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rudyP34
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 42
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Quote by KingOfLoveQuote by YourSlutBella
I heard of some people falling in love on lush. Is it true? And are you sure it's not lust?
I thought again, and you asked right question...are you sure it's not lust?
We can find our love here, but can we find our life partner here, i am not sure..i guess it stays as a lust
So I assume you don't think people can make friends here either?
I think it is possible to get to know someone very well, develop a friendship and then expand it into love. Sure, if it starts with lust, I doubt it develops much further than that. It's like learning to fly a plane without learning how to land it. If you try to build a relationship on that, you better hope you'll be able to glide indefinitely. But if two people start with the basics, with their character, their personality, their values, their hopes and dreams.. just like any solid relationship, I guess. But if you're here to cyber in the first place, and you start with "Do you like big cocks?", then no, I don't suppose you'll find love here.
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I could see it happen... on here, you drop your inhibitions... it's basically because you don't expect to find love here in the first place, so you open yourself up to anything, and can be surprised with the result. There are great people here... often people who wouldn't talk about their "dirty secrets" in real life as openly. Once that barrier is out of the way... anything goes.
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One of the best!!! "Jacques Brel - Ne Me Quitte Pas "can't get it embedded
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYiHBBuHWbI
Ding ding ding!! We have a winner!
Ne me quitte pas is the ultimate heartbreak song. I also sing it when it's raining. Or when I'm bored. Or when I want to make people laugh at me.
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not like a 1 night stand kinda thing, I am defs not that type of girl, but like to be friends or possibly be in a relationship, then yeah, and also as long as I am 110% sure they are a real person and not some creeper.
I'm totally with you. With the internet, there's the eternal fear of being led on by a faker. Even though I can be 99,9999% sure the person is real based on conversation, there's still 0,0001% of me that thinks "She could be lying... it would have to be a veeeeeeeerryyy elaborate and consistent lie, and she'd have to be an amazing liar, in which case, kudos... but it's a fake, I might never trust anyone ever again."
So, there's a fear. But I wouldn't want to let the fear win, if I were to meet that special someone. And of course, if we get married, there won't be mentions of Lush in our wedding vows. It will be some site that is no longer online...
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Men with wives or girlfriends are totally out of the question for me.
I wouldn't want my husband to cheat on me and I certainly don't want to be "the other girl".
I'm sure you would agree to have sex with one married man... your husband. ;)
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this is nothing. you should see them when their CURLING teams lose!
Well, it would have to happen first, then we'd see.
Breaking stuff and hurting people is just the way we have fun. When we sober up, we clean the place and politely apologize to everyone. But really... blame beer.
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I always think of the bond or the connection I can have with someone. I don't believe in God or in Fate, so, the idea of the soul is somewhat unnecessary. But as far as minds are concerned, they can be compatible to such an extent that they seem a continuation of one another. You get to the point where you're not afraid to be totally yourself, because you trust the other will just get you, understand you and accept you for who you are. So, soulmate: no. A totally unbreakable bond of trust that allows you to love and be who you love: yes.
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Quote by DdbillQuote by rudyP34Quote by Chibi
I do rate most stories that I read, and if the story is less good, then I give a lower vote. Personally, I don't like to rate a 4 or a 5 if the story isn't worth more than 1-3...
Something I really miss on this site is honest votes and constructive criticism. As I am a writer myself, it is kind of disappointing to see every story being "really hot" or "totally amazing" as I know that's not the case. This includes my own stories.
Now, most writers here might be thrilled over the positive feedback they get, but I'm not one of them. All good reviews leaves me wondering if this site is just full of suck-ups.
It is full of suck-ups. Just look at the amount of horny guys giving great (as in positive, not honest or even constructive) comments to female authors. I've once received a private message from a guy congratulating an unnamed collaborator, because he thought she had written some parts of one of my story. He was actually sucking up to her through me. That's very sad.
If the mods wanted to improve the site, they should make commenting mandatory on every vote, even the 4s and 5s, and authors should be asked to flag comments when they aren't constructive criticism. Voting on stories, as it is, is a joke.
As it is, your very right. But you also have to look at where your at right now. Lush is filled with lustful and horny people. Male and female alike. When they introduced the site as an "Erotic stories and Adult social network" site, they invited all the people who couldnt give two shits about any story so long as it had sex. Ive seen stories posted on here with bad grammar, no plots, and from start to finish, nothing but sex. So its actually in high hopes of which will never be given to think that you would get any useful criticism from anyone on this site.
As for me, no, i dont rate, nor do i comment on other stories often due to the fact it means diddly squat on here.I go to other sites for constructive criticism and useful voteings.
I'd agree, if it weren't for the fact that some people take it seriously, when your comment is even only slightly negative. Either you care or you don't. If you care, the voting process should represent more. If you don't care, then why have a voting system at all? I don't see how literary integrity and social networking can't coexist. Give more credibility to the stories, give more credibility to the members, and this site reaches a whole new level. Of course, that's probably not in anyone's plan. All that matters is getting hits, not delivering a good reading product.
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I do rate most stories that I read, and if the story is less good, then I give a lower vote. Personally, I don't like to rate a 4 or a 5 if the story isn't worth more than 1-3...
Something I really miss on this site is honest votes and constructive criticism. As I am a writer myself, it is kind of disappointing to see every story being "really hot" or "totally amazing" as I know that's not the case. This includes my own stories.
Now, most writers here might be thrilled over the positive feedback they get, but I'm not one of them. All good reviews leaves me wondering if this site is just full of suck-ups.
It is full of suck-ups. Just look at the amount of horny guys giving great (as in positive, not honest or even constructive) comments to female authors. I've once received a private message from a guy congratulating an unnamed collaborator, because he thought she had written some parts of one of my story. He was actually sucking up to her through me. That's very sad.
If the mods wanted to improve the site, they should make commenting mandatory on every vote, even the 4s and 5s, and authors should be asked to flag comments when they aren't constructive criticism. Voting on stories, as it is, is a joke.
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Quote by mazzaQuote by LeFabuleuxDestin
Haha, I study English, French, Latin, German and Spanish too? And I'm feeling stupid cause I don't know any Italian now.
Ziemlich beeindruckend, Mazza! ;)
LOL, the only ones I can actually use now are French and English!!
Same for me. My spanish, german, latin and italian are quite subpar (even though I promised I would work on my italian... I guess I made a little italian girl cry...), and I'm fluent in french and english. Had I not dropped out of college, I would have added russian to the list...
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I Once Dated A Pro Hockey Player
Being canadian, I just have to know who it is! ;)
Disturbing fact about myself: I'm a botanophobe.
I Wont Say His Name, But He Played For The NY Rangers At The Time And Was Not A Star Player, Kind Of A Jerk Actually(As I Later Found Out), Was Only About 5 Dates
I Run 3-5 Miles Every(Almost) Morning
Just say it wasn't Sean Avery. If it was, lie.
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I had the very bad to score a story a 1. I found it unbearable to read. I thought it to be quite deserving... in hindsight, it probably deserved a 2, because at least grammar was top-notch and it was intelligible. But it was annoying. Guess what happened? The author was pissed, and for an old man, he was quite juvenile and vengeful, and scored a 1 on my story, just to get back at me (and in his own words, to give me a taste of my own medicine, aka to teach me a lesson... arrogant and patronizing prick). I did learn a lesson. Don't be honest with egomaniacs.