Does a man with little to say turn a woman off ? I have dated several women in the past few years and have met some really good ones. The problem comes when they realize that I don't talk a lot. I do like to talk and get to know these ladies and learn all about them and their lives but I just don't have much to say. I could sit back cuddling a woman and say nothing while watching a movie, the stars, a camp fire or something else and be completely happy. I know ladies enjoy talking and I encourage them to do so. I actually get compliments from some ladies because I will sit and listen to everything they have to say "I do enjoy listening". It's just that I don't talk much. I never have liked talking a lot and I don't know if I ever will. I think it causes the demise of most of my dating adventures. /cry