i also don't need to cyber. it's not my thing, just having sex talks with random people while getting off in my living room. i'd much rather have meaningful conversations with people i care about and yes, some of those are sex talks, but it's different when you have a connection with someone. maybe, if i was a guy, i'd get it better - seems the guys (don't take this wrong, guys) make up a large part of the 'i want cyber' population here. i know i get hit on whenever i am visible by a lot of guys asking for just that. i always turn them down, tho. usually i am nice about it. to me, tho, Lush was ALWAYS about the stories.
i joined because i found some amazing tales here by brilliant writers (dancing doll and Jaymal were actually the pair who drew me to this site after reading their works). Lush is what you want it to be for you. i have a hard time believing that, with like 5 billion members now, you can't find anyone to cyber with you. maybe you're going about it wrong? anyways, best of luck to you.
happy bday, Ms Callisto!
