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sam_kind
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 154
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Quote by MMonroe
I think you need to sit down with her and not just ask whats going on but make sure she knows and understands how its making you feel - hurt, rejected etc etc.
After that, she still might not be up for sex but it might make her more willing to walk about WHY she feels that way
That sounds like great advice.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
The general rule is: A naked upper body is hot; A close-up of your dick is not.
Women want to assume that there is an actual guy behind a profile and not just a flesh-covered dildo.
Show a torso shot with a towel wrapped around the waist, a side profile pic or discreet/casual in sunglasses, jeans and a t-shirt. Women are more interested in seeing a generalized impression of what you look like rather than a medical close-up of your dick.
I go along with this- general pictures are much more appealing to me. I like to see who you are and get a feeling for what you're like through a portrait of some description. My sexuality's largely fuelled by my imagination, so it's best if guys let me use that. I can see why guys might not want to post portraits of themselves online though.
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Hi to you too. 
It sounds like you've been in a relationship with your girlfriend for a long time and you seem committed to each other?
May I ask what you feel causes her to not enjoy or want sex as much as she used to?
That's got to be difficult for you and I wonder how you feel about it.
Can I ask what you feel is behind this?
It sounds like you've been in a relationship with your girlfriend for a long time and you seem committed to each other?
May I ask what you feel causes her to not enjoy or want sex as much as she used to?
That's got to be difficult for you and I wonder how you feel about it.
Can I ask what you feel is behind this?
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Quote by firefytr31
okay lets have the truth how many guys are willing to be honest with their sexuality?
If you say straight have you ever thought a guy attractive?
If you say Bi what are you willing to do or have you done? how long?
If you say gay how long and would you consider sex with a women?
I am recently curious what the same sex would be like. I enjoy anal play and wonder waht a real cock would feel like
Wow! I know I'm not a guy but I just had to say that your honesty knocked my socks off.
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Multiple award levels. You could have that for some awards like commentator, socialite and famous story. Okay, they're not great examples but with Famous Story, for example, you get the award at thirty thousand views. You could have similar awards at sixty and one hundred thousand views too.
Honestly, I'm not competitive! ;)
Honestly, I'm not competitive! ;)
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Quote by HK4167
Being in lush for only two months, I regard myself as a newbie, and English is not my first language. So I’d like to chip in for a few words.
It really touches me to see so many regulars care about small things like this. In fact, lush forum is already one of the nicest forums I’ve ever been. That’s one of the reasons I joined lush the first place.
I know my English is not that proficient, and I make mistakes either in forum post or in my stories. In the forum post, I noticed some regulars reminded me subtly. They would repeat the correct word in a sentence in their post right below mine, but not directly pointing out my mistake. I really appreciated that for being so considerate, and for helping me to improve.
I’ve only play forum games for a month. In this month I meet some really nice people in forum, and some of them became my friends here. I’m being treated nicely in forum, so I’m returning the favor to treat other people friendly, always give a “friendly pass” instead of just “pass”, tell ladies I pass is not because you’re not attractive, it’s because you’re les and I totally respect that, small thing like that. The reason I’m doing this is because when I first joined lush, I was welcomed and treated well by many regulars like poizenivy, Etiary, Nikki703, imhapless…
I mean, the RL is already stressed enough for all of us, so why not treating each other nice here?
I wish I could write in a foreign language the way you do with English!
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Quote by chefkathleen
I think that's the point Sam. Nothing. If you change things in your past, you wouldn't be the person you are today. Most of us like who we are and who we've become. It's a struggle but worth it.
I like it! I wouldn't have got it if you hadn't said! LOL
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I've been coming to the site for years but consider myself a newbie as far as the Forums are concerned. Hearing how people feel about this is really encouraging because, I admit, sometimes I feel a bit daunted by the Forums and Chats.
Lafayettemister- you sound like a positive person to be around and brightened my day. Thanks.
Lafayettemister- you sound like a positive person to be around and brightened my day. Thanks.
Unashamed suggests there's something to be ashamed about. I wonder if studs think they should feel ashamed? To me it's someone (male or female) who goes out looking to have a lot of sex.
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My best comment was from CamancheBill- "You are writing one of the most beautiful erotic stories I have ever read.I can't wait now for the next installment- when you describe the actual mating of these two people who love each other.You do describe it up to now in terms so beautifully written, This is a 5.0 for sure". I was really pleased with that!
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Quote by ArtAngel
write a story..your views increase 3fold..mine did..!!..not that it really matters too much but loved the feedback tremendously
I think you're right and it depends what kind of stories you write too. I wrote an incest one and think that got my page more views than if I wrote something else. All those kinky Lush Readers!! ;)