I don't consider fantasizing to be cheating. Having said that, I had a friend who took it a little too far and was sexting another woman. No physical contact, just electronic. The judge gave his wife half of all their assets when they divorced.
I don't think anyone could spot me by my avatar, lol. I chose it because it is funny, two eggs contemplating the demise of a friend.
Having just ended a somewhat polyamorous relationship, I would have to say that I don't have any love right now. That's not to say that my partners and I weren't in love. There was love there, but sometimes it gets spread out so much that the substance is lacking. I think that's what happened to us. We all wanted more than any one of us could give.
That said, real love could be lurking right around the corner or behind the next door. If you're not willing to go there you'll never find it. We all have to make the effort to allow love to find us.
"The strength of the moment lies with you"
A good song lyric and words to live by
Yes, The Remembering
Gotta be the mind. Interesting conversation is such a turn-on for me. All kinds of body types appeal to me but a good mind--oh, it doesn't get any better than that.
I suppose it would my ability to talk to anyone, even complete strangers. When I was little my Mom used to have to pull me away from people in the supermarket. I would walk up to them and begin a conversation. I wasn't shy about talking to people and I'm still that way