First wife had a small clit still fun. My second wife had a clit that grew to a mega clit. About 3/4"-1" and the thickness of her pinky finger. I enjoy all clits but to have another big one would be fantastic. Both wives have passed away.

Twice, first one for over 50 years. We live 2000 miles apart nether would cheat on our spouses and the time one of us was single the other one wasn't.
The second was my boss, black educated lady, but she said, and rightfully so, that it would be fun but neither of us could pull it off without guilt.
My beautiful brown skin boss. We were both mid 40 s. I was the maintenance superintendent and she was the project manager, built like a brick outhouse. We are ahead on all the work stuff and start talking about our many similar life experiences. Soon the talk is getting intimate. She ask if I ever been with a black lady and I inform her I have not but there is always a first time. She admits to never having been with a white guy. We talk about the complications of work relationships and neither of use wanting to ruin our marriages. She tell me if she did she could see me with her. We finished the day with mutual orgasms.
Youngsters usually go for quick and hard, but you learn that long soft sex has its own set of rewards including partners becoming more receptive to accepting to try new things. Don't get me wrong even in our 60 s we enjoyed down and dirty quick hard poundings till her pussy was raw and going dry and my cock felt like it had a blowtorch taken to it.
Was at a biker bar that a bunch of gays did their thing. After I had been friends with the bikers for a while one of them suggested I need to let one of the fags suck me off. Time went on and one work night I stopped in late and this guy offer a few of us rides home. They whispered about who was going to be with me the driver won and soon we were in my bed.