i have been involved in semi-polyamourous relationships, not anything serious, though, more like having a gf/bf on the side while in a committed relationship. does that count?
That's okay... *evil giggle*
I was going to post, but then i got lost looking at Nikki's... umm... cute top *blushes*
if she wasn't a co-worker, i'd say just ask her out like you would a girl for your own age. honestly, asking out a co-worker isn't always a great idea unless you're already getting on as friends and she's given you a clear sign that she's interested in you. if she goes 'ew, no way!' things could be uncomfortable after that.
i had someone ask if he could write a kitty girl story, obviously fictional, i said yes, mostly cause i'm too nice... it was weird. in retrospect, i wish i had said no, not cause it wasn't a nice gesture, or bad, just cause it's really sort of... those, of all my stories are so personal. thing was, he was really very polite about it and at the time, after dealing with some messy plagurism issues, i was grateful that he'd at least asked. i just checked, it's still up, tho he hasn't been on the site for 199 days. live and learn. now that i know how i feel about it, i'd politely say NO.
as for suggestions, they don't bother me unless someone keeps pushing them, and i never use them. like Doll says, my stories remain true to themselves, my characters, and what is in my head and i'm flattered that people like them well enough to want imagine them for themselves, but i can't ever see me using those suggestions or ideas.
this makes me sick. akin to blaming a victim for dressy too sexy. "she was asking for it" yeah, right. fuckers. guy should not only have been fired, but charges should have been pressed and he should be doing jail time. just because she's a stripper means she has no rights? if he'd her, would he have gotten off with the same defense? bullshit. i can't believe he got away with this. sick sick sick sick.
my bottom will never have cancer! yay! ummm.... *blushes* you have to actually eat the stuff for it to work, right? not just... nevermind!
yes, but, in my defense, she not only knew, but was present at the time and yes, i fucked her too and it wasn't just once.
that said, without her knowing? nope. i am guilt free on breaking the girl-code as well. somethings you just don't do.
