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poizenivy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
United States
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My husband and I met online eight years before we met in person. We have been married for four years. Is our marriage perfect? Hell no, but it's not a nightmare either. We were friends for eight years never with the intention of being together, we were just friends...like modern day pen pals.
It is the modern day singles ad. It doesn't hold the same stigma as it once did.
It is the modern day singles ad. It doesn't hold the same stigma as it once did.
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My husband's first marriage was like that. Once they got engaged she stopped putting out. I have a couple of friends that in that situation as well. Their wives seldom want sex, one has a wife that when she is agreeable to sex will not allow anything other than one position and God forebid she give or recieve oral!
I know that health and meds and life sometimes get in the way of a healthy sex life. But all too often people marry someone they know they are not sexually compatible with; I am in that boat myself. And when you are not compatible with your spouse sex becomes a chore and is frustrating; it is easier to just stop having sex then to fight nature.
I know that health and meds and life sometimes get in the way of a healthy sex life. But all too often people marry someone they know they are not sexually compatible with; I am in that boat myself. And when you are not compatible with your spouse sex becomes a chore and is frustrating; it is easier to just stop having sex then to fight nature.
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interestingly, I went through a stage where I couldn't stand to be touched or licked down there (thank God that didn't last long). For me there were several issues involved: still dealing with being molested, was married to an abusive asshole, and self confidence.
I knew a woman that hated oral sex, both giving and receiving. Her issue was her up bringing. She was brainwashed into believing that oral sex was filthy and something only perverts did. No amount of reasoning was going to change her mind about it.
Get to know her better and have open frank unjudgemental discussion with her. If she is unbending and it is a deal breaker for either of you then better to know now. Good luck!
I knew a woman that hated oral sex, both giving and receiving. Her issue was her up bringing. She was brainwashed into believing that oral sex was filthy and something only perverts did. No amount of reasoning was going to change her mind about it.
Get to know her better and have open frank unjudgemental discussion with her. If she is unbending and it is a deal breaker for either of you then better to know now. Good luck!
