We were twenty-three and had been running with the same group of friends for about three years. Between the parties, the clubs, and our recent trip to Cancun, my girlfriend Kim had earned herself a reputation. Our friends, most of them Asian like us, didn't get it. They thought she was disrespecting me, that I couldn't keep her in line. What they didn't know was that I loved it. Watching her with other men was the biggest...