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poizenivy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
United States
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I have tried to discuss it openly. He won't. He refuses to explain his line of thinking on anything. He expects me to just accept it and adjust. He lives in a black and white box whereas I am more shades of gray and no box.
Trust me, folks, I am the most communicative person you could ever meet. I have no qualms about asking questions or calling someone out on their bullshit. He knew me for 8 years before we married. Nothing about my parenting style should come as a shock to him.
LB: yes straight-laced and religious...homophobic I have accued him of several times but he denies it. I am bisexual and he refuses to acknowledge it (just as our daughter can stay with lesbian friends but not boys, he has no problem with my going away for a weekend with the girls but would flip out if I suggested I go away with one or more of my guy friends). We also have a son that is openly gay and one that is bi-sexual. I have a brother and a sister that are gay. If he is homophobic, he married into the wrong family.
I really believe it comes to down to this: boy/girl sleepovers, even platonic, are a no-no regardless of the relationship status. He doesn't think in terms of g/g sex or b/b sex. He really doesn't.
Trust me, folks, I am the most communicative person you could ever meet. I have no qualms about asking questions or calling someone out on their bullshit. He knew me for 8 years before we married. Nothing about my parenting style should come as a shock to him.
LB: yes straight-laced and religious...homophobic I have accued him of several times but he denies it. I am bisexual and he refuses to acknowledge it (just as our daughter can stay with lesbian friends but not boys, he has no problem with my going away for a weekend with the girls but would flip out if I suggested I go away with one or more of my guy friends). We also have a son that is openly gay and one that is bi-sexual. I have a brother and a sister that are gay. If he is homophobic, he married into the wrong family.
I really believe it comes to down to this: boy/girl sleepovers, even platonic, are a no-no regardless of the relationship status. He doesn't think in terms of g/g sex or b/b sex. He really doesn't.
