It is a very interesting discussion. I have always thought that cuckolding involved the knowledge of the extra-marital affair, whether the cuck approves or wants it to happen or not. Without that knowledge it is simply cheating.
The humiliation or lack of consent can of course be erotic but at least it is an open issue between the couple.
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theweeman
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 154
Australia
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The highs? the transfer of power to Mistress, the feeling of the horse whip on my bottom, being told what to do and doing it without thought., the gradual pushing of boundaries and the love for Mistress. Seeing Mistress's smile as I please her
The lows? visiting Mistress and not being spanked or whipped. I came to see her spanking me as an expression of her love
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The lows? visiting Mistress and not being spanked or whipped. I came to see her spanking me as an expression of her love
New to this ? Golden Rule is the three C's.
Communicate
Communicate
Communicate
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yes i am. However, i am submissive anyway and being humiliated excites me. It helps of course that my penis is very small - 3" or thereabouts hard. I have a theory that - generally - whilst not all small penised men are submissive, most submissives have small penises
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My wife was my Domme for a short while and she is two years my junior, however my most fulfilling sub experience was a long relationship (8 years) I had with a Domme 9 years older than me. Whilst acknowledging those who say that it is skill not age that matters, with age comes skill. My preference then is for an older woman who knows how to punish naughty boys.
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I think that is part of the trust which a submissive gives to his Domme. That is, the trust that She will respect his submission and not humiliate him with it. In my experience there are many many people that this fetish can be exposed to without harm, but there are some which have the potential to seriously harm. Workmates, vanilla friends and family mainly.