it takes more of a real man to drop his ego and relinquish control. this lifestyle has a quality that is the foundation like no other. the relationship is built on deep hearted trust. hyperbole.... she tells you to bend over for a spanking, she say no this time the other way. now there is so much of the unknown that could happen, although I have to and I am going to trust her to respect my boundaries as I hers and she is going to take me right up to that line without crossing it, she may see more in me than I do and push the limit, to build strength and build trust, because while she pushes me to what I thought was a limit, she wants more, she wants proof I will give her more, she will never cross the line. so let's say we agreed on 10 spanks, the wonderful thinking of a woman is in her mind administers 10 rapid fire smacks to his front, and stops and tells him that's one, then 10 rapid impacts with a spatula, she says that is 2, and so on. he never saw that coming from a mile away. its just a very cool relationship in my opinion. the lifestyle isn't all about discipline that is just an example or an example how discipline can be fun for both partners. are there women that have an interest in trying a Female led relationship? am I looking for a fictional character?

is this a test? I thought I wasn't allowed to wear anything to bed except a heavy shackle around the balls and a smile - she must have immediate easy access to everything.