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Quote by browncoffee


That does help, thank you.

My friend(!) was planning on writing a poem about the passion she feels about injustice in the world. It would not be targeted at any particular politician but would center on the helplessness that she feels with regard to the suffering/war going on. If this won't work, she's perfectly happy to write about her passionate obsession with a Portuguese man.


my vote goes to the Portuguese man. or, if she's having trouble finding her muse for that, how about the girl from Seattle? *waggles eyebrows*
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Don't say things like this ... I almost choked guffawing. I was expecting a more sedate answer like "industrial strength vibe for worn out pussies".

Sprite ... hope you are progressing and doing well???


could use a massage if you're up to it and plan on being in my part of the country. (btw, ben gay on the nipples. trust me. its under-rated. ;) ).
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My friend wants to know if a 'politically charged' poem would be acceptable.



urgh, ummm... tell your friend to ask Nicola directly on that - she's in charge of comps. is there sex innit? smile
Quote by Ping
Tornado ina bottle


"ina" is not a word.

cranky grammar nazi.


Sometimes it's all about the timing. Alan was actually going to be the next awardee. Had I known there was going to be a time schedule involved...

There's already a lot of tributes going on, but a lot of people have asked me to do this properly, to officially award him this badge, to give him the moment he deserves. I think that says a lot about him.

Alan joined Lush on Oct 19,2009. Listing his accomplishments doesn't seem to do him justice. i know there are a lot of people here who have a way with words much more poetic than i do, and i hope that they put down their thoughts as well. that said, i'll give it a shot. it's a bit disjointed, but... i'll do my best.

Alan was a poet at heart. Not that he couldn't and didn't write short stories and erotica, but his true love was poetry, and he put a lot of love and care into doing just that. i am sure that anyone who knew him, even just as a casual acquaintance, will tell you that he would go out of his way to encourage his fellow writers, pass on whatever advice he had, or just talk the craft. and it went beyond that. giving you a heads up that there was a competition or a publisher was taking submissions for something he thought you would be interested. he had a huge heart - if you loved to write, he wanted to help foster that love.

then, there was the Alan who went after plagiarists tirelessly. god help the thief who stole a story if he caught you at it. he'd go at them like the white knight from hell. he'd help you with that too. but he'd always keep his sense of humor. a lot of his jokes were the kind you groan over, but really, they made you smile all the more for it.

he loved to talk music, too. he played guitar, mostly the blues. loved photography. he was, really, a bit of a renaisance man - an all around artist.

all in all, so many people, here, and on the blue site, were touched by him, either by his words, or his presence. just so you know, his profile and written works will remain here as long as Lush exists. go read his poems, here, and at storiesspace: http://www.storiesspace.com/dirtymartini/stories

he'd like that. a lot. i like to think that, as long as his work exists, he will never be truly gone.

Is happiness something far out of reach?
Something for which we must strive.
Like some far off destination,
Where we hope someday to arrive.

Or is happiness just a commodity?
Something that can be bought,
Or is happiness something we all can learn?
Something that must be taught.

Is our happiness in short supply?
That may someday come to an end,
Or is there enough to go around?
That we can share it with a friend.

There are many things we’ll never know,
Like an envelope that’s always sealed,
And yet as we pass through life,
The answers are slowly revealed.

For we‘re all here for a reason,
As we pass from young to old,
And the longer that we live it,
The more answers will unfold.

And though we entered the world that way,
We were never meant to be alone,
And though we may often try,
We can’t do it all on our own.

For I believe happiness is our purpose,
And a purpose made to share,
To help make happy the ones we love,
And show them that we care.

And whatever our purpose in life may be,
And only time will truly tell,
My only hope is that I’ve served it,
And served my purpose well.

-Alan W. Janakowski.
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Also this seems like a threat, especially after the pm you sent me. Guess a mod picked a fight with a regular member and that member answered back. Guess when a mod goes and picks a fight with you, you shouldn't answer. Because you know they can suspend and/or delete you for good. Seriously, that PM was a threat.


i simply told him that i was done putting myself on the line for him every time he did something that got him into hot water, as i have in the past. if that seems like a threat to him, than perhaps he should be careful about calling other people thin-skinned snowflakes. number of people i have suspended or deleted because i have had personal issues with them to date: zero.

also - definition time.

PM: Private Message.
member sharing contents of private messages in a public forum: Douchebag
Quote by browncoffee
I've never written a serious poem. Now I might. Can they be totally non-sexual? Or do they have to be at least vaguely erotic?


This, from Nicola:

"Passion" has so many connotations, so it would be wide open to interpretation, which usually makes things interesting.
And for this one, I don't mind at all, if the love / sex aspects of the poems, are minimal.
Quote by kiera
This is such a lovely way to honour his memory. I can't wait to read the entries. Best of luck everyone. xo


i expect to see your entry among them. smile
Alan would have enjoyed seeing this. thank you for the opportunity to do something creative in his memory.
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If you're using one of 'those toys', it is a very good idea to keep up with the number of beads.... missing ones might cause problems


oh, ow. yeah, everyonce in a while i read those articles about doctors talking about the things they've had to remove from peoples bottoms. beads wouldn't be so bad. i vividly recall one about a light bulb, tho *winces*
Quote by Smoocher


Easy now, Miss Spriteness ... he was using your abacus and it was missing some beads...NOT his fault IF statistic falls under "alternative fact" now


not the only thing missing some beads around here.
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1.) I didn't mention my "importance", you did. You're projecting your own feelings about me and yourself. And you don't need to send around a memo. It's like one of those times where actions are louder than words. You can say what you want, but you insult my intelligence and everyone else's when you act like mods are completely clueless about what is happening with the site. Look, I get it, john can't defend himself. It's honorable you help him out but not everyone on lush is stupid enough to just believe whatever bullshit.

2.) again, you brought that up, not me. You were the one who implied he was a clueless nothing, not me.

3.) at me feet.


i'm a hypocrite, remember? you said it yourself. why should i act any differently? that said, John didn't know. you can believe whatever you'd like. your opinion really doesn't matter much to me. or, for that matter, most of the people here - you know, all those people you come here just to insult? honestly, i'm tired of your bullshit, so this is the last time i'm going to bother replying to one of your posts.
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Seven Nation Army - The White Stripes


check this out.

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63% of all statistics are made up on the spot.


you made that statistic up, didn't you.
To answer B) as Liz said, it depends on the judges. some might prefer more traditionally scripted stories while others might enjoy stories that are wildly outside the box. there have been times when i've read the comps and fallen in love with a story that i know won't do well because it's pretty out there - that's my tastes speaking. that said, quality is recognized - if there's a gay story, for instance, and a judge isn't into gay stories, but it's above and beyond the rest in quality, they are impartial enough to rank it up at the top of the list.

hope that helps add some insight?
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I think there's a rubric somewhere.


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Hey guys! Just got here!

What? Why's everyone looking at me like that?


cause your flies down.
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I did love someone's idea of having an award in his name for outstanding poetry or something similar. That seems like it would be a fitting tribute to someone who had such a passion for writing and helping others with theirs.


i mentioned wanting to do something like that to Nicki, but to be honest, we're both sort of sorting through this right now. maybe when it's not so fresh. seems it would be more fitting at SS, though.
Quote by TonyaL
Not sure why the rest of you are drinking up but if you care for some company I need to get hammered tonight. Hey I dance after a few shots of tequila shhhh


word of advice. do not let me start in on the tequila. i would like to be invited back some day.
Quote by Milik_the_Red


Drink up. I wanna get numb before I leave. Wonder if Bill will mind me scrawling Alan's poems on the wall?


go for it. not like he's here to say no right now, is he. you want chalk or sharpie? i got both. *dumps out purse on the bar*
Quote by Milik_the_Red
I'm still kind of in a daze from hearing about Alan, aka Dirty Martini. For those who knew him, you will understand why. For those who didn't, well you wouldn't have been able to meet a kinder man.

I'll have me a dirty martini, bill. And a round for the house.


second round is on me. plan on getting drunk, so keep 'em coming. fuck everything. tell Bill i'll pay for anything i break, kay?
I don't take anyone's passing lightly. that said, sometimes i feel the need to try to convey how special someone was to those who didn't know him, or know him well. just wanted to share a few personal stories.

Although Alan wrote some lovely erotica, at heart he was a poet, and a serious one. he wrote a tribute shortly after 9/11 that is well regarded far beyond the borders of Lush. It is called We Shall Never Forget (you can find a video of him reading it on youtube if you'd like). He also published a book called I Often Wonder full of prose, poems, and short stories. He worked tirelessly to promote his work, and the work of others. He'd often send me links about contests or writing submissions that he thought would interest me. Modern Fairy Tales. Short stories based on Alice in Wonderland. that sort of thing.

btw, he is responsible for "Her Royal Spriteness". that's how he used to refer to me. we used to trade silly barbs back and forth on each others walls. I hope that mine made him smile as much as his made me. He was a good man, a sweet man, and he had a huge heart as well as a beautiful mind. As with all friendships, sometimes we'd both wander our own ways for a bit before getting back to each other, but i always knew that i could send him a note anytime i wanted, about anything, and he'd be there. When i first joined, i was just settling down into writing. it was new to me, writing for an audience, writing something that someone besides me would read. he always encouraged me.

i don't know what else to say. someone so bright is no longer with us. i like to think that there's one more star in the night time sky rather than one less.
*nods* just did the same, it is... i knew he was in poor health, but fuck... he was one of the first friends i made here and a delightful and talented author.
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I think you both misunderstood the question....


i think they understood it perfectly.
Quote by chesh78
Congratulations to Puddleduck for being a worthy winner, and to Wordsmith and Duchess for well-deserved runner up places. Some really great stories in the competition, and I enjoyed reading them - now I know the standards I need to get to for next time! smile


i loved reading Alien to Pleasure. it was the most fun i've had reading a story i a long time. smile