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Well, I've a worn, leathery, craggy face, would that work? Think of it like a...Harley's motorcycle seat.
does that mean it vibrates?
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this one might not be for everyone - based on a true story about a serial , one of his victims who is accused of lying about her assault, and the two detectives trying to catch him. it's hard to watch at times, but it's also so fascinating that you really can't stop watching once you start. and yeah, they got it right in so many ways.
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hi Sam. What UtterChaos said is 100% on. just going to add a little too it.
D/s relationships require trust. on both the part of the Dom/me and the sub. any good Dom/me and sub should take time getting to know each other both as sexual beings and as people. and it's not just about the sex. sex is only part of it. sometimes a huge part, but also, sometimes a much smaller part. and yeah. there are going to be guys online who really just want to jump in and tie someone up (virtually, of course) and cyber and get off - if that's what someone is looking for, than fine - it sounds to me, though, that you are looking for something more than that to explore.
my advice, just keep looking around, meet new people, and if you find someone you click with, someone willing to chat, to get to know you, that doesn't want to just jump into the sex, than just let it develop naturally, just like any relationship and, when you're both ready, take it to another level, one you are comfortable with. by then, btw, they should have a very good idea what you are comfortable with and you should have developed a bond of trust. otherwise, yeah, it's just kind of a fuck session.
i've done the online thing a couple of times, and both time it was with people i considered good friends before we became a D/s couple. i'm also currently involved with a Domme IRL (2.5 years now) and it is not all about sex all the time and we took it nice and slow and talked a lot of things through before trying them...
in either situation, communication and honesty are key - and that goes for the sub too - if something bothers you, if you don't like something, stop, and talk it through and explain your feelings. also, if there's something you really want to try and are embarrassed, you need to trust your Dom/me enough to be able to talk to them about it.
hope that helps. and my PM box is always open if you have questions you don't want to put out in public. no pressure, but just an option.
Rachel
D/s relationships require trust. on both the part of the Dom/me and the sub. any good Dom/me and sub should take time getting to know each other both as sexual beings and as people. and it's not just about the sex. sex is only part of it. sometimes a huge part, but also, sometimes a much smaller part. and yeah. there are going to be guys online who really just want to jump in and tie someone up (virtually, of course) and cyber and get off - if that's what someone is looking for, than fine - it sounds to me, though, that you are looking for something more than that to explore.
my advice, just keep looking around, meet new people, and if you find someone you click with, someone willing to chat, to get to know you, that doesn't want to just jump into the sex, than just let it develop naturally, just like any relationship and, when you're both ready, take it to another level, one you are comfortable with. by then, btw, they should have a very good idea what you are comfortable with and you should have developed a bond of trust. otherwise, yeah, it's just kind of a fuck session.
i've done the online thing a couple of times, and both time it was with people i considered good friends before we became a D/s couple. i'm also currently involved with a Domme IRL (2.5 years now) and it is not all about sex all the time and we took it nice and slow and talked a lot of things through before trying them...
in either situation, communication and honesty are key - and that goes for the sub too - if something bothers you, if you don't like something, stop, and talk it through and explain your feelings. also, if there's something you really want to try and are embarrassed, you need to trust your Dom/me enough to be able to talk to them about it.
hope that helps. and my PM box is always open if you have questions you don't want to put out in public. no pressure, but just an option.
Rachel
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Quote by Verbal
Wow. Just saw the trailer. That looks really good! On the list!
Any other binge-ing (how do you spell that word?) suggestions? We have Netflix, Hulu, Prime and HBO.
Doom Patrol on HBO. Sex Education on Netflix. Umm... I hear Dark, on netflix? is really good - dark and scary, but i haven't watched it. Umbrella Academy on Netflix. that's for starters
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Quote by Verbal
Oh my God, did you really lose a leg? I missed why you left, when you left. I am so sorry (unless I am horribly mistaken). Please accept my condolences, and my stupidity for not knowing.
Whatever Grace likes, bartender.
Not much up here. I have a "counseling" session concerning the Major Life Change. Helping my eldest buy a car later today too.
So happy you get to see your daughter after 200 plus days TG.
Ping (excuse me, KENNY), we are sorta casting about for the next binge. Maybe The Americans. LJ loved Keri Russell (again, all I know is she used to have cool hair in Felicity). Maybe Ozark. Maybe Better Call Saul.
An actual Mets game today! They got shut down for Covid and haven't played for 5 days.
Coffee would be a home run in the game of my life. Or at least a solid double down the third base line.
Next binge should be teenage bounty hunters on Netflix. Trust me. Its brilliant.
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wait... it's okay to talk about sex here? That's not what i was told! dammit! all these years wasted!
in all seriousness, Sam, we do our best to keep it open, warm, and non-judgemental. and sexy as hell, so just be yourself and talk about whatever you feel comfy with and ask questions and in no time at all, talking about sex will seem pretty damn natural.
in all seriousness, Sam, we do our best to keep it open, warm, and non-judgemental. and sexy as hell, so just be yourself and talk about whatever you feel comfy with and ask questions and in no time at all, talking about sex will seem pretty damn natural.
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Quote by Enchanted_DreamSam
50 dollars I would say is my limit for one, I don't want to spend any higher than that. Thanks for your help, I appreciate it!
ok, so scratch the Lelo Ina 2 off your list - an amazing toy, but waaaay over your budget. lol.
that said, here's two articles that might help
https://nymag.com/strategist/article/best-rabbit-vibrators.html
https://sextoycollective.com/best-vibrators/rabbit/
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Quote by GrushaVashnadze
I am still finding my feet here, and still working out what is acceptable and what is not in a Lush story. Some issues are going to depend upon the subjective judgement of the moderators - which may vary. But there is clearly a preferred underlying "house style" - which makes itself evident in the sorts of stories which tend to win competitions. That may annoy me at times - but I figure that if I join a club I need to try to follow the house rules and not get too annoyed if someone tells me to button my shirt and put on my jacket before entering the premises.
My first story was at first rejected by the lovely Curvy, and further edited by the charming Chris M. One area they had trouble with didn't surprise me: I guess I was rather cheekily hoping they wouldn't notice - but damn, they did. The other area of contention took me completely by surprise, and rather annoyed me at the time. Either way, changing my story to fit their demands wasn't too onerous. If I had really objected, I could have gone elsewhere - but I reckon that Lush is the best of literary smut sites, and I am honoured to be here.
Since then, Curvy and Chris and all the other moderators I have come into contact with have been utterly lovely: supportive, encouraging, and doing their best to be fair within the rules of the site. If they sometimes cramp my style a bit, it is probably a price worth paying for being part of a community of some of the best writers there are in this genre.
So, thanks, guys!
Grusha
my only real issue with your stories is that you don't use the word 'fuck' enough. pretty sure you're slacking if you don't squeeze it in at least every other sentence.
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Quote by vanessa26
Do you have your laser ready? Because I'd be happy AF if you lasered up that story stealing twatasaurus like the laser wielding Ms Jesus baby we both know you are
Not much to rage about really
Other than the fact that my in laws are trying to worm their way back into my life
and I am not having it. Sorry but when you treat me like trash while I am dating you son
Then have the nerve to wear black to our wedding and invite your friends to do the same like its a funeral
then you tell me things like I deserve to die and you hope one day I kill myself
then to top it off you back into my fucking car then refuse to pay.. Yeah I have no need for you in my life.
You don't like me and I don't like you.. So don't fucking bother talking to me because you won't like what I have to say.
Ps it turns out I had some stuff to vent about
Kate and i would be happy to volunteer as your new in-laws. do we need to fill out an application?
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Quote by spunkymonkey707The names SpunkyMonkey707, and I'm a newbie to this fun site, this is my 1st post at 'Self-Promotion', so here goes.....
Many, many years ago I started scanning the covers of old erotic paper back books, I think I've got a hundred or so ready at the moment.
You should be able to find Vol 1 on myProfile page. (I tried to insert a link for it, it previewed ok, but when I click 'Post' and try the link it just says 'blocked' ??
If there is any interest I'll start adding the rest in the series.
Please tell me if I've posted this in the wrong section, or run afoul of some rule or forum etiquette I missed....
Many Thanks. SpunkyMonkey707.
as a spam deterrent, members can't post photo links in forum posts until they've made 20+ posts, so once you do, it should work fine. also, welcome to Lush. The world can always use more monkeys.
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Quote by Enchanted_DreamSam
I'm excited that I am going to buy my first rabbit. I've always wanted to buy it but it always looks so intimidating to me. The issue for me is to relax and to just get into the feeling, I think my issue is to just let go. For some reason, I always hold back and I think if I bought one, it would help me release better somehow. If you have any tips for me or what kind of rabbit to buy, please let me know. I'd love to hear your tips and advice. Thank you!!
hi Sam and congratz. If i can ask, what is your budget?
and don't worry about them looking intimidating. just give it a stern talking to you and let it know who is boss and you'll be fine. 
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Quote by utterchaos
Hi. I did a search and cannot find a post regarding acceptable content for my specific question.
We also do not accept stories including content pertaining to , abusive situations, graphic violence, totally unwilling participants, drugging, dangerous sexual acts, knife play, mutilation, suicide or death.
I'm writing a graphic, hardcore book. I have some upcoming scenes with breath play in. Is this disallowed under the "dangerous acts" part of the acceptable content with it being one of the most dangerous acts you can do? I've seen that there are story submissions that include the breath play tag and it is mentioned in the section description. Is a certain level of breath play that is ok? IE face sitting is fine, but anything regarding water, hands or something tied around the neck out? It is consensual. I'm happy to rewrite/omit all references if it falls foul of the rules. Many thanks for any help you can give x
breath play is allowable as long as it is done with consent and nobody dies. and yes, the includes water, hands, or something tied around the neck. if you have any specific questions about the scene, feel free to contact me or one of the the other lovely story moderators and we'll be happy to advise you.
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Quote by MdeSade64
I happened upon this thread and read all the messages. As I got near the end, I saw the inevitable baring of teeth and snide remarks. I was very active on this site until a few years ago. I got tired of the "drama" that seemed to be everywhere.
I published one story in 2013. I have no idea who the editor was. But, there was a lot of back and forth to fix things. I decided to submit a second but got fed up. Why? It was explained to me that OK was unacceptable. I had to write out okay. That's the one that has stuck to me like super glue. But what was infuriating, was, reading numerous stories with OK. In addition, more stories than I could count with innumerable typos and outright spelling as well as grammatical errors.
I decided that it wasn't worth the frustration and annoyance to bother trying to fix that story, nor to submit another.
hey, just so you know, the team that currently mods the stories in 2020 has very little in common with the team of 2103. i remember those days when mods would quibble about things like that -i like to think that the current team has loosened up quite a bit. also, and this goes for everyone, if you find a change that you feel is unacceptable and quibbling, and you can't get any satisfaction from the moderator editing your story, feel free to contact me and i'll take a look. it doesn't always mean i'll take your side, but sometimes it really is just a matter of miscommunication.
for the record, i prefer "okay" but "OK" works too. :)
knowing this, i hope you might feel compelled to publish again, Mde.
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Quote by utterchaos
I've been really happy with my edits. No idea how I've got punctuation issues after reading and re-reading about twenty times (using premium Grammarly) but I'm thankful someone took the time to correct my mistakes. I did have a word "Thuddy," changed to Thudding in my recent submission but I don't mind. I may have to add a note if I deliberately use a non-word next time for my delinquent idiot otherwise people might think he's intelligent
*nods* it's always helpful if, when you submit a story, you make a note of any unconventional spelling, grammar, etc with and explanation of why. As long as it makes sense, our friendly mods will usually honor your request.
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Quote by noll
With that many stories ripped from Lush maybe ot makes more sense if Lush takes some action for the collective authors* involved. It's also in Lush's interest if its stories are somewhat exclusive I guess.
Have you contacted Nicola or any mods about this?
* I don't think my stories are on that site, but even if they were, I licensed my stories under a Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0 International License, but I guess most authors do mind such copying.
we're already aware of the issue and have contacted the host site about it.
Silly me... thanks Rachel.
