Sweetmmouse's Forum Posts

7 May 2017

I want to to thank everyone for the advice. We did talk and both decided that we both have relationship issues. He with 3 divorces and me with my one divorce. we both did agree that we allowed the relationship to change on its on but we both really like the "friends" relationship. Don't get me wrong the sex is out of this world. I know that he is afraid of getting hurt again and he doesn't want to hurt me. and Vice versa. So we are just "friends" but agree that we won't date any one else but each other. we know we love each other but we know that what we have can only be in distant that we will never touch or catch.

I don't want to look for anyone else I know where my heart lies and I am okay with just waiting. They say those who wait will win at the end. So I wait.

Thanks again.
Sweetmmouse

View Post

29 Apr 2017

I am so confused right now. I was married for 28 years and he walked out on me. No notice or anything. That was 2 yrs ago. I met a man about 1 1/2 months later. he kept asking me out and of course i kept saying not interested. I finally gave in and went out. We both agreed that we were not looking for a relationship (which was fine with me.) we went out several times and things between us started heating up. We became more than friends and we both believe we fell in love with each other. Everything was fine until about 6 months ago. Now he wants to be just "friends" I really confused.

Why now? Did I do something wrong? I know our ages are so different that people have issues with it. But why now does he want to take things back to the beginning. He still tells me that he loves me.

Just so confused.

View Post