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Is one who has passion, sensitivity, gentleness, caring, and a healthy sexual appetite
.......... And does the dishes...

that is a perfect man now where is he I want him now...

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Now chef this is not shame...

It's bikebum...

This is shame...

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I bet he is expensive too!!

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I lov chocolate, butterscotch, pecans but what is more sweet than a bit of honey on fantastic thighs and l down the muffin. Then hours of licking to get it all off. That's just the start.

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I would have used it as an chance to get to know him. That is if I was such a rude person to ask for one in the first place. He said no he doesn't buy girls drinks. Kind of his policy.
Instead of acting all pissy, she could have said, really? That's interesting. Why not?
But I think most of all she was a skank for asking. What makes her so entitled? I think it cheapens you to have to ask.

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well my momma taught me that if you have a friend or a stranger amongst you and you get something to eat or drink while with that person you at least offer them something..if he is such a tight wad then he should just stay home and not even bother to be social... so I grew up with at least some manners that if I only had one cookie and you were 2people we shared that cookie.. just my opinion..

This is (sort of) the counterpoint...that it's more or less a social custom, and that many women and men follow it, to the point that anyone who decides to behave differently (like our awesome letter writer) gets painted as a humorless cheapskate (in HER defense...would've been nice had he been ready with a witty line, instead of a policy disclaimer). Women (obviously) don't always accept/encourage purchase of drinks with the venal motives of the woman from the letter above.

It's easy to make this a referendum on whether drinks should be purchased by men for women in clubs generally...but that's not really what it's about. The whole conflict here was based on her indignance that he wouldn't, which is different from his preference against doing so.

I've probably bought enough drinks in the last 9 years to inebriate a company of sailors for a month, and don't regret it...I've met a lot of people that way, had a lot of great experiences...but I also don't expect an oral (or vaginal) contract of them...nor anything else for that matter.

If I was so concerned about getting something for my purchase, and would have my feelings hurt when/if it didn't happen, I'd probably refuse to buy drinks too. The irony here is his indignation over the assumed 'transaction', when a transaction is exactly what he expects ("it does entitle me to one of the following things: you reciprocating by buying me a drink, you giving me your phone number and/or going out on a date with me"), which weakens his point considerably in my eyes.

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This is why it takes me an 2 hours to finish a drink, to make sure I have none of these awkward moments.

Besides, I have this policy "Im not accepting any drinks because there could be a pill in there that doesn't come from my handbag...". Well unless its a bottled cap, I opened it myself and it stays under my watchful gaze

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So, Red...are you saying that the young man should have offered to buy the young lady a drink/water/club soda/alcoholic beverage...for...what? For the privilege of her spending the previous 30 minutes of her time making conversation with him, and for the possibility that she'll then spend another 20 minutes making small talk with him?

And that by him not offering to purchase her next drink, then he's not being a gentleman and that makes him a tight ass?

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Shameless I am shocked that you even noticed there was a guitar in the pic!

Ditto!