A middle-aged gent with a taste for the classy, refined and debauched. I'm interested in getting to know some kindred spirits in the chatrooms / via direct messages and seeing where conversations lead. I'm mature in both age and etiquette, so I do understand that much of the fun lies in the foreplay of words and thoughts, rather than just sending a dick pic and expecting a full inbox. Some of the stuff I've seen on here in that respect makes the mind boggle..