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Aww, I'm Jell-o. No spoilers.

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Sprite always knows everything before everyone. I think she'll tell us something soon.
Meantime, how about a cuppa java, if you please?![]()
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Hmmm. Cat vs. tarantula. I'm putting $20 on the spider. Anyone else in?
I heard about the storm out West. Sounds nasty. Stay safe those of you in the affected area.
A glass of red wine, please. Merlot preferred.
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Just checking on here first. A story involving two high school students engaging in lewd, sexual behavior including and not limiting to having intercourse is fine as long as they are both aged 16 and above?
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Like on the crowded metro, bus or even in the office. Were you feeling annoyed or pleased?
Tell us about your experience.
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A really enjoyable competition with some truly stunning and personal stories, many more than can be listed in a top ten. It was a joy to be part of thank you Nicola and congratulations to all who entered. Special congratulations to Curvy Tangerine and Wordsmith, you guys are inspirational. Thanks to all involved.
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Really? I guess it was too bad that Mary Queen of Scots or the Favourite didn't have millions to spend on marketing towards 35 year old virgins waiting to jerk off to to the latest Wonder Woman figurines.
I'm sure it was "mind blowing" though.
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Morning all. Man this place gets rowdy on weekends.
New story up, and appropriate for a Sunday morning. It's called Engagment.
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/flash-erotica/-engagement-.aspx
I stole a couple of lines directly from a message from sprite (shhh, DON'T TELL HER!).
Hannah, I look forward to the new story by you and Frank. Your flash too, Scott.
Coffee please.
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Morning all, coffee sounds perfect.
Sprite, how come you never asked for my ID? Is it because my maturity level exceeds this tight, young body? *Tries to wink, blinks instead*
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It is my experience, which is limited to my life and those I have interacted with, that seriously commited individuals to the roles of D/s do not switch back and forth constantly. When there IS a role reversal it becomes the new dynamic for as long as both are comfortable from a mentally satifaction stand point in so much the new role they find themselves in brings out complete fulfillment for both individuals.
In my case, my wife and I started with me as the submissive. Over time though, there were signs to indicate she was not as Dominant as we both thought, and I still had lingering Dominant tendencies. Namely, there were nights she’d revel in my wearing the strap and roughly taking her. After enough times of this as well as her being a bit sloppy with things around the home, I requested a talk outside our power dynamic. We decided to go a couple weeks with our roles reversed. We haven’t gone back since and that’s been a couple years now.
Now how to get a vanilla into BDSM...
With all due respect, on the surface it sounds more like you want to merely spice up your love making with your partner. Have either of you ever shown a clear indication of
1) Giving directives the other was expected to follow while the one recieving directives seemed to get a thrill from being told they did a good job doing the task?
2) Has the person in your relationship giving out directives shown an interest in protecting and building up the one receiving directives? THIS one is what separates the wanna be Dominants from the real thing.
3) Do you understand and already practice Safe, Sane, and Consensual activities in all aspects of your relationship? Again this is another filter point, because if all three are not practiced then you are straying into abuse. Yes a bottom CAN abuse their top if they themself are not respecting the power dynamic to help things stay Safe, Sane, and Consensual.
I also sense you might prefer to be the submissive in your relationship, so here is the dynamic you MUST adhere to.
First comes the Dominants NEEDS
Next comes the sub’s NEEDS
Followed by the sub’s WANTS
And finally the Dominant’s WANTS
If your partner’s NEEDS as your Dominant do NOT include adding overt aspects of BDSM into your relationship, then leave it alone. However, there are ways to give nudges to the person you desire to become your Dominant.
Ask for permission to do activities. Do you go to game nights with your buddies? Ask. If told no you may not, follow up with asking how they would want to spend the day/evening? This actually gives your partner two opportunities to Dominate you and both play into the NEEDS/WANTS mentioned before. In the example you want to go play, but they expressed a potential need for you to stay home. However, it might be that they merely want you to stay home, and you might actually need to go out and play as it provides a stimuli that acts as a stress relief.
To wrap this up, evaluate your situation, and do not just go straight into kinky sexy play of BDSM. Learn what roles you both are willing to fulfill for the other. You can do preliminary testing of the waters as already mentioned, but be willinging to accept No as an answer if your partner doesn’t want sexual BDSM in your lives.
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Keep hearing about this place - thought I'd stop in.
Listening to the talk about fancy drinks though, makes me wonder if I'm in the right place. I'm really just a beer drinker - hope that doesn't offend anyone.
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The following is:
Just A Suggestion (JAS)
Next time Fuzzy drops by, maybe certain customers might try to coax, con or employ some other devious means, perhaps in the stock room, to cajole him into parting with some of his beloved Jameson Irish Whiskey so that Irish Coffee might be prepared and then, no doubt, consumed on these somewhat primitive premises. But like I said, that's JAS. ;)
So what else do ya malcontents wanna drink?
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Wow, didn't realize that. Thank you for pointing it out. It seems when I try to insert the links they don't actually post. There may be restrictions against posting links I wasn't aware of. Please message me if interested in reading and I'll link you, or you can go to my profile and click on 'Multiple Spring Flings' and 'Multiple Spring Flings Pt. II.'