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I'm legitimately curious.
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okino77
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 156
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I only ask because because I had one ex-girlfriend in college (she was quite young, only 18) who had a real complex about me seeing her from behind ect. because (and it took her a while to tell me this), she was afraid I'd see her anus and it would be a turn off. It was strange, since it looked totally normal but I can understand her perspective since there's such a stigma on that area as "more intimate" than even the vagina (for whatever reason) but most men I know (myself included) find women's anus' realty cute and sexy.
So how do you feel about a guy seeing your anus during sex?: embarrassed? Indifferent? Aroused?
So how do you feel about a guy seeing your anus during sex?: embarrassed? Indifferent? Aroused?
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Quote by mirrorkisses
From a female's perspective, I think that the association with the anus being more "private" is largely because women often hold more insecurity and shame in that area . I had a female friend who was afraid to have doggy style because she didn't want her boyfriend seeing her anus, as she mistakenly thought it would be a turn off for him. It really represents the ultimate vulnerability for a woman because it is seen as not glamorous, associated with a body functions that women don't wish you to know they possess lol. I believe it should be embraced as a beautiful erogenous zone, personally, as this opens a woman up to her full sexuality and I'm opposed to any form of bodily shame.
That makes a lot of sense that it is partially rooted in women's perceptions of that area, that when a woman does reveal her anus she is casting aside her shame and opening herself up to her full and complete humanity, which to men is an overwhelming experience of trust and intimacy.
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Now that I have your attention 
I was recently looking at a photo set on one of those quasi-artsy nude sites and there was a set of an exceptionally pretty (in the most girl-next-door sense) girl who was about 18 or 19. She had done several sets before and always kept to pretty demure posing but in this one set, she appeared to be "opening up" more. In one particular photo, she was shot from above on her hands in knees with her butt arched up, her cheeks were parted open and between them, clear as day, was her cute anus, visible to the viewer for the first time after months of photos that were significantly more modest.
This wouldn't mean much as some girls start showing off the bits from the get go but something about her slow, protracted tease and her innocent look set the comment section into a frenzy when that photo was published. Guys were commenting on how beautiful it was that she had finally surrendered to the viewer the "most intimate" part of her body (referring to her anus). The conversation quickly turned oddly philosophical, that there was something strangely humanizing about seeing such a beautiful girl's anus. It was like how you build a beauty up as the idealized, flawless goddess in your mind but then, when confronted with her most explicit orifice, you recognize she is ultimately human and her revealing that humanity is like a beautiful and erotic exchange of trust.
Now, this could all be written off as pretentious prattle but it seriously got me thinking. Why do many men view the anus as the "most intimate" part of a woman's body. It is not as singularly feminine as the vagina nor strictly associated with sexual reproduction like the vagina but it is often regarded as even "more private." Beyond a simple glandular attraction, what do you think the allure if of the female anus is? Do you relate in seeing a beautiful woman's anus as something that's transcendently erotic?
I was recently looking at a photo set on one of those quasi-artsy nude sites and there was a set of an exceptionally pretty (in the most girl-next-door sense) girl who was about 18 or 19. She had done several sets before and always kept to pretty demure posing but in this one set, she appeared to be "opening up" more. In one particular photo, she was shot from above on her hands in knees with her butt arched up, her cheeks were parted open and between them, clear as day, was her cute anus, visible to the viewer for the first time after months of photos that were significantly more modest.
This wouldn't mean much as some girls start showing off the bits from the get go but something about her slow, protracted tease and her innocent look set the comment section into a frenzy when that photo was published. Guys were commenting on how beautiful it was that she had finally surrendered to the viewer the "most intimate" part of her body (referring to her anus). The conversation quickly turned oddly philosophical, that there was something strangely humanizing about seeing such a beautiful girl's anus. It was like how you build a beauty up as the idealized, flawless goddess in your mind but then, when confronted with her most explicit orifice, you recognize she is ultimately human and her revealing that humanity is like a beautiful and erotic exchange of trust.
Now, this could all be written off as pretentious prattle but it seriously got me thinking. Why do many men view the anus as the "most intimate" part of a woman's body. It is not as singularly feminine as the vagina nor strictly associated with sexual reproduction like the vagina but it is often regarded as even "more private." Beyond a simple glandular attraction, what do you think the allure if of the female anus is? Do you relate in seeing a beautiful woman's anus as something that's transcendently erotic?