Can you please give me a detailed description of what it feels like/what happens with your pussy/clit/etc when your starting to get turned on?
Im a guy so for me I basically feel some tingling in my penis and balls then I basically feel the blood flow increasing then it feels like my balls are rising or lowering and I can feel my dick swelling up and increasing in size, I usually feel the need to contract and release my pelvic floor muscles/the muscles I stop pee with if my dick isn't fully hard that basically causes my dick to move up and down. Eventually my dick is fully hard.
Im just curious what women feel. It would be great if women could give me a detailed description of what its like for them.
1. If its porn are there any specific categories you watch?
2. If its erotic stories are there any specific categories?
3. Do women ever jerk off with pictures? like pictures of guys you slept with or guys you want to sleep with. Im not saying nudes or dick pics just pictures that remind you what the person looks like and helps you fantasise?
4. Iv watched porn where a woman was masturbating to straight porn and she was saying the guy in the video should fuck the woman harder. Why was she saying that instead of something like fuck me harder? Do women not picture them self as the woman in the scene?
5. How do women think of their pussy in terms of sex? Obviously women can play a dominant or submissive role when it comes to sex but how do women think about sex in their mind when they aren't thinking in terms of playing that dominant or submissive role for example do women think of it as they want to fuck a guy or do they think of it as they want to be fucked by a guy? how are most women thinking about it? like do the physical differences between men and women make women think of sex any different?
Im a guy thats constantly horny so that means I have a high sex drive and a dick thats constantly seeking my attention.
If I'm out I don't wear underwear because it feels too warm and feels like iv no room to move around in which means I need to be extra careful about random erections because if I were to get an erection there would be nothing holding them back and everyone would see them.
That means taking care of the urges before I go out... the night before or in the morning or even again in middle of the day if I feel them coming back again so that erections don't happen unless I want them to.
The other reason I need to take care of things before they happen specially if I'm going out is because if I don't then I will keep getting erections all day and thats like exercising a muscle all day which means when you finally take care of it at the end of the day the erection hurts because iv been flexing my dick muscles all day.
If Im not going out then its not so bad because I can just masturbate if I'm horny.
I think at the minimum I have to have sex every night or I need to masturbate at least a few hours every night to keep it happy but even then Im just as horny in the morning and through the day that I'm just trying to handle it if its a day off I would probably be having sex or masturbating more.
I was wondering what are pussies like to deal with? Obviously women don't have to hide erections but do you have anything similar? Do women get so horny that they have to masturbate for hours?
Cool Thanks to everyone that responded. I would like to hear your thoughts on the 2nd part of the question:
For me as a guy cumming is when I ejaculate and orgasms are just the contractions that feel good so I class them as 2 very different things. I only fully get off by cumming ejaculating so that means orgasms alone just feel extremely good and pleasurable but they dont really do anything in terms of taking care of the sexual urges / itch.
That means I could hold out and have 3,4 orgasms without ejaculating by having longer sessions or edging etc but after them Im either just as frustrated as when I started or even more frustrated because the orgasms just feel extremely good they dont release any of that sexual build up. The cumming / ejaculating part is where the biggest release happens its like the longer you have sex or the more orgasms you have along the way the bigger the release at the end gets but the things in the middle dont really matter so much until you reach the end at least thats how it feels for me.
Do things work for women in the same way? Like do the orgasms just feel good or do they take away your sexual urges and frustration? I was wondering do women get a release from orgasms or is it exactly the same for women?
The only difference iv noticed is women can seem to stop having sex at any moment without feeling frustrated? Maybe they do get frustrated but dont talk about it I dont know? do you get frustrated? With me I know I would be frustrated even if a woman gave me 10 orgasms but walked away without making me cum/ejaculate. Or are women just better at controlling their feelings and urges?
For guys orgasming is when the pelvic floor muscle contractions happen that send waves of pleasure through their body. Cumming is when the guy ejaculates semen. I know a lot of people dont think of them as 2 separate events because they can happen one after the other or so close together but they can also happen without the other for example you can orgasm without ejaculating or ejaculate without an orgasm etc.
The question:
Is orgasming, cumming, climaxing separate things or different things for a woman in the same way?
Obviously I understand some squirt/female ejaculate, some gush, some just get really wet, some its all just an internal thing but I'm asking are there multiple stages that your aware of for example if a guys just had an orgasm without ejaculating he would automatically know he needs to keep going to get to the next stage cumming which would either mean more orgasms with cumming(ejaculating) or just straight to cumming(ejaculating) depending on how excited he is.
The other part of the question:
A guy only fully gets off when hes cum/ejaculated so that means orgasms feel really good but they dont take care of the urge or itch its more like you feel good but you still know you need to get somewhere which means you still feel like you have to cum/ejaculate. That kind of means even if a guy held back and had 3-4 orgasms without ejaculating he would just feel really good but he would still feel like he needs to cum/ejaculate for things to end if he didn't ejaculate he would still be as frustrated as when he started maybe even more with all the build up to it.
Do women have anything similar to that? Meaning you've orgasmed once or multiple times but you have something equivalent
to a guy cumming/ejaculating that you need to reach to for the urge to go away?
