I don't really have a foot fetish as such, toe sucking etc.
I did have one interesting experience, however. I was in the private room with a stripper, doing the mutual body feeling etc. for a while, when suddenly she leaned back and started stroking my penis and balls with her feet. I was a bit startled, but then I came. Hard.
(yes she earned a tip)
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The elephant in the room is biology. Plain and simple. We are mammals and this behavior goes way, way back.
To understand you need to look at the genetic payoff. A man who has multiple partners gets an increase in genetic contribution to the next generation that is almost linear to the number of partners.The most genetically successful males (both human and our ancestors) were the ones that were quickly ready to go when encountering a suitable female. A woman, by contrast, has much less to gain. Her number of offspring are not related to the number of partners, but to more fixed limitations like lifetime and health.
The majority of males in our ancestry are ones spread their genes as widely as possible.
Our emotions are molded by this. That is why the idea of sex with a stranger is very attractive to many men (it's a strategy that increases success) while most women want to 'get to know' someone before sex (also a strategy, tuned to select partners that will be reliable in the long term).
When men cheat, and when women cheat, there are often very different psychological reasons at work.
To understand you need to look at the genetic payoff. A man who has multiple partners gets an increase in genetic contribution to the next generation that is almost linear to the number of partners.The most genetically successful males (both human and our ancestors) were the ones that were quickly ready to go when encountering a suitable female. A woman, by contrast, has much less to gain. Her number of offspring are not related to the number of partners, but to more fixed limitations like lifetime and health.
The majority of males in our ancestry are ones spread their genes as widely as possible.
Our emotions are molded by this. That is why the idea of sex with a stranger is very attractive to many men (it's a strategy that increases success) while most women want to 'get to know' someone before sex (also a strategy, tuned to select partners that will be reliable in the long term).
When men cheat, and when women cheat, there are often very different psychological reasons at work.
I remember reading an article by an erotic masseuse, commenting that in the days after social security checks arrive, lots of older guys would show up at the parlor. She liked them as clients, they were kind and polite, just needed a woman's touch, not looking for complications of an affair.
There have been circumstances, too, when I've taken that approach.
There have been circumstances, too, when I've taken that approach.
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I disagree with Dem, I can easily tell the difference between Japanese and Chinese. Maybe because ....
Odd, I've worked with Japanese who claimed that they could not always tell (without language and culture cues).
I doubt that most people could not consistently tell a Dutch from a German without cues.
Not getting into the controlling bit.
However there is a potential biological reason for the attraction to long hair. It's been demonstrated that many of the sexual cues that excite men are actually indicators of health in women (which makes them more ideal mating choices. This includes healthy looking, skin, physique, eyes, youthfulness etc. (BTW some double blind tests have demonstrated that makeup unconsciously mimics estrogen levels indicating fertility).
Anyhow, hair is a long term indicator of health. Since long hair at the ends is a year or two old, long healthy looking hair suggests sustained good health.
However there is a potential biological reason for the attraction to long hair. It's been demonstrated that many of the sexual cues that excite men are actually indicators of health in women (which makes them more ideal mating choices. This includes healthy looking, skin, physique, eyes, youthfulness etc. (BTW some double blind tests have demonstrated that makeup unconsciously mimics estrogen levels indicating fertility).
Anyhow, hair is a long term indicator of health. Since long hair at the ends is a year or two old, long healthy looking hair suggests sustained good health.
I've had quite a number of them.
On one occasion I was getting a bit excited about half way through so the girl turned me over, performed her magic, and went back to finish the massage. There is nothing better than a massage after your body has been thoroughly spent.
I guess that was a 'happy middle'
On one occasion I was getting a bit excited about half way through so the girl turned me over, performed her magic, and went back to finish the massage. There is nothing better than a massage after your body has been thoroughly spent.
I guess that was a 'happy middle'
I have zero interest in doing it, just like I'm not attracted to women who dress butch.
My ex had started to really get into it (as well as B&D) as we began to realize that we were going in really different directions. I was fine with her going and finding guys who do that while I found women closer to my style.
Eventually she married one of here CD guys.
My ex had started to really get into it (as well as B&D) as we began to realize that we were going in really different directions. I was fine with her going and finding guys who do that while I found women closer to my style.
Eventually she married one of here CD guys.
Variety is always a good thing, and sometimes you discover something new about yourselves.
A few years back after my current wife and I got together we had started playing around, and suddenly my wife spread her legs and said "I'm too tired to do much, if you want something you're just going to have to take it". What followed was simple, pure lust (not rough, just passion). I pleasured myself in her, and we both collapsed into sleep together.
We both found something we liked in the scenario. She often enjoys playing the reserved and controlled seductress, and I enjoy putting my lust in the open.
A few years back after my current wife and I got together we had started playing around, and suddenly my wife spread her legs and said "I'm too tired to do much, if you want something you're just going to have to take it". What followed was simple, pure lust (not rough, just passion). I pleasured myself in her, and we both collapsed into sleep together.
We both found something we liked in the scenario. She often enjoys playing the reserved and controlled seductress, and I enjoy putting my lust in the open.
1) Would you be sexually attracted to a girl with a large scar down her chest? (From surgery)
Not a problem
2)Attracted to a girl who has orgasms every 2 fucking seconds?
sounds good
3) Attracted to a Nymphet? More towards mature women
4) Would you stay with a girl if she doesn't want to have sex until married?
that would indicate a fundamental difference in our life outlook. It's one thing to wait till a woman is ready, but that type of arbitrary rule suggests we are on a different page.
My wife and I had sex on our first date.
5) Pubic hair or no? either way
6)Uneven boobs? (One bigger one smaller) everyone is uneven in some way
Not a problem
2)Attracted to a girl who has orgasms every 2 fucking seconds?
sounds good
3) Attracted to a Nymphet? More towards mature women
4) Would you stay with a girl if she doesn't want to have sex until married?
that would indicate a fundamental difference in our life outlook. It's one thing to wait till a woman is ready, but that type of arbitrary rule suggests we are on a different page.
My wife and I had sex on our first date.
5) Pubic hair or no? either way
6)Uneven boobs? (One bigger one smaller) everyone is uneven in some way
It's probably a mixed bag, at least that's what I get from reading interviews. Getting turned on in a movie set, with camera angles, cuts, directions being shouted, is probably not conducive at all to arousal, even though men have to get turned on for the scene to work, I bet most men could not under those circumstances.
Aside from the highly scripted porn there is a style becoming popular of individual scenes, with little obvious direction and much more subtlety. When the nipples grow during the scene, when the end is a collection of eye, lip movements and subtle body tremble, it's more believable.
Aside from the highly scripted porn there is a style becoming popular of individual scenes, with little obvious direction and much more subtlety. When the nipples grow during the scene, when the end is a collection of eye, lip movements and subtle body tremble, it's more believable.