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**whines a little** why don't I ever get to see that side of you?! 
Happy Birthday, Wolf boy 
Her Royal Spriteness
What he said. I have a story, it's on the blue site; Wonderland. Two girls who I love (and are very much an extension of myself) who I put through Hell and than, things get worse. It's probably one of the pieces that I'm most proud of writing. I also, at times, hate it, or rather, hate what happens in it. You know how you can tell the difference between writing a good story and a great story? Your characters become your children - you fall in love with them, they become real, and everything that happens to them, that YOU cause to happen to them, hurts. That's how you know when a story needs to be put out to read.
Her Royal Spriteness
all i got to say is, where is my fucking lap dance? i was promised a lap dance, bitches!
in all seriousness, thank you from the bottom of my heart - a few of you who know me too well are aware that i tend to try to just get through the bday without anyone noticing, and that hasn't really changed, but still, thank you Ash and everyone else who posted wishes. love you all
in all seriousness, thank you from the bottom of my heart - a few of you who know me too well are aware that i tend to try to just get through the bday without anyone noticing, and that hasn't really changed, but still, thank you Ash and everyone else who posted wishes. love you all
there. don't know about you, but I feel better now.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by simply_sweet
Oh my gosh!! To quote my favorite fictional news anchor, 'that escalated quickly'. **Note to self: do not join other erotic story sites, for fear of death threats
I'm sorry you had such a negative thing said to you!
On a note more towards this thread... I've got to agree with the many others that have posted here. It wouldn't be a plausible solution to trolls. There will always be trolls. There will always be pests. There will always be troublemakers and the sort. HOWEVER. There will also always be kind people. There will always be helpful people. There will always be a friend or two.
Basically, there will always be a place here for anyone who wants to join Lush. (A certain nutcase who has it out for the admins excluded).
Trust me, I can understand the frustration of being harassed, but in joining an adult site like Lush...I also kind of expected it. After being here for 4 years, and if the trolling has been such a big issue for you...I'm wondering if you've contacted the admin about it before?
As for the negativity that has been running rampant through this thread, I understand and appreciate that you've apologized to the members you feel you offended. However, calling them out in a public forum for not accepting or acknowledging your apology is just going to spark more issues. It is their prerogative to do what they will with your message to them. That's just how apologies work.
@Sprite: what kind of gum are you chewin' and can I have a piece?!
get your own damn gum, this here's special. it's ha-lew-sin-a-jenic.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by GirlyWorld
Please, Dani The Threatener, wield your almighty powers and shut this thing down. It's been a farce.
*chews on my wad of bubble gum while give you a cold hard stare* quit being a dick. feel free to complain or report me, btw, i don't give a fuck. grow up for god's sake. ok, i'm out of here. just wasted a precious 15 seconds on nothing. *blows bubble, pops it* bye.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by GirlyWorld
I already apologized. Why threaten me? Because you can?
I made a suggestion that I was (and am) passionate about. All I ask is that it be taken into consideration.
Thanks,
GW.
wasn't a threat, actually, just some thoughtful advice on getting along. we do that here from time to time. that's how we roll.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by trinket
I also made another post after the one you quoted Sprite, saying that 3 months WAS too long.
Buz I'm not sure about anyone else but I got your message after your first post. .
Anyway it's a great site as it is, glad I'm not one of the people having to deal with some of the newbies (or oldies) ;).
btw, under your rules, since you just re-joined, you wouldn't be able to post here for another couple of months. something to think about.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by elbichosucio
WOW, Cast the 1st stone why don't you? So my perversion/fetish is worse than all of yours? Self righteous bunch here. Your attacks are what people worry about, it's why some don't share their fantasies & such.
I didn't think this was going to be such a big deal but here's some info that I guess I should have included in the beginning:
1) We're the ones that married into the family so I'm not trying to take my brother's wife. I married the sister & she married the brother in the family.
2) They are divorced & he's not with us anymore.
i think the issue here isn't your fetish, it's the way you carried it out - think of it this way, how would you feel if your brother in law came into your house, used your underwear to masturbate with and blew his load into your boxers? that might provide a little perspective here.
personally, if MY brother in law did this, i'd be pretty upset, wondering what else he'd done while he'd been in my house - had he gone thru personal pictures? had he taken things? i don't mind if guys or girls have sexual fantasies about me, but that's taking it a step to far - if i didn't know, obviously, it would never be an issue, but now she knows - can you imagine how uncomfortable that might be for her to think about at every family get together? just some thoughts.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by elbichosucio
WOW, Cast the 1st stone why don't you? So my perversion/fetish is worse than all of yours? Self righteous bunch here. Your attacks are what people worry about, it's why some don't share their fantasies & such.
I didn't think this was going to be such a big deal but here's some info that I guess I should have included in the beginning:
1) We're the ones that married into the family so I'm not trying to take my brother's wife. I married the sister & she married the brother in the family.
2) They are divorced & he's not with us anymore.
i think the issue here isn't your fetish, it's the way you carried it out - think of it this way, how would you feel if your brother in law came into your house, used your underwear to masturbate with and blew his load into your boxers? that might provide a little perspective here.
personally, if MY brother in law did this, i'd be pretty upset, wondering what else he'd done while he'd been in my house - had he gone thru personal pictures? had he taken things? i don't mind if guys or girls have sexual fantasies about me, but that's taking it a step to far - if i didn't know, obviously, it would never be an issue, but now she knows - can you imagine how uncomfortable that might be for her to think about at every family get together? just some thoughts.
Her Royal Spriteness
not the answer you want to hear, i know, but no. there's no good way to do it without hurting her. that's what you have to remember, this isn't about you dodging the bullet - this is about you telling the woman you promised not to hurt something that is going to hurt her to the core. understand that and don't go looking for sympathy or finding a way to get away scott-free. make sure that, when you tell her, accept the blame, don't try to put in on her, don't try to be defensive - just simply accept that you are an asshole and you deserve everything she throws at you.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by trinket
If a new member had to wait 3 months before they could post on the forums or some other feature I would think they would go somewhere else to create havoc.
quite honestly, if i'd have joined under this system, i would have lost interest and gone elsewhere. the idea is to actually make Lush grow as a site, not chase people off in droves.
