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poizenivy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
United States
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I agree he doesn't trust her and that ultimately this is my decision....however, my question is more about why is it ok in his mind for her to sleep over with a lesbian but not a boy, even a gay boy?? Sex is sex. And his fear is not that she will necessarily get pregnant but that she will be having sex period. It just seems closed minded on many levels to me and presumptuous that he assumes she won't be having sex with a girl or that she will lie about a boy being gay.
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Holy cow, yes back away a bit. I mean hell, it's the holidays and she is probably busy. Infatuation burns hot and fast and if you aren't careful you will muck this up really fast. As a woman, even if I am really into a guy if he starts crowding me in the beginning I will back off and start ignoring his texts and messages. So take a deep breath, mate, if it is meant to happen it will...and it will happen WHEN it is meant to happen.
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I can understand your anger and bitterness. What she did was fucked up and selfish. That being said, by your own admission you had only been together two months. That is still early enough that you were probably more infatuated with her then IN love and you obviously became very attached to the children. Her timing sucked greatly and I can only imagine the confusion it caused the kids if they were expecting to spend Christmas with you. Now, that was how long ago and you are still giving that selfish woman the power to control your emotions and potentially ruin your holiday. She may well be a gold digger and if so be grateful you were able to walk away before you had been with her much longer and the kids had started calling you Dad! Don't hate her for her choice; forgive her for being less of a woman than you deserved. And count your blessings for having walked away the better man.
Hugs and kisses!
Hugs and kisses!
