In the gay area of the local nude beach, and on web cam alone or with my fuck buddy.
Am trying to find a third guy/gal who can use a camera properly to help make some home vid's.
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paulonyou
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I've had plenty of bj's from women and guys, and I've sucked a lot of cock too. Just like most of the guys here I'm guessing we've all received at least one forgettable bj and one or two stellar bj's, and a lot in between.
Generally guys give better bj's because a) they want to, b) they know how it feels, c) they usually swallow
I find the down side to guys bj's is I find there's the lack of 'after glow' when it's all done, women tend to linger longer too.
Generally guys give better bj's because a) they want to, b) they know how it feels, c) they usually swallow
I find the down side to guys bj's is I find there's the lack of 'after glow' when it's all done, women tend to linger longer too.
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SHE doesn't ... interestingly enough, I know she is not opposed to the idea of sharing me with another woman.. but she does not want to be there.. nor does she really want me to be with another...
Strewth, she'll let you go walkabout - what a bonza shiela. I kinda get the jist of it but like ya suggest it's a tough call to choose to follow through if you know she's gonna be pissed or it's gonna piss on the relationship.
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I think he mentioned something along the lines of "no fucking way" and "over his dead body."
He didn't seem to be a big fan of that whole thing. Go figure.
Thanks for your comment. I see we're both Aries so maybe there's a bit of a cosmic connection to being interested in sharing partners together. I don't suppose your man is a Scorpio? My wife is and I've got a feeling that may have a lot to with her 'disgust' at me even talking about it.
The thing is I would love to watch her get into fucking with another guy, seeing her let-go and get fully consumed in getting off with a new cock. That's why I posed the question, because no matter what I say see doesn't even want to know. Never the less I respect her boundaries so I let it go - at least for a while
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Most guys I know would love to have their woman fuck another guy or gal, and I've tried to to explain it to my wife, but it always sounds so lame. Basically I cant explain it other than saying it's so hot and makes me feel great thinking how sexy she is getting off.
How do you explain it to your woman?
What sounded good and worked and what came out all wrong and pissed her off?
How do you explain it to your woman?
What sounded good and worked and what came out all wrong and pissed her off?
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I'd suggest you don't combine a hand job and finger probe at the same time, at least not until you've got him well and truly hard and horny.
Sucking and licking is much better.
When you sense your guy is really getting into it, move your fingers from cupping and massaging his balls to rubbing under his scrotum.
Add some lubricant on your fingers, spitting on his balls and rubbing it in and down toward his butt can feel awesome.
With more wetness start to rub around his rosebud, keep sucking and licking his cock, and if he likes it he'll be moving his hips to meet your fingers on his rosebud.
BTW don't expect long or sharp finger nails to be at all helpful.
Add more lube and gradually slide in one finger up to the first knuckle and meanwhile he should still be right into it.
If he's getting close to coming don't be tempted to plunge your finger in - just let him cum, swallow or whatever you do, keeping your finger where it is and moving only gently until all his spasms have finished.
The next time you do it add more lube and slide in your finger to the second knuckle or all the way in, but don't rush into adding a second finger - most guys don't like it.
You might like to go out and buy a toy or two. There are some butt plugs that you can learn to really enjoy having inserted and played with while being sucked or even fucking. Coming really hard with a finger or plug inside you can be incredibly powerful and the spasms strong enough to shoot out the plug and leave your legs feeling absolutely wrecked.
Butt, it's not for everyone.
Sucking and licking is much better.
When you sense your guy is really getting into it, move your fingers from cupping and massaging his balls to rubbing under his scrotum.
Add some lubricant on your fingers, spitting on his balls and rubbing it in and down toward his butt can feel awesome.
With more wetness start to rub around his rosebud, keep sucking and licking his cock, and if he likes it he'll be moving his hips to meet your fingers on his rosebud.
BTW don't expect long or sharp finger nails to be at all helpful.
Add more lube and gradually slide in one finger up to the first knuckle and meanwhile he should still be right into it.
If he's getting close to coming don't be tempted to plunge your finger in - just let him cum, swallow or whatever you do, keeping your finger where it is and moving only gently until all his spasms have finished.
The next time you do it add more lube and slide in your finger to the second knuckle or all the way in, but don't rush into adding a second finger - most guys don't like it.
You might like to go out and buy a toy or two. There are some butt plugs that you can learn to really enjoy having inserted and played with while being sucked or even fucking. Coming really hard with a finger or plug inside you can be incredibly powerful and the spasms strong enough to shoot out the plug and leave your legs feeling absolutely wrecked.
Butt, it's not for everyone.
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As a married bi-guy sucking a cock is a real turn-on for me.
Not too small and not too big, prefer uncut. But having said that I really enjoy sucking a soft cock and working on it till it's fully engorged, hot and hard and stretching my mouth.
Feeling it throb and gush cum gives a great feeling of satisfaction.
It's also given me a better perspective on what a woman (or guy) goes through when sucking a (my) cock, letting me give better feedback on what's good and not so good technique.
Let's face it there are plenty of people out there who are sub-par cock suckers, so being sensitive to what they're expecting of themselves helps me guide them. It always pays off with much improved fellatio and turning those who 'don't swallow' into eager swallowers and post orgasm cock handlers.
Not too small and not too big, prefer uncut. But having said that I really enjoy sucking a soft cock and working on it till it's fully engorged, hot and hard and stretching my mouth.
Feeling it throb and gush cum gives a great feeling of satisfaction.
It's also given me a better perspective on what a woman (or guy) goes through when sucking a (my) cock, letting me give better feedback on what's good and not so good technique.
Let's face it there are plenty of people out there who are sub-par cock suckers, so being sensitive to what they're expecting of themselves helps me guide them. It always pays off with much improved fellatio and turning those who 'don't swallow' into eager swallowers and post orgasm cock handlers.
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As an alternative to having a wank, yeah sure, it would be nice from time to time. But I'm just not that flexible anymore.
In any case it's a bit like trying to tickle yourself - it just doesnt seem to work anywhere near as well as someone doing it to you.
Only one time did I manage to suck myself to orgasm but the discomfort of being bent over that far didnt do much to make the whole thing much fun.
In any case it's a bit like trying to tickle yourself - it just doesnt seem to work anywhere near as well as someone doing it to you.
Only one time did I manage to suck myself to orgasm but the discomfort of being bent over that far didnt do much to make the whole thing much fun.
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Yeah sure, but only from someone elses mouth, pussy or balls, and my wifes pussy of course.
Being a bi-guy I've sucked a lot of cock and love the taste of pre-cum and have made point of appreciating the different tastes of guys cum.
It's interesting to relate the taste of a guys cum to what he's been eating, such as guys who eat a lot of fruit have a distinctive milder taste. Pineapple is really obvious, while guys that eat a lot of spicy food or frequent meat eaters their cum is more savoury or sharper.
Being a bi-guy I've sucked a lot of cock and love the taste of pre-cum and have made point of appreciating the different tastes of guys cum.
It's interesting to relate the taste of a guys cum to what he's been eating, such as guys who eat a lot of fruit have a distinctive milder taste. Pineapple is really obvious, while guys that eat a lot of spicy food or frequent meat eaters their cum is more savoury or sharper.
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Yeah sure, but only from someone elses mouth, pussy or balls, and my wifes pussy of course.
Being a bi-guy I've sucked a lot of cock and love the taste of pre-cum and have made point of appreciating the different tastes of guys cum.
It's interesting to relate the taste of a guys cum to what he's been eating, such as guys who eat a lot of fruit have a distinctive milder taste. Pineapple is really obvious, while guys that eat a lot of spicy food or frequent meat eaters their cum is more savoury or sharper.
Being a bi-guy I've sucked a lot of cock and love the taste of pre-cum and have made point of appreciating the different tastes of guys cum.
It's interesting to relate the taste of a guys cum to what he's been eating, such as guys who eat a lot of fruit have a distinctive milder taste. Pineapple is really obvious, while guys that eat a lot of spicy food or frequent meat eaters their cum is more savoury or sharper.
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I shave my balls and cock and keep the rest of my pubes fairly trim for my own comfort and to make it obvious to my bi-mates that I love having my balls licked and sucked on.
Although I prefer to go commando, even in winter, most of the time. It's not always practical and I found that getting all hot and sweaty down there in the hot Australian climate just wasnt pleasant for anyone.
I also prefer my male and female partners to do some shaving and trimming so that it makes the whole process of licking and sucking more about the skin than the hair - cute and curly as it may be.
Although I prefer to go commando, even in winter, most of the time. It's not always practical and I found that getting all hot and sweaty down there in the hot Australian climate just wasnt pleasant for anyone.
I also prefer my male and female partners to do some shaving and trimming so that it makes the whole process of licking and sucking more about the skin than the hair - cute and curly as it may be.