging
you can also have a 'slow-down or i need a breather' safe word
Limits and safe words are always needed. If the dom/domme ignores a safe word/limit then they're a prick.
When you first start out, it's a good idea for the Domme to keep kissing the subs body, brushing her hair behind the ear, playfully teasing, tickling (if they like it) etc something to reassure the sub that she/he is loved no matter what is happening and that they won't get hurt. As you move forward it becomes less important because you grow to understand one another and both people will know that they are safe, loved and most importantly enjoying it.
Also take it slow, you'll be having sex more than once - hopefully :P - so no need to cram every kink into one night
And don't forget to cuddle afterwards and talk about it.
Hope that helps as I said just my opinion, at the end of the day you will have to find your own way but best of luck to you both
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1) yes, more so on warmer days or if i'm on a date
2) No never really
3) yeah but not for a while, i've been pretending to be mature shhh
2) No never really
3) yeah but not for a while, i've been pretending to be mature shhh
