"I'd like to tell you a bit about me since you've shared your story. Then I'll explain what I'm thinking, and you can see if it might make sense." I explained that as a happily divorced older man, I had several girlfriends that I met up with. But the woman I wanted to talk about was a friend of mine called Cath. We had known each other for some years, and in fact, we had met and become lovers while I was still married - i...