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Klitorius is a planet from the same solar system as Krypton. Who comes from Klitorius?
YOU try typing with a hyped up kitten on YOUR lap! lol
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So I have read some stories about this subject or rather sexual stories. Also I have read some general things on the subject. My question is this, Can a relationship in where you have a dominate and submissive person be one of gentleness, caring while still maintaing that one of the two people in the relationship is in charge? Also what would you define as the characteristics of a healthy dominate person in that kind of relationship?
oh, god yes. the best D/s relationships are. really, i can't imagine them not being that way. a good Dom/me truly cares for her sub, looks out for her needs, and even if it's not a romantic relationship, there is love between them. for me, anything else wouldn't feel right.
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Quote by Verbal
I'll have köffee. please.
I never understand deadlines on here either. I always got the sense that deadlines and announcements happened like eight hours earlier than my time, so I figured Lush was based in England. I have no basis for that assumption though. It's mostly Americans here, though, right? Like maybe 60%?
Gonna be a long day today. Sigh. Lotsa running around. Can I get a thermos of köffee to go?
lush, is, actually based in the UK. that's where the main offices are. I'm just the west coast satellite office with a huge staff of 2.
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Quote by Liz
Logged out and back in again - can only spot one minor bug.
The ‘number of friends online’ stat on the right side of the top red bar shows zero, but shows the correct figure outside of the forum.
about 1000 BBs at once, btw, apparently crashes your account...
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Quote by Liz
Logged out and back in again - can only spot one minor bug.
The ‘number of friends online’ stat on the right side of the top red bar shows zero, but shows the correct figure outside of the forum.
about 1000 BBs at once, btw, apparently crashes your account...
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Quote by newbadgirl
Hi Guys!
I'm all new in here and I have a question about how to be a 'bad' girl and lead my guy to punish me. I've recently met this guy who likes the same sexually things as me (he's kind of a dom and I am really much sub). But my thing is that I am shy and I really dont want to directly tell him, that I wish him to punish me (I still feel it kindoff plus where I come from, a small town in Denmark, we usually don't do this).
He likes dominating me and I really much think that he would love to punish me, but I don't know if I should make him think the thought first or rather just tell him directly. I fint the idea, that I dont ask for it, really hot.
How should I approach this?
- Newbadgirl
a question. are you serious about having a real D/s relationship or is this just the two of you role-playing out sexual fantasies? if it's the second, that's totally cool and i hope you enjoy yourself to the fullest. if it's the former, then you shouldn't be looking for ways to be a 'bad girl' and get punished. that kind of defeats the purpose. what you should be trying to do is be a good girl as best you can. and what kind of punishment are you talking about? if it's a spanking or something along those lines, you should communicate that you'd like to be spanked. a hint, for me, punishment means standing in the corner with my nose pressed to the wall for an extended period of time so that i can think about what i did wrong, how i disappointed my Mistress, and how to avoid a repeat performance.
bottom line, tho, a good D/s relationship relies on communication. you need to talk to him about your wants and needs, even if it's just for play - ANY sexual relationship relies on communication. how does he know what kind of punishment you crave? how does he know that you are acting out, not out of disrespect, but because you want to be punished. i am sure that, if he is aware of your needs, he can easily turn it into a game that both of you can enjoy. look at it like this - you're being intimate - shouldn't be any reason to be shy - i am sure he'd be happy to look after your needs.
also, you should read thru this for an idea of how things work in D/s relationships:
https://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst18882_BDSM-101.aspx
best of luck and i hope you both work it all out. *hugs*
sprite.
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Quote by ginger86
i have had 2 on line messages today. one at 12:01 pm and one at 4:36 pm and they were recorded in my on line message saver thingy so i was able to read them. they didn't show up in a black box but somehow i got them
oh! ok. that's something i wasn't aware of. lol - not that it helps me much. flying blind here.
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Quote by MadMartigan
Partly incorrect. You know she’s wanted the both of us at the same time for eons. Which isn’t quite as long as how much you’ve wanted me. Which is only a century. That vampire life just makes the wait all the sweeter.
Just cause you suck, it doesn't mean you're a vampire.
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Quote by Verbal
Got paid $3 into the PayPal account for a story this morning. Being a pornographer really pays off! I'll take my proceeds and buy a Slim Jim, which all the denizens of the bar may then split.
Sent out three more stories too.
Oh, fuck it, it's afternoon but I already fixed the weather stripping on the back door, so slide me a beer.
that'll cost you $3 - and don't pretend you don't have the cash, mister.
congratz! 
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Quote by Verbal
Got paid $3 into the PayPal account for a story this morning. Being a pornographer really pays off! I'll take my proceeds and buy a Slim Jim, which all the denizens of the bar may then split.
Sent out three more stories too.
Oh, fuck it, it's afternoon but I already fixed the weather stripping on the back door, so slide me a beer.
that'll cost you $3 - and don't pretend you don't have the cash, mister.
congratz! 
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Quote by Verbal
Comp entry is up, ladies and germs.
Yeah, it's dark, but it's pretty hot too. A certain girl, whom modesty forbids me to name (but whose name rhymes with Blayla), said, and I quote, it made her "throbby."
Slaya? Kayla? Payola? don't keep us on pins and needles here, Furball!
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Quote by Verbal
It is very much a turn on to think that a woman is cumming from reading one of my stories.
That should be an option in the comments box:
* came
* didn't cum
also:
* squirted
* gushed
* got embarrassingly wet
* laughing so hard i peed a little
* wet my jeans
