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stridepower
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 44
United States

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My All time favorite. Keeps me center.

Desiderata - by Max Ehrmann 1927

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be critical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy.
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Quote by Betheny
It depends on your definition of fucked but I've had sex with three different women in a foursome in the day. That may or may not fit your definition.


I don't think the "somes" count, Betheny. Do they?
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Everywhere but the bedroom. The kitchen, in front of the living room window...anywhere but the bedroom.
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My hot director, who is my boss's boss. She's tall, slender and with some ass on her. She's divorced and not getting any as she has mentioned to some trusted people. And hasn't gotten any for a long time. I do think I will fuck her because we are at this 'flirt-stalemate' where I do not yet know how or if to push it forward and I think she's in the same boat. The sexual tension between us has been there since my interview. During the winter I told her I like her high boots, and for the rest of the winter she wore those types. She will often stop by to talk to someone and turn her has toward me, then look to see if I am looking. At first, stupid me did not get it. But once I got it, I look and make sure she catch me looking, then I would lick my lower lip and she would smile and brush aside her hair. I know I can fuck her for a lot of other things that has happened between us, but two things holding me back. 1. When I was younger I fucked a lot of females from work and was sort of a badly kept secret. It was fun because I got to fuck more females because of the rep, but I was also not taking seriously on the work front. It was more than I have ever wanted all kinds of people to know about me in the "unhidden" public. Anything I do at work nowadays, I want a certainty that the person will keep it between us or at least not anyone at work. She has two great girlfriends at work and I know they talk about things like that and one is my boss. 2. I do not know if she will accept that I just want to fuck her as often as possible, and do lots of other naughty things with her, but no relationship.
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I don't know where to start. Basically, everything I guess. Even the little "female-ness" that is generally annoying to guys, is severely missed when not around. Women are caring, thoughtful, sweet-smelling, neat, clean, etc. I love em all. And their bodies are fucking amazing! If I go too much into describing what I like about their bodies, this may just get a little too hot:-) Frankly if women are not on this earth, I would pack my shit and leave. Annoying as they may be sometimes, you cannot live without them.
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Stephanie I commend you for this, because it gets at the basics. I do wanna say however, that things like what are you wearing and whether the person is wearing jeans or some sexy panties varies and is based on the aura about the conversation and preference. For example, I don't like those "I'm wearing this sexy panties..." reply unless if it is true. I prefer the person to be as truthful as they can be, because that allows me to use their present environment or something real about them to get them wet. And maybe this is only me, but though I see most gals write in their profile that they like drawn out play, I find that the majority of women (not all) I have encountered on here wants to get straight to it. That is fun for some, but bland for me. I would more prefer for the conversation to be about sex and as we go along, then it get a little more direct.

As I said before, you are on point as it relates to the basics, but just like the real thing, cyber-fucking is different for different people. I think the one constant that can be said is that you be very descriptive with your words. And for majority of the people, not all (remembering the prudes), try being explicit as possible. I think Cyber-Fucking is in essence about being naughty, so expensive language or vagueness does not help, but good grammar so that the person understands what's being said is essential.
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Oh fuck yeah, I insist! I like sex to be as uninhibited as possible and the whole 'respect' thing has nothing to do with sex. It is just a matter of what each person likes. Even the prudes have the right to not like dirty talk, but we who do, don't like the prudes and they shouldn't like us either. I can't just say "something", I'm not fucking at the moment. What I can say is that I like to direct and use explicit words. I would rather say "turn so I can get at that pussy and asshole", than say "turn around so I can eat you". It all depends on the flow of the moment. I will use "slut", because a slut is in it for the sex.

Unless the woman asks me to say "whore", I tend not to use it cause it implies, imho, that she's having sex for money. Not because of some huge morality thing, but if I am fucking you because I pay you, there is nothing special about you giving me your pussy - anyone with the right price can get it, even if they have small dick and can't fuck.
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I don't think it is one or the other, but I will not cum if she doesn't cum. Otherwise what's the point of fucking? If you are guy and just wanna cum, buy some smuts and soap. But if you are gonna fuck a a precious creation like a woman, you MUST earn the respect of the pussy. You must beat it up and make it purr. Anything less, you do not deserve being called back. Maybe this is not obvious, but sex is a ton more fun when the woman cums - even more if she cums multiple times in a session.
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I prefer my girl bare, but trim works. Bare allows me to put that pussy on a "platter" and devour it in every which way.
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I think (and I may be wrong here) that an extremely huge majority of folks would prefer sex without a condom. Sex with condom is more often due to necessity rather than preference. I too prefer sex without a condom, but I wouldn't risk my health or getting someone pregnant by mistake. Sex without condom, in my view, feels better and gives you a lot more options.
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My very first was 8 years older, but the oldest was I think 20 years older. I was 18 and she was 38, and "hOT to try":-) We were camping at another friend's house for our HS exit exams. Great times.
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Quote by Dani
I sure do.

The idea of it used to freak me out, because I never enjoyed the sensation of a moist towelette down there.

But a warm tongue is something else entirely...


Great improvement Dani {still the virgin?}, you've got mad potential.
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I will gladly fuck a guy's wife or GF if he wants me to and I am sexually attracted to her and if he does NOT require that he be present. Sharing my girl; if it is an open relation or FWB and that is her thing, sure, otherwise NO. In the case of sharing my own girl in an open relationship, I do not wanna be present. In the case of FWB, if there is another female for me, I can be present.
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For me it is the host of things that can be consolidated under one label. I think the best way to label my turn-on "thing" is "The Presentation". How a female presents, display her sexy parts. I say "sexy parts" because it is not limited to just how she displays the pussy or ass or tits, it also covers the metaphysical like her "aura" or how she looks prior to the clothes coming off. Example of these "things" are; she in panties with the panties pulled aside revealing her pussy, or seeing her boy-shorts-covered pussy mound from the back, or she's in a t-shirt and a lace panties, or she's in a summer dress that hugs a great figure especially her ass. It also could be she in a dinner-dress, looking fucking sexy and she's about to go to a "proper" event, but I have plans for her prior to her leaving. For me I love the "journey" as well as the destination, and the only aspect of my life where I can be accused of patience is when it comes to sex - I like to take my time and I like exploring every part of the female body.
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Quote by Dani


Much better...now it can be added to the official Lush templates.

Thanks!


I agree!! But please, not the clown!!! It's frightening!!!
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Quote by Dani
I'm a virgin.


Well Dani, let's assume this one is not for you yet okay? Here is a letter for you

Dear Ms. Dani:

Thank you for the opportunity of introducing yourself and discuss your qualifications on this subject.

Believe you me that we are very impressed your level of experience, and though this topic may be about your head at the moment, we have concluded that we should ensure you get wet often on Lush so that you van go get some already. We sincerely regret how unfair the gods have been to you so far, and we aim to help you qualify for this topic - hopefully soon.

You have our best wishes for success in getting an opportunity you deserve - getting cum in you at least. We will retain your sex profile on our minds to review for topics like these in the future. In the event you need help to correct such unfairness please do reach out to our Lush members (guys and gals) - oh they are more than qualified. Satisfaction is guaranteed, so do not hesitate to contact us.

We appreciate your interest and the time you have invested in introducing yourself on "Cum inside or not?" topic.

Very truly yours,



the Power of the Stride

Human Resources Director, "Cum inside or not?" topic.
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
Mea culpa. Nice girl that I am, I was suckered into a pity-fuck! lol I was working as a server in a restaurant over the summer after my freshman year of college. There was your usual share of pretty girls and hot guys among the staff, and most of us were dating, or having sex with each other. But there was this one nerdy Jewish kid who was really sweet, but very shy and awkward with girls, so he never got up the courage to ask any of us out, especially after being shot-down by a couple of girls already, but he and I got to be friend-zone type friends, and he kind of hung around me like a puppy. Then, a little past the middle of summer, he had to have an operation to remove one of his nuts, and when he came back to work, he was mortified about losing part of his manhood, and just to ask him about how he was doing after the surgery, we really had to coax him to open up about it, but he was afraid everyone but me would make fun of him. So some of the guys kept pushing me to go out with him, since I was the main object of his dreams, and pretty soon even the other girls were telling me I was the one who should have sex with him, to convince him he was still able to function, and get a girl in bed with him. I finally gave in and agreed to 'take one for the team'! lol I asked him to come home with me to help me move some furniture around in my apartment after he had healed enough, and after we got done, I cooked dinner for him and let him hang around all evening, and finally let him spend the night with me.



Well Bethany. Did he perform well as far as getting you there - was it worth it? And did he appreciate the assistance?
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She should throw away her inhibitions and enjoy the moment - that's all I require. No morality bullshit.
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I think the meaning, outside or within sexual encounters doesn't change. Whether it is used to injure or pleasantly excite is what changes depending on when it is used. Simply put it is a female with an adventurous and open-minded attitude to sex. I like the meaning within sexual encounters and use it only then. In my view, every woman should be fucked like a "slut" - the best kind of fucking. I also think that the best women to fuck are those that have that QUALITY in them. Fucking a woman who REALLY loves to be fucked is a cut above rest.
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In an office. In the parking lot of a grocery store when it is parked, but at night and in a secluded corner. At a movie theater. In the pew at a church.
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So LadyKush is hOt as fuck!! There are bad things I would gladly do WITH her.
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For me I have always been attracted to older women/girls and they have also been attracted to me as well. But I think for me, the attraction has been that they often know what they want, how they wanna be fucked. As I grew up, I also noticed that they are more appreciative when they are fucked good. Sure the young women have a hot body and they can handle marathon fucking...well usually, but when you make a younger woman cum, to her it's just another good fuck. On the other hand, the older women don't see it just as another good fuck, they understand that not every other guy can consistently make a woman cum, so they appreciate YOU a lot more. Also, it is usually straight forward, no games about what they want in the relationship. I also find them a lot more adventurous and appreciative of spontaneity. Like having her come out of work in the middle of the day to meet you just so she can leave her panties behind and work the rest of the day without or just so you can put a finger in her pussy for a few minutes and send her back to work.
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Quote by intellect
for me... calling me names.. slut, bitch,.. anything which relates to treating me like a whore.. i absolutly hate then.. they are major turn off


So let me get this straight. Your man is fucking your pussy, ass or whatever; and this is carnal sex...and you prefer for him to talk to you how? "Hey Princess of Mane, I enjoy your sweet cherry blossom?" Wow! Now that attitude in a partner, is a turn-off for me.
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If I must pick one, then the pussy is my choice. But I do not like restrictions when I am fucking and I like to cum anywhere I want, so here is my order of preference:

1. In the Pussy
2. In her asshole
3. Between her butt-cheeks
4. On the pussy
5. In her mouth
6. On her face
7. On or between her breast
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No, I haven't. If I am not at least physically attracted to the person (lusting after them in some form), my elite will not even rise to the occasion. I do know of friends who, after not getting lucky with the girl(s) they were interested in, fucks girls they are not usually into only because they were horny. I am totally unable to function like that so they would say I am picky. I may forgo the drop-dead gorgeous girl if the pickings aren't smooth, but whomever I go home with, I must be attracted to in a physical sense. Otherwise, I would rather take a cold shower, but most of the time I made a booty call to solve the problem.
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I think it has to do with his girl not wanting to get pregnant. If that is the case, an option will be to fuck her pussy with condom till she cums, then remove the condom and fuck her asshole till you cum. Win, win!!
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Oh HELL to the FUCKING YES!!!:-) I like to tease, so there are times when I only eat the pussy...get her close and let her return for the dick. When she returns, even a slight blow sends her over the edge.
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I'm a guy and I will tell you that he is not into you. My advice would be to move on. Sure, you have a broken heart, but staying in that relationship will just hurt you and break you. That you do not want because you will loose your self esteem and become that "bitter baggage" lady. Don't go for the "sunk-cause fallacy". Move on Babygurl. You will find another....I promise you that.
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Hmm...that is not an easy question, because there have been many notable ones. But one I remember offhand was the only redhead I have ever been with.
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Oh hell yeah, I date any race. If there is anyone who is grateful for the female body? I am. And I love fucking women from all races.