I will answer the second part first
Have you already had sex?
I had been very sexually active with my girlfriend for a several years.
Way back in 1973, my girlfriend lost her virginity to a twenty-year-old male friend, while caravanning with her parents. Several months later, she took my virginity, I was eighteen and she was seventeen.
It was like a switch had been turned on, as she wanted sex whenever we could.
How Do (did) you feel about waiting till Marriage to have sex?
So, when I started dating the girl to whom I would marry, it was agreed, all be it reluctantly by me, that intercourse would not occur until after marriage.
When my, now ex-, wife and I met, I was not a virgin, but she said that she was.
During our courtship we were hot and heavy with petting, oral - mainly cunnilingus, and masturbation – mutual and each other.
Intercourse, PIV, did not happen until our wedding night.
