Wife and I have been together for 13 years. Our sex life is not bad but, I feel it could be better and more stimulating. Basically it is good but rarely "hot" and after being with her for so long, I'm still interested in it being hot with her. She has always been the more reserved one between the two of us when it comes to sex. She is not someone that doesn't like sex, I just feel that she rarely opens up and lets go of her inhibitions even though we've been together so long. I've expressed to her that there is nothing she could do or want that will turn me off from her or make me judge her. I understand that the way to a great sex life with a woman is through her mind and not her vagina. How do I tap into the mind so that when I tap into the vagina, I know she is totally in? If I'm wrong about my perception of her being all in, what are the signs to show it?
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Serene, I agree that this is something to talk about with her. I think my question is a general one to women at large. How do they feel about it, would it be exciting, would it be gross, or is it something they have even thought about? This wouldn't be something for me, rather something I might be willing to consider if it was something that makes her hot. In the end, when she is super hot and horny so am I and good things always come from it
So wife and I have been in the lifestyle for just over a year and have had some good experiences. In doing so, our minds have opened up to more possibilities or we have finally begun to be more open about things that we have always thought/felt. My wife has always thought women are very beautiful and sexy and finally had a girl experience during a playdate. Being the typical male, I have always wanted to see that and thought it was extremely sexy watching two beautiful women pleasuring each other.
In terms of oral sex, my wife has never been shy about kissing me after I have been down on her and she has cum. I love tasting her! Never a peep from her and she has now told me she likes it. In trying to be "fair" we tried it the other way around which, I thought was very hot as well. I love when we kiss after each of us has cum.
In sticking to the "fairness" routine, I have wondered about what she would feel if we had a MFM threesome and the guys did some touching. I'm definitely not gay, but somehow find myself open to maybe feeling the other guy. My thinking is, that she went down on another woman and I thought it was sexy. What would she think? I have thought about helping put another guys dick inside of her while she gives me oral and vice versa. I don't want to have sex with another guy and not really interested in oral either. But the big question is, as a woman how would you feel if your man gave it a go?
In terms of oral sex, my wife has never been shy about kissing me after I have been down on her and she has cum. I love tasting her! Never a peep from her and she has now told me she likes it. In trying to be "fair" we tried it the other way around which, I thought was very hot as well. I love when we kiss after each of us has cum.
In sticking to the "fairness" routine, I have wondered about what she would feel if we had a MFM threesome and the guys did some touching. I'm definitely not gay, but somehow find myself open to maybe feeling the other guy. My thinking is, that she went down on another woman and I thought it was sexy. What would she think? I have thought about helping put another guys dick inside of her while she gives me oral and vice versa. I don't want to have sex with another guy and not really interested in oral either. But the big question is, as a woman how would you feel if your man gave it a go?