I like her in flirtatious, sexy clothing. In fact I don't usually by her sexy bedroom attire (who wears clothes there anyhow), I get her stuff that looks hot in the outside world. I like it when she gets (polite) attention and there have been plenty of times I've seen guys looking. Short dresses, patterned stockings, and soft tops (she has perky breasts that rarely are in a bra).
The question could be turned around... how could she trust you if you went after her. I think it would be a bit presumptuous to expect absolute fidelity under the circumstances (though I feel that emotional faithfulness is much more important than physical faithfulness)
I like to suck them for a long time with a woman who enjoys it. My current wife, however, does not get off on it too much, so there's not so much.
Actually none. I don't like the distraction, no music, no tv. Quiet enough to hear sighs and whispers.
Ironic. Over the years several women partners have suggested it but it's not something I want. Go figure.
She knows I read erotica sites, does not ask which ones. She doesn't have a big problem with that.
I've had a few flirtation relationships over the years (my wife referred to one as my 'work wife'). It never meant anything to either party, and it did not exist outside of work.
My wife recently had her picture painted, nude except for her glasses. It's great.
Believe me, his feelings of pleasure have much more to do with his interaction with you than about any perceived loosenss. I speak from experience, sex with a new mother is delicious.
Like others have said, I'm really a leg and thigh man. However my wife suddenly wrapped her breasts around my cock while we were playing and I came quite quickly.
I generally prefer women with plenty of experience. Not quite sure how I would handle a virgin, certainly if any woman near my age was still a virgin I would have cause to worry about weird hangups.
I'm going to vote the other way. Especially if it was a one time thing, it's better to 'not hear' it and avoid any unnecessary embarrasment.
If it recurs then you might say something, but for now "it never happened"
I had an affair with a very religious and conservative grandmother (nobody would ever guess). She was separated from her alcoholic husband and I'd slip over to her place on weekends. I'd do her on Sunday mornings before she went to church and do it again the minute she came home.
Sheesh this is silly.
My wife rarely wears a bra (sometimes to work, because her female boss complains). Yeah, you can sort of see the nipples and they jiggle a bit more.. so what. Looks good but it's hardly extreme.
The other day she went for a an x-ray, the tech told her to remove her bra to get ready... she saved an extra step, didn't have to.
When my current wife and I had our first date, we came out of the restaurant and she said 'this thing is killing me, do you mind if I take it off'. And she did. She was glad I didn't mind because she hates wearing a bra. I like the look.. gently perky through soft tops and still not saggy.
[As for swimsuits (as questioned in the other post), it was literally 10 years before I saw her in a swimsuit (purchased for a party at her sister's). We normally swim at a nude pool.]
Why cheat? From a biological standpoint, it's natural (natural does NOT necessarily mean good). For starters, culture notwithstanding, humans are not fully monogamous animals, we are at most semi monogamous.
Human reproductive strategy has been tuned by evolution to optimize the number of ones genes that make it into the next generation. Strategies are necessarily different between males and females. Males that successfully consumated opportunistic matings injected more copies of their genes into the next generation than those who did not (viewed from the other side, a disproportionate number of your male ancestors were 'cheaters', you have those genes). That is why, for men far more often than for women, sex with an anonymous stranger is exciting. Females by contrast have less to gain genetically, a woman is not likely to produce significantly more offspring simply by having more partners unless here current partner is unsatisfactory. The one benefit, however, that females get from extra matings is resources and social status within the group. A male that has a lot more to offer her (and her children) can indirectly contribute to here reproductive success.
Since I am now married to a woman who never wears a bra (except sometimes to work), I am completely out of practice.
I love a bit of the softness, both visually and the feel of it as I'm pressing against her body.
I'm not that conscious of 'bedroom' clothes, so everything 'sexy' I buy her (we have a rule: if it's sexy, I'll pay for it) is for 'outside' wear
Short little black dress with lacy stockings. And I like it when guys check her out.
Not into it. Additionally in porn films when a guy finishes by jerking himself on the girl... that is a turnoff.
I agree that in the abstract (porn for instance) watching two female bodies is erotic. But in real life it makes me feel a bit left out.
For personal involvement, however I find it different. I was married to a bisexual woman for a while and I never was fully comfortable with her lesbian side.
Oh my yes. On a couple of occasions years ago really really gorgeous girls wanted to hook up. I didn't because of my wife, who wound up having affairs of her own. There's a lesson in that.
I'm 62 and don't have them often at all (partly from age and partly because I do have a sex life) but the other night I dreamed I was fucking the mother of a friend of mine when I was a teenager.
I love it when she really dresses sexy when we go out. And she does sometimes, though often she just throws on something comfortable.
Well I'm not a woman, but I would post one observation. Among nudists, some of the women tend to throw something on when going to the the clubhouse for drinks or dinner, typically either a shirt with no bottoms or a wrap but no shirt. It's pretty evenly mixed. something about dressing up I guess.