Join the best erotica focused adult social network now
Login
oldhound
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 58
Saudi Arabia
Forum
Active Ink Slinger
Any cheese with hemlock thank you.
I tried to use this forun because I had nowhere, noone to talk to. Last time it got like this, I racked up an excessive force charge. Om,, youre 53 and you have my respect as an elder, but I gather you didnt go through what I have. I needed to rant, maybe find that grain of wisdom I hadnt seen yet. Tough it up, man up, theres a girl out there for you, stop working the 30 th time you get nuked. But that may be out of.your frame of reference., no offense intended, just mean you havent walked in my boots
I tried to use this forun because I had nowhere, noone to talk to. Last time it got like this, I racked up an excessive force charge. Om,, youre 53 and you have my respect as an elder, but I gather you didnt go through what I have. I needed to rant, maybe find that grain of wisdom I hadnt seen yet. Tough it up, man up, theres a girl out there for you, stop working the 30 th time you get nuked. But that may be out of.your frame of reference., no offense intended, just mean you havent walked in my boots
Active Ink Slinger
In reply to.Felix notes:
I apparently have no good qualities TO offer a woman, this is actually based on a recent conversation I overheard between females in my work place. They didnt know I was there, I dont make much noise when I walk
Due to my profession, we tend to apologize and fix the issue, rather than continue because usually we get charged for a variety of things.
Switch what up? Im a hippy redneck geek, no chance Im gonna be James bond. And Ive.passed all my psych evals
I apparently have no good qualities TO offer a woman, this is actually based on a recent conversation I overheard between females in my work place. They didnt know I was there, I dont make much noise when I walk
Due to my profession, we tend to apologize and fix the issue, rather than continue because usually we get charged for a variety of things.
Switch what up? Im a hippy redneck geek, no chance Im gonna be James bond. And Ive.passed all my psych evals
Active Ink Slinger
Hmmm, teens: 5`10”, 120, braces, fur, oversized canines, hair to.midback
20: uniform, no hair on head, 6'1”, 190,
30: same, 6'0” , 250,
40: same, 6'0, 180.
Times turned down for the pretty boys(including brother):33
20: uniform, no hair on head, 6'1”, 190,
30: same, 6'0” , 250,
40: same, 6'0, 180.
Times turned down for the pretty boys(including brother):33
Active Ink Slinger
Re reading this, I see, thanks to many bullets of advice, that I have left out a lot and should have phrased or put my issues into a different format. So Ill address a few responses and hopefully I will see clicks of comprehension, not sighs. Ms doll, u just happened to describe me, thats all. Im old, retiring from a job that for the last ten years should have gotten me in contact with all kinds of women, no, I was the DD, the safe guy, etc. First marriage ended because she didnt like my work anymore, I was gone too much, when I handed her the paperwork that said I was done, going to be home, she told me she was having an affair with a guy ten years older than me, 50 pounds overweight and had a heart condition. Big ego boost there. Second marriage, less than one year after the first was final, threw me out for things like not making coffee in the morning. Used me for medical benefits. Hadnt been intimate with her for more than a year, her choice. I wasnt allowed to touch her, I disgusted her. Ive been asked to put my shirt on at pool parties, many times. Im not a physical slouch, bench 320, leg press 1000,(once). I hike, swim etc. but I am ALWAYS the guy that is never, ever good enough.
Active Ink Slinger
Well atleast I know now, knowing is half the.battle. Thanks, making my choice easier. After 45 years, I dont think liking myself is gonna happen.
Active Ink Slinger
Thanks for the info and advicd,, just to.clarify though, this.is just a culmination of thirty years of crap. Not one instance.
Active Ink Slinger
Well I guess you described me to a tee then. Socially retarded, thats genetic I think on my part. Boring...I thought my life experience would have nixed that, but my luck...nope. Bitter out look on life...call it repetitive trauma reaction. You beat a dog so long, sometimes they get mean.
Active Ink Slinger
Some point in their life? Im 45, and it has never ended! I am now to the point I cant stop ”projecting” anger. I have the cool job, a cool history, done really cool stuff, yet still, its the pretty boys with a gangster edge that girls fall for. I have tried..and tried to be the nice guy and let this roll off my furry back, but I guess three decades is long enough.
Active Ink Slinger
No offense or disrespect intended, but the advice or comments given by three women displayed as gorgeous arch typical sex symbols would carry little weight with the ones whom society find horrid. That trio has never been laughed at in public when asking someone out. They havent been dumped fo some thug gangster wannabe. Just my insignificant opinion
Active Ink Slinger
Lol, girls saying ”they dont mind it” yeah right. No woman likes a guy who doesnt need a body suit to be a wolfman on Halloween. We cant help it! And hell, mine grows back in DAYS! This site has so much insight into the.female mind.
Active Ink Slinger
No real advice in here, guess Ill go with my plan of turning all the pain into a burning ball of rage, that should.keep me warm at night.
Active Ink Slinger
Ms Nikki, that old line of not settling, the right girl is out there, well maam, that is the hot rusty blade in a guys ches. Same with, everything happens for a reason. Yeah the reason is the girl always goes for the bbd, and what collateral damage occurs is giggled about in chat rooms or texts like Hunters boasting of their latest kill
Active Ink Slinger
Wow, reading this, I should be far more popular, of course its all filtered so they dont sound as bad as men are accused of being. Crap, Im six foot, 180 pounds, fit, especially compared to most my age. Blue eyes, but Im bald on my head and furry everywhere else. Kind if like an ocer evolved Irish Wolfhound. Women go for the hot, cool guys, even if he is a complete opposite of them. They want looks and money, everything else, theyll deal with.
Active Ink Slinger
Ok, great question, and I believe her past would not really be an issue, or deal breaker. If I met a girl that comfortable with her sexuality, its part of what attracts me to her. I was fortunate enough to date a dancer while stationed in Kentucky. She really enjoyed extreme sexual situations, ( public sex, public nudity, etc.) It made her recognizable in the area and we ran into guys she had been with often. It made her thr person I was very much thinking was the one. I wasnt hers, so she went with a bad boy, but such is life.
